If you are able to befriend other men, are they always from a broken home

[turbocuckcel_7000]

I feel like a fucked up home environment changes your personality and makes you more inhibited and low-key in ways that prevents you from connecting with others properly. You'll only connect with men that had the same environment and thus don't feel confident constantly challenging others.

The difficulty I feel in "gelling" and "mingling" with men that come from a good home and are full of confidence is just... insane... it's like we have nothing in common at all.

I met a guy who's a far right conspiracy theorist wary of (((them))) to the core, and guess what, we don't get along well because he is just bursting with confidence and mogging behaviors, his aura is completely different to the point that it nullifies any common interest and we pretty much never hang out unless we're brought together by circumstances.

I get along much better with another guy even though he is a musclebeast who I have less in common with in the raw sense and he is slightly more on the cucked side mentally, we just get along and.. what do you know, he's admitted to me that he's had all sorts of family issues and how that's affected him, wow what a surprise that we get along, this has always been the case with every single male friend that I've ever had at every stage of my life, they all had fucked up childhoods.

Any male with status and power that I've met, there's always been this uncomfortable friction, as their confidence is just so much higher and they love showing it and making status-challenging comments that have me jumping at shadows. This has to be a factor in men ending up as total fuck ups like I did, being too jittery around mentally strong men that hold social clout and are present everywhere in the social arena.

 

[Cheezecel]

There's nothing as blackpilling and humbling like starving because your deadbeat father spends all the food money on drinks and your mother defends him.
Although poor people are often conceited and distrusting, they are very dependable because they know what it is like to really struggle and have nothing and nobody.
Also poverty is correlated with bad looks, low IQ and low inhib so I guess there's that as well which you should keep in mind.

 

[ThirdWorldcel]

Most of my friends growing up were normies in terms of family and frienships, the only friend with a non-normie life was a tall dude who weared a mask sometimes, still, he had a gf.

 

[Deleted member 14805]

Truth be told all of my friends were either abused, from single parent households, bullied etc. TBH it was really refreshing knowing I'm not the only guy suffering. Sadly all of my friends are a bunch of incels in denial. Except one who knocked up a foid, got her pregnant only to have his daughter taken from him, by the baby mama. Harsh even if you manage to ascend.

 

[azakhan]

Ones that are successful all have nice happy families and both parents. And literally everyone I know who is now a junkie, roped himself or ended up as incel didn't have a father figure, myself included.

 

[vic624]

Ones that are successful all have nice happy families and both parents. And literally everyone I know who is now a junkie, roped himself or ended up as incel didn't have a father figure, myself included.

Patriarchy is severely underrated but also overstated. Much of what gets defined as patriarchy is just institutional incel rage, like with Islam. Real patriarchal societies have many patriarchs outside of your biological father. You should have a patriarchal figure at school, in law enforcement, in government. That's basically what Germany was like before WW2, until "the fatherland" fell to "the motherland."

 

[Deleted member 9229]

Nah, there normies

 

[mcfroggy]

Your life gets determined by your childhood circumstances, true ugliness is rare. If you had a decent childhood then your parents must have been decent, which in turn means that they looked after you and made you lose weight, gave you proper nutrition, fixed any bad habits, etc. Your face is your past, present, and future. One look and people know your parents didn't care about you, and you are therefore low status & trash in their eyes.

 

[azakhan]

Your life gets determined by your childhood circumstances, true ugliness is rare. If you had a decent childhood then your parents must have been decent, which in turn means that they looked after you and made you lose weight, gave you proper nutrition, fixed any bad habits, etc. Your face is your past, present, and future. One look and people know your parents didn't care about you, and you are therefore low status & trash in their eyes.

This is also true. Good diet is very important for your development especially during puberty.
It's funny how the things we have no control over (genes and how you were raised) are the most important.

 

[Deleted member 1042]

Life is about winning, and if you weren’t winning from the start, then obviously you were losing, and when you’re losing in life it snowballs. You are the end result of the accumulation of failures and unfortunate circumstances by which you have little to no control over. It really does feel like this life is some sort of simulation. I can understand the heretics, crazed prophets, and village mad men of yore who revere the divine and say shit like, “it’s in god’s hand” or some nonsense because how can you not feel this way given even a modicum of self awareness of your situation and the way life unravels?

 

[Deleted member 4159]

Most of my friends had strict parents with domineering mothers and cucked fathers. It's hard for me to relate to guys who have a masculine father.