Serious If every male received female validation

[Deleted member 32183]

Imaging how the world would look like if every male received compassion from a female
There would be virtually no conflict
Every man would forget what it's like to be alone
There would always be someone there that cares about you and wants you to be happy
External validation is something needed to prove a person they are real and that their wellbeing matters
Without it, a person has no evidence that points to them even being real
When a person doesn't feel as if they're real they cannot function as others would want them to
You see females criticizing male behavior saying they're immature or inappropriate, but in order for a person to mature and happy they NEED external validation
Females are literally responsible for the behavior they complain about
A person cannot "grow up" unless they develop properly which means experiencing meaningful bonding and physical intimacy

IT maggots listen up
My female therapist that agrees with me that I DESERVE love and that without it I am suffering
She recognizes that it's a very important thing for an individual to experience and tells I am experiencing a massive deficit
You will say having a loving partner will not help us, YES IT FUCKING WILL
We've been deprived of love our whole lives of course were not fucking happy or normal
If you really want to make the world a better place you would try to be more compassionate for people who need it, some of the lonely guys you see at work/school may be headed on the path to lifelong loneliness or suicide.
Now the question is would you?
I don't want the blackpill to be true, in fact I'm constantly looking for evidence that disproves it, unfortunately every day I wake up I am reminded of how dire my situation is
You cannot deny these few things: love is crucial for happiness and health and some people never experience love while others bathe in an excess of it

I feel like I'm still too young too give up and I refuse to go gently into the night

 

[Deleted member 28903]

Caring about female validation is gay and cucked as hell

 

[Deleted member 32183]

Caring about female validation is gay and cucked as hell

If I could go without it I would

 

[Reprobus]

Imaging how the world would look like if every male received compassion from a female
There would be virtually no conflict
Every man would forget what it's like to be alone
There would always be someone there that cares about you and wants you to be happy
External validation is something needed to prove a person they are real and that their wellbeing matters
Without it, a person has no evidence that points to them even being real
When a person doesn't feel as if they're real they cannot function as others would want them to
You see females criticizing male behavior saying they're immature or inappropriate, but in order for a person to mature and happy they NEED external validation
Females are literally responsible for the behavior they complain about
A person cannot "grow up" unless they develop properly which means experiencing meaningful bonding and physical intimacy

IT maggots listen up
My female therapist that agrees with me that I DESERVE love and that without it I am suffering
She recognizes that it's a very important thing for an individual to experience and tells I am experiencing a massive deficit
You will say having a loving partner will not help us, YES IT FUCKING WILL
We've been deprived of love our whole lives of course were not fucking happy or normal
If you really want to make the world a better place you would try to be more compassionate for people who need it, some of the lonely guys you see at work/school may be headed on the path to lifelong loneliness or suicide.
Now the question is would you?
I don't want the blackpill to be true, in fact I'm constantly looking for evidence that disproves it, unfortunately every day I wake up I am reminded of how dire my situation is
You cannot deny these few things: love is crucial for happiness and health and some people never experience love while others bathe in an excess of it

I feel like I'm still too young too give up and I refuse to go gently into the night

If men received equal volumes of attention and care from women the world would be so incredibly different it would be like living in a movie

 

[Byronic Incellino]

External validation is something needed to prove a person they are real and that their wellbeing matters
Without it, a person has no evidence that points to them even being real

Correct

 

[shepherdcel]

Ngl my health has suffered immensely from a chronic love deficiency. There’s no substitute for a lack of human connection.

every day I wake up I am reminded of how dire my situation is

 

[Deleted member 32183]

If men received equal volumes of attention and care from women the world would be so incredibly different it would be like living in a movie

It doesn't even have to be equal it just has to be sufficient

Ngl my health has suffered immensely from a chronic love deficiency. There’s no substitute for a lack of human connection.

I feel a weight crushing me all the time, my sleep quality is compromised by default and worsened by an oxytocin deficiency
My body feels like it's operating at 76% of its original capacity
if things keep going like they do I'll be sitting at 12% by my late 20s

 

[Deleted member 28903]

If I could go without it I would

Then do. This isn't something any man in the world cared about prior to maybe the last 100 years.

 

[AnotherInsertCel1]

Then do. This isn't something any man in the world cared about prior to maybe the last 100 years.

We look at the past to improve the future.

 

[Deleted member 32183]

Then do. This isn't something any man in the world cared about prior to maybe the last 100 years.

Previously finding a partner was a lot easier and the world functioned in a way that made meaningful bonding less of a scarcity
I am not a eunuch nor am I gay, and want more than just physical pleasure from an escort
At this point in my life male friendships are not enough to make me feel like I am alive
The only thing that can bring me back to life is love from a female
It would prove to me that there is atleast an ounce of redemption in this rotten world knowing even 1 person cared about me

 

[Deleted member 28903]

Previously finding a partner was a lot easier and the world functioned in a way that made meaningful bonding less of a scarcity
I am not a eunuch nor am I gay, and want more than just physical pleasure from an escort
At this point in my life male friendships are not enough to make me feel like I am alive
The only thing that can bring me back to life is love from a female

Yeah, you don't want a gf, you want a mommy.

It would prove to me that there is atleast an ounce of redemption in this rotten world knowing even 1 person cared about me

And this person has to be a woman that you're in a sexual relationship why?

 

[Deleted member 32183]

Yeah, you don't want a gf, you want a mommy.

And this person has to be a woman that you're in a sexual relationship why?

I don't even consider myself to have a real mom tbh so maybe that's why. I also pretend I go to bed drinking milk straight from a breast to keep me sane. Most of my memories involving females are utter shit and even one good memory is enough to convince me the world isn't all bad. I'm stuck in a cycle of bitter vitriol that I want to escape. It's killing me

A sexual relationship with a woman to me is the highest form of human approval/connection I can think of
friendships with males are already very difficult for me and I don't get the type of satisfaction I'm craving, one reason is there is little to no oxytocin involved
My dna has programmed me to seek such things
I tried to be a flesh robot and it doesn't fucking work

 

[Deleted member 28903]

I don't even consider myself to have a real mom tbh so maybe that's why. I also pretend I go to bed drinking milk straight from a breast to keep me sane. Most of my memories involving females are utter shit and even one good memory is enough to convince me the world isn't all bad. I'm stuck in a cycle of bitter vitriol that I want to escape. It's killing me

A sexual relationship with a woman to me is the highest form of human approval/connection I can think of
friendships with males are already very difficult for me and I don't get the type of satisfaction I'm craving, one reason is there is little to no oxytocin involved
My dna has programmed me to seek such things
I tried to be a flesh robot and it doesn't fucking work

It's not just you, it's the majority of people on this forum and the majority of men today. Feminism has warped everyone's view of what the relationship between the sexes is like.