The problem is so many young girls are taught h society and everyone around them that it is okay. It is ingrained from an extremely young age that sex outside of marriage is the EXPECTATION. I still dislike the degeneracy, but I do think such a person can be forgiven. I mean, most of us here are miserable because we fail in society's eyes. We are worthless because we do not have sex.
So what of a 16 year old girl being held to the same standard? She is being told by everyone, and society, and her "boyfriend" to have sex. Yes, dating is degenerate, but even her parents and relatives are encouraging her to have a relationship. I think it hypocritical to completely demonize someone, especially someone very young in age, for caving to the pressure that even we cave to. It's not right, but it can be forgiven.