Story I visited an escort - now feeling empty inside

[FinnCel]

In sex, you're supposed to make an emotional connection. That's why you're feeling it's artificial

 

[Qwertyuiop99]

I encourage all incels who haven't tried it yet (and have the possibility to do so) to visit an escort. Just find someone, and get this over with. It's not worth the years or decades of frustration

I'll do this before I turn 25

 

[psyop]

If I did do it I’d ease into it. A few HJs from massage parlors then head from a prostitute and eventually go all the way

 

[VideoGameCoper]

You should have done it at age 18. As other posters are saying, it's just a physical act. It can thus satisfy physical urges and the need for skin contact, but what really makes inceldom hell is the lack of emotional validation.

Yep. Nothing can make up for the lack of love and lack of feeling desired. It’s so brutal

 

[Redbeard7]

If I did do it I’d ease into it. A few HJs from massage parlors then head from a prostitute and eventually go all the way

That's the way to do it. I'd go further: sex requires an emotional connection to be really enjoyable. So maybe go for the gf experience and (funny as it sounds) go out with her a few times before having sex. You can build emotional intimacy by talking to her about serious/personal things.​