so tragedy is when something unfortunate happens to a person of value
except that the criterion for value ranges from person to person; its too subjective.
everyone values their lives the most(at least most people do even if they're not willing to admit it) so it only makes sense that when something bad happens to you, no matter who you are you will rationalize it as a tragedy. no one values the lives of their enemies or people who suffer at their benefit so you will consider their suffering pathetic, the existence of incels only serves as a benefit to the lives of normies and we oppose the system that exists at their advantage therefore its easy to imagine why they would consider us lacking in value. Again its all subjective therefore I can claim the same when for example someone goes ER,I don't value the lives of normies and normies don't value the lives of incels, there is a conflict of values there and you admitted to it.