Pancakecel
Cope or rope, that is all.
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- Joined
- Jan 16, 2021
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All I did was explain my situation, and ask them basic questions. Are they such cowards that they can't even have a simple discussion? If any of you soy chuggers are reading this, which many of you probably are, screen cap this thread like you always do, and respond to what I wanted to post.
I only did this, as when I tried posting to a bunch of other sub soyddits before (r/ugly, r/vent, r/foreveralone, r/self), I also couldn't post. All I want is for one normfag to read it, and give me answers. I know I will have them stumped.
I wont be giving these cretins attention again, don't worry. There's alcoholics anonymous, narcotics anonymous, but where is the mainstream support group for lookism?
I don't want to be silent about my problems anymore, I want to shove them in the faces of foids/ normies, and see what they have to say.
Title:
I've tried everything you say incels never do, still get treated like a freak in public. Why do you deny lookism exists?
Post:
I've read this sub for a while. The constant line is that incels are ugly basement dwellers who've never tried anything, never worked, never gymmed, never socialized, and it's all personality/entitlement. My life doesn't match that at all, so I'm posting to see what you'll actually say to someone who doesn't fit the stereotype.
Facts about me:
- Gym consistently for years
- Multiple customer-facing IT support jobs (talking to strangers all day long) until Jan 2023
- Multiple rounds of therapy + several different antidepressants
- Actively tried being open and social when I was working
Despite all of that, the reality is:
- Almost every time I leave the house, random strangers (all ages, both genders) give me long dirty looks, glare with disgust, snigger/laugh under their breath as I pass, whisper/point, or literally recoil when they see my face
- This happens multiple times per outing — shops, streets, buses, everywhere
- It's instant, before I say a word. Purely appearance-based. My head shape, hairline, frame, height — whatever it is — triggers it.
Because of this constant public hostility I've stopped working and barely leave the house anymore. The anxiety/anger became unbearable.
Now the questions I actually want answered:
1. Why does this sub act like lookism isn't real? When strangers literally recoil and mock me in public every single time I exist outside, on what planet is that "personality" or "entitlement"? It's a visual filter.
2. If someone has genuinely done all the things you say we never do (gym, jobs, therapy, social effort) and still gets this level of visceral rejection from strangers just for existing — does it not make perfect sense that I'd end up gravitating toward the blackpill explanation?
3. When every mainstream space gaslights or mocks the problem, and incel forums are literally the only place where people describe the exact same daily public treatment and don't tell me it's all in my head — why wouldn't I find some solace there? Where else am I supposed to go?
I only did this, as when I tried posting to a bunch of other sub soyddits before (r/ugly, r/vent, r/foreveralone, r/self), I also couldn't post. All I want is for one normfag to read it, and give me answers. I know I will have them stumped.
I wont be giving these cretins attention again, don't worry. There's alcoholics anonymous, narcotics anonymous, but where is the mainstream support group for lookism?
I don't want to be silent about my problems anymore, I want to shove them in the faces of foids/ normies, and see what they have to say.
Title:
I've tried everything you say incels never do, still get treated like a freak in public. Why do you deny lookism exists?
Post:
I've read this sub for a while. The constant line is that incels are ugly basement dwellers who've never tried anything, never worked, never gymmed, never socialized, and it's all personality/entitlement. My life doesn't match that at all, so I'm posting to see what you'll actually say to someone who doesn't fit the stereotype.
Facts about me:
- Gym consistently for years
- Multiple customer-facing IT support jobs (talking to strangers all day long) until Jan 2023
- Multiple rounds of therapy + several different antidepressants
- Actively tried being open and social when I was working
Despite all of that, the reality is:
- Almost every time I leave the house, random strangers (all ages, both genders) give me long dirty looks, glare with disgust, snigger/laugh under their breath as I pass, whisper/point, or literally recoil when they see my face
- This happens multiple times per outing — shops, streets, buses, everywhere
- It's instant, before I say a word. Purely appearance-based. My head shape, hairline, frame, height — whatever it is — triggers it.
Because of this constant public hostility I've stopped working and barely leave the house anymore. The anxiety/anger became unbearable.
Now the questions I actually want answered:
1. Why does this sub act like lookism isn't real? When strangers literally recoil and mock me in public every single time I exist outside, on what planet is that "personality" or "entitlement"? It's a visual filter.
2. If someone has genuinely done all the things you say we never do (gym, jobs, therapy, social effort) and still gets this level of visceral rejection from strangers just for existing — does it not make perfect sense that I'd end up gravitating toward the blackpill explanation?
3. When every mainstream space gaslights or mocks the problem, and incel forums are literally the only place where people describe the exact same daily public treatment and don't tell me it's all in my head — why wouldn't I find some solace there? Where else am I supposed to go?





