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All I did was explain my situation, and ask them basic questions. Are they such cowards that they can't even have a simple discussion? If any of you soy chuggers are reading this, which many of you probably are, screen cap this thread like you always do, and respond to what I wanted to post.

I only did this, as when I tried posting to a bunch of other sub soyddits before (r/ugly, r/vent, r/foreveralone, r/self), I also couldn't post. All I want is for one normfag to read it, and give me answers. I know I will have them stumped.

I wont be giving these cretins attention again, don't worry. There's alcoholics anonymous, narcotics anonymous, but where is the mainstream support group for lookism?

I don't want to be silent about my problems anymore, I want to shove them in the faces of foids/ normies, and see what they have to say.



Title:

I've tried everything you say incels never do, still get treated like a freak in public. Why do you deny lookism exists?


Post:

I've read this sub for a while. The constant line is that incels are ugly basement dwellers who've never tried anything, never worked, never gymmed, never socialized, and it's all personality/entitlement. My life doesn't match that at all, so I'm posting to see what you'll actually say to someone who doesn't fit the stereotype.

Facts about me:
- Gym consistently for years
- Multiple customer-facing IT support jobs (talking to strangers all day long) until Jan 2023
- Multiple rounds of therapy + several different antidepressants
- Actively tried being open and social when I was working

Despite all of that, the reality is:
- Almost every time I leave the house, random strangers (all ages, both genders) give me long dirty looks, glare with disgust, snigger/laugh under their breath as I pass, whisper/point, or literally recoil when they see my face
- This happens multiple times per outing — shops, streets, buses, everywhere
- It's instant, before I say a word. Purely appearance-based. My head shape, hairline, frame, height — whatever it is — triggers it.

Because of this constant public hostility I've stopped working and barely leave the house anymore. The anxiety/anger became unbearable.

Now the questions I actually want answered:

1. Why does this sub act like lookism isn't real? When strangers literally recoil and mock me in public every single time I exist outside, on what planet is that "personality" or "entitlement"? It's a visual filter.

2. If someone has genuinely done all the things you say we never do (gym, jobs, therapy, social effort) and still gets this level of visceral rejection from strangers just for existing — does it not make perfect sense that I'd end up gravitating toward the blackpill explanation?

3. When every mainstream space gaslights or mocks the problem, and incel forums are literally the only place where people describe the exact same daily public treatment and don't tell me it's all in my head — why wouldn't I find some solace there? Where else am I supposed to go?
 
IT niggers would shoot us all like charlie kirk if they had enough ammunition then celebrate afterwards
 
i hate those normies so much, they will never understand us
 
Pathetic worms
 
IT niggers would shoot us all like charlie kirk if they had enough ammunition then celebrate afterwards
Nah, if they can't even hold their tranny dicks with theirs weak hands, how are they gonna shoot and aim a gun.
 
:feelskek: nigga it's not worth the effort to write all of this
 
they want subhumans to be contempt with what they have

notice how it’s always sub 5 ethnic women that lurk there
 
The thing is, ITfags aren't interested in the truth. They are interested in mocking and shaming oppressed men, and that's it.

Our true lived experiences mean nothing to them, so they won't engage, lest they be proved wrong. :feelsclown:

You may have better reception on r/offmychest or r/incelexit. Would be interesting to see what actual proper replies you would get. You may have to remove mentions of "incel" and "blackpill" if you post on r/offmychest, as just mentioning those terms may be triggering moral panic in the other normfag subs you mentioned.
 
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"You'll get nothing for being nice and trying your best, but just do it anyway so that our retarded feminist just world fallacy worldview won't look bad, teehee."
 
Because they have no way to argue back but just accuse you of bad personality
 
They only want to kick men while they're down, not understand the problems they face. In their heads, there is no room for empathy towards us, because they desperately want to believe that if you work hard enough, anyone can make it, and if you haven't made it yet, then you must've not tried hard enough. Same kind of logic that a lot of these bug people reject in relation to poverty, so to me, their kvetching about incels sounds inconsistent and contradictory.
 
IT niggers would shoot us all like charlie kirk if they had enough ammunition then celebrate afterwards
They would kill us irl, if they could get away with it, so much for love and kindness
 
Now the questions I actually want answered:

1. Why does this sub act like lookism isn't real? When strangers literally recoil and mock me in public every single time I exist outside, on what planet is that "personality" or "entitlement"? It's a visual filter.

2. If someone has genuinely done all the things you say we never do (gym, jobs, therapy, social effort) and still gets this level of visceral rejection from strangers just for existing — does it not make perfect sense that I'd end up gravitating toward the blackpill explanation?

3. When every mainstream space gaslights or mocks the problem, and incel forums are literally the only place where people describe the exact same daily public treatment and don't tell me it's all in my head — why wouldn't I find some solace there? Where else am I supposed to go?
Shouldn't have asked these questions if you actually wanted "serious" responses from them. Your intro was enough to release full soy without having your thread deleted
 
Honestly IT is so bad even redditors themselves treat IT like the black sheep sometimes.
 
The foids will probably said some shit like
"I can tell you clearly didnt do enough and your personality is bad" and then go get beat and abused by chads while saying "i didnt know he could do such a thing"

They are the biggest hypocrites on the planet
 
They can’t debate they just say something along the lines of „just say you‘re an incel broooo“ and think they did something.

Was ragebaiting this foid there recently and I’m surprised my comments are still up
 
All I did was explain my situation, and ask them basic questions. Are they such cowards that they can't even have a simple discussion? If any of you soy chuggers are reading this, which many of you probably are, screen cap this thread like you always do, and respond to what I wanted to post.

I only did this, as when I tried posting to a bunch of other sub soyddits before (r/ugly, r/vent, r/foreveralone, r/self), I also couldn't post. All I want is for one normfag to read it, and give me answers. I know I will have them stumped.

I wont be giving these cretins attention again, don't worry. There's alcoholics anonymous, narcotics anonymous, but where is the mainstream support group for lookism?

I don't want to be silent about my problems anymore, I want to shove them in the faces of foids/ normies, and see what they have to say.



Title:

I've tried everything you say incels never do, still get treated like a freak in public. Why do you deny lookism exists?


Post:

I've read this sub for a while. The constant line is that incels are ugly basement dwellers who've never tried anything, never worked, never gymmed, never socialized, and it's all personality/entitlement. My life doesn't match that at all, so I'm posting to see what you'll actually say to someone who doesn't fit the stereotype.

Facts about me:
- Gym consistently for years
- Multiple customer-facing IT support jobs (talking to strangers all day long) until Jan 2023
- Multiple rounds of therapy + several different antidepressants
- Actively tried being open and social when I was working

Despite all of that, the reality is:
- Almost every time I leave the house, random strangers (all ages, both genders) give me long dirty looks, glare with disgust, snigger/laugh under their breath as I pass, whisper/point, or literally recoil when they see my face
- This happens multiple times per outing — shops, streets, buses, everywhere
- It's instant, before I say a word. Purely appearance-based. My head shape, hairline, frame, height — whatever it is — triggers it.

Because of this constant public hostility I've stopped working and barely leave the house anymore. The anxiety/anger became unbearable.

Now the questions I actually want answered:

1. Why does this sub act like lookism isn't real? When strangers literally recoil and mock me in public every single time I exist outside, on what planet is that "personality" or "entitlement"? It's a visual filter.

2. If someone has genuinely done all the things you say we never do (gym, jobs, therapy, social effort) and still gets this level of visceral rejection from strangers just for existing — does it not make perfect sense that I'd end up gravitating toward the blackpill explanation?

3. When every mainstream space gaslights or mocks the problem, and incel forums are literally the only place where people describe the exact same daily public treatment and don't tell me it's all in my head — why wouldn't I find some solace there? Where else am I supposed to go?
I got banned from Reddit and shadowbanned that fucking sub pisses me off.
 
The thing is, ITfags aren't interested in the truth. They are interested in mocking and shaming oppressed men, and that's it.

Our true lived experiences mean nothing to them, so they won't engage, lest they be proved wrong. :feelsclown:

You may have better reception on r/offmychest or r/incelexit. Would be interesting to see what actual proper replies you would get. You may have to remove mentions of "incel" and "blackpill" if you post on r/offmychest, as just mentioning those terms may be triggering moral panic in the other normfag subs you mentioned.
I tried incelexit, but karma requirements meant I couldn't post. I hate this karma requirement bullshit, as well as some subsoyddits employing bots, that auto delete anything with "incel adjacent" language. I'll try r/offmychest.
 
I tried incelexit, but karma requirements meant I couldn't post. I hate this karma requirement bullshit, as well as some subsoyddits employing bots, that auto delete anything with "incel adjacent" language. I'll try r/offmychest.
i have 12K karma, if you want i can post if for you
 
 
Never debate Normies, always troll them.
 
I tried incelexit, but karma requirements meant I couldn't post. I hate this karma requirement bullshit, as well as some subsoyddits employing bots, that auto delete anything with "incel adjacent" language. I'll try r/offmychest.

Ahh, I see. That is a bunch of retarded shit. :feelshaha:

That's cuckit for you I guess.
 
If you’ve watched or read Lord of the Flies, there’s a scene where Piggy (truecel of the story) tries to reason with the other kids and they just crush his head with a boulder. That’s what trying to debate normiefags is like.
 
If you’ve watched or read Lord of the Flies, there’s a scene where Piggy (truecel of the story) tries to reason with the other kids and they just crush his head with a boulder. That’s what trying to debate normiefags is like.
I love that book.
It is indeed very blackpilled; despite Piggy having the intelligence and sensitiveness to be a good leader the children chose Ralph just for his looks.
 
I love that book.
It is indeed very blackpilled; despite Piggy having the intelligence and sensitiveness to be a good leader the children chose Ralph just for his looks.
And then after that everything devolves into a chimp out.

And IT thinks if we had our own land it would be like that. JFL.
 
And then after that everything devolves into a chimp out.

And IT thinks if we had our own land it would be like that. JFL.
Incel society with robowaifus would be the closest thing to Atlantis
 
IT niggers would shoot us all like charlie kirk if they had enough ammunition then celebrate afterwards
"You'll get nothing for being nice and trying your best, but just do it anyway so that our retarded feminist just world fallacy worldview won't look bad, teehee."
They only want to kick men while they're down, not understand the problems they face. In their heads, there is no room for empathy towards us, because they desperately want to believe that if you work hard enough, anyone can make it, and if you haven't made it yet, then you must've not tried hard enough. Same kind of logic that a lot of these bug people reject in relation to poverty, so to me, their kvetching about incels sounds inconsistent and contradictory.
They would kill us irl, if they could get away with it, so much for love and kindness
 
I wish I could delete this thread, and that I never wasted my time with this shit, but I'll copy my response, from the "Stop giving cucktears attention" thread @ManOfVengeance posted:


Ive concluded that soyddit isn’t set up to actually understand experiences like mine.

It operates on simple narratives: either you’re a bad person with a bad personality, or you’re “mentally ill” and imagining everything. There’s no room for anything in between.

If you describe repeated negative reactions from strangers, they don’t examine the possibility of lookism or social bias — they immediately default to denial, because actually acknowledging my struggles would challenge their worldview, and the idea that soyciety is basically fair.
Soyddit can’t handle nuance. It can’t hold the idea that someone can genuinely try, but still experience consistent negative treatment, and not be lying, entitled, or delusional, so instead of discussion, you get dog piling, armchair diagnoses, and mockery — which ironically just reinforces why people like me come to this forum.

At this point, arguing with them isn’t about truth anymore. It’s about them protecting their narrative. And I’m done wasting energy trying to get any of those fags to understand.

I apologize to everyone here for giving these fucks attention.
 
Went over to IT to see that they are gaslighting you saying incels aren’t mocked in public while their entire sub mocks Incel men
 
Went over to IT to see that they are gaslighting you saying incels aren’t mocked in public while their entire sub mocks Incel men
do you think IT is full of normies or just a bunch of foids?
 
you are discussing with blind copers who are too afraid to accept their lot in life. The average IT user is a bigger subhuman than the average user here lol.
 

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