Since December 14th, I decided to take a mont out of my life to see what I could change. I got a haircut. Got a few new hobbies, I'm in the process of getting a better job, I've been working out. And I have to say, it has helped me mentally, but I know that the help is only temporary, like trying to drink away the pain of a gunshot wound instead of treating the gunshot wound. But the bad thing about that is, even though I can distract myself, everytime I don't have the distraction, the pain and agony comes back, but in most cases you can get to the root of the problem, recognize it, and fix it. This is different, inceldom is unsolvable, I am doomed unless I multilate my face and get multiple facial surgeries. So, should you follow the normie advice and get hobbies and get a job? Sure, the more distractions you have and the more money you have to fund those distractions, the less ropefuel you tend to notice.
