VindalooCell
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I Thought I Had Lost My Desire for Sex—Until I Cheated on My Husband
I feel like I’m wasting my sexual years by staying in this marriage.
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I have been married for about 15 years to my husband, and we have two kids together. He is a kind and caring person, a good dad, and a thoughtful partner. We enjoy spending time together. The problem is I am 0 percent attracted to him and don’t have any desire for sex with him. He hasn’t changed very much physically in the time we have been together—it’s my response to him that has. I don’t like his natural smell, I don’t like the way his skin feels, I don’t care to look at his face, and I have no interest in cuddling.
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I thought for a long time I was one of those people whose desire decreased as I got older (late 30s).
A couple of years ago, I had an affair that lasted several months, and I learned I do still desire sex. A lot. Just not with my husband.