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Blackpill I realize now that everyone in high school was having sex except me

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Looking back at my time in high school which was over 30 years ago, I originally thought that sex was only reserved for the popular kids. My belief was that only the most attractive males and females were having sex and the rest of us were being left out. This belief quickly changed in my senior year. I took this art class that was full of goth kids and outcasts “like me”. I thought these people were loser virgins like me. However, listening to their conversations they were constantly talking about house parties and hookups they were having. Sex in high school was super common but only I was being excluded from it.
 
I'm 19. This shit is basically a slap to my face.
 
Looking back at my time in high school which was over 30 years ago, I originally thought that sex was only reserved for the popular kids. My belief was that only the most attractive males and females were having sex and the rest of us were being left out. This belief quickly changed in my senior year. I took this art class that was full of goth kids and outcasts “like me”. I thought these people were loser virgins like me. However, listening to their conversations they were constantly talking about house parties and hookups they were having. Sex in high school was super common but only I was being excluded from it.

Dude highschool was over 30 years ago for you? Dam agepill collects :cryfeels:
 
Dude highschool was over 30 years ago for you? Dam agepill collects :cryfeels:
Yeah I’m 47. Most people when they reach my age will probably rope or become a betabuxx.
 
Prime ERfuel is realizing everyone else was experiencing teen love except for you.
 
Its even more brutal when the only other kid i knew that never had sex by senior school at least had a gf, i didn't even have that
 
It's a crude realization tbh
 
I wasn't even really aware about it or thinking about it until I was 18 when I heard a 14 year old bitch in my class just casually talking about sneaking into the college campus nearby and having sex in one of the rooms. She was telling this to some gymmaxxed normie who was a few years older than her and it was so fucking weird because it was in a really flirtatious way; she was literally trying to flirt with a dude by telling him about all the dudes she got fucked by before him.

I only rarely heard people talk about it, but in all the cases they did, they were conversing so casually, routinely, and unabashedly that for half the conversation i was seriously doubting whether or not sex was the topic, or whether i was completely misunderstanding the meaning.

Conversations about parties were similarly rare. I knew they must have been happening but it legit seemed like everyone at my school made some sort of vow of silence for that stuff around me. And it was the same with senior pranks, big group chats, social media, Snapchat etc.

It was like I only had access to the free trial version of highschool; there was some sort of entire culture and Interconnection between everyone outside of school hours with all sorts of activities and shit, while for me the day just ended at 2:30 and I went home oblivious.
 
I received that "vow of silence" until my senior year in HS and then I went to these parties and they were torture for me and the ugly boys there. You're not missing anything if you're unattractive. They left you out for good reason and it was for the best.
 
Yeah bro, relatable. In my class even the lowest of the low guys who were made fun of had girls lusting after them. It's quite the joke. Sometimes i wonder how did i manage to fuck up so badly.
 
Fucking still hung up on shit in highschool even years later.
We don't get "better" years to sweep that away. It's a concerted effort to eliminate the thoughts.
 

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