I’ve been away for months. Not lurking, not doomscrolling, not engaging. For months, I intentionally stepped back from the noise of this world such as no forums, no social media (cause I had none to begin with and don't want to). I stayed in my lane, minding my own business, embracing a kind of voluntary isolation like how I always went through life, cause people drain me and I really mean that. I want to stay to myself. Not even 'putting myself out there' cause I have 0 interest, it takes a fool to do that with the current state of the world, I have total apathy towards all of it, I simply don't care and matured enough mentally to realize this world is beyond repair, people are done and finished.
During this period something in me finally snapped as if I reached crystalline clarity about this world.
We’re not in a decline but actually living in the aftermath. The collapse everyone keeps talking about has already happened and we’re just watching the side-effects.
It took stepping completely outside the system to see it for what it is, this system is an artificial, curated, and deliberately corrupted environment. Nothing about modern life is natural. Not the cities we inhabit, not the social structures we navigate, and certainly not what passes for 'dating' today, which is just legalized prostitution actually. We successfully reached a point in history where nearly every woman you see would be considered a whore / prostitute by ancient standards.
I often observe what happens around me in society, and I came to the conclusion that dating in its current form, is little more than legalized prostitution wrapped in corporate Jewish financed algorithms. Throughout human history, pair-bonding occurred within the constraints of community like small towns, shared values, and the Dunbar’s Number limit of roughly 150 meaningful connections was still respected, I talked about this theory a lot before I went on a mental break and reached a burnout. These constraints enforced accountability, familiarity, and genuine social feedback loops.
What we have now is the exact opposite such as infinite optionality. Dating apps and social media platforms have engineered a state of perpetual hypergamy, where the average woman is flooded with thousands of options and an endless stream of validation. This isn’t natural selection which is what I hear time on time again, but it’s artificial selection, designed to maximize anxiety, minimize commitment, and ultimately paralyze decision-making. Why else do you think lots of men are doubtful of commitment? Not cause they need therapy like society gaslights them into thinking, no, cause they know that commitment nowadays is inherently risky, emotional vulnerability is risky and you are 1 inch away from being replaced thanks to artificial algo's. Nothing about this is natural whatsoever. Jfl if you think that this environment is natural selection and natural, when even chads are disposable and 1m away from being cheated on which takes only 1 more swipe. You would be a fool to Try, what makes you think that you somehow are the exception to it all? Which is how these RP idiots often posture themselves when they talk about 'improving' (jfl, Im literally laughing right now while typing this).
All this creates something called 'choice overload'.
Choice overload doesn’t lead to better choices, it leads to no choice at all and that’s the entire point of it. They kmew exactly what they were doing when they introduced us to high-exposure environments such as social media.
It’s no coincidence that these shit systems were rolled out and perfected right as birth rates began to crater. This isn’t an accident, but all part of the bigger plan. A small, disconnected clique of elites, architects of the post-2000s digital dystopia etc designed a world that rewards dysfunction, punishes stability, and alienates people from their own nature. It's as if they say around a table beginning 2000's and said 'let's fuck it all up and make life miserable'.
They took the seeds planted during the sexual revolution around the 50's and amplified them through social media, which was the final nail in the coffin of traditional society. Now we live in the wreckage. You’re competing against the entire internet nowadays, it's literally pointless to even try.
It’s wild btw to watch YouTubers whom I once considered on the same wavelength are now flipping the script entirely. Suddenly, the same voices who once dissected systemic dysfunction with nuance are now peddling shallow self-help RP shit mantras like 'It’s all on you' as if decades of social erosion, algorithmic dating, and deliberate societal fragmentation can be undone by putting in work and a better routine. It makes you wonder whether these people are truly incapable of deeper pattern recognition that they can’t see the structural rot, Or are they willfully ignorant choosing to monetize hopium rather than speak uncomfortable truths. Either way, I consider their pivot like betrayal. They’re gaslighting an entire generation of men into believing the problem is their effort and not the fact that the world itself has been engineered to fail them.
What people here need to understand is that sometimes the problem isn’t you, the problem is the system.
So where does that leave us? I’ve reached a state of total apathy. I don’t care about trying to meet mew people, putting myself out there whhich all seems cringe and 'clownesque' to me in today's world. I don’t care about impressing strangers who are lost in the same labyrinth and so brainwashed into thinking that this tech is just an innocent innovation. This world is totally destroyed and all that's left is waiting for death, which seems like thebmore pleasant option.
My solution is Simple. Stay in my lane. Focus on the stuff that I'm busy with now, engage in hobbies that matter to me and only me. Avoid causing trouble, avoid consuming mainstream poison, and slowly ride this life out on my own terms.
As for dating? I never tried to begin with cause I knew it was hopeless from the start, tired of explaining all it. You don't need to be a rocket scientist to find it out. We were born in the wrong timeline and I could care less about all of this.
During this period something in me finally snapped as if I reached crystalline clarity about this world.
We’re not in a decline but actually living in the aftermath. The collapse everyone keeps talking about has already happened and we’re just watching the side-effects.
It took stepping completely outside the system to see it for what it is, this system is an artificial, curated, and deliberately corrupted environment. Nothing about modern life is natural. Not the cities we inhabit, not the social structures we navigate, and certainly not what passes for 'dating' today, which is just legalized prostitution actually. We successfully reached a point in history where nearly every woman you see would be considered a whore / prostitute by ancient standards.
I often observe what happens around me in society, and I came to the conclusion that dating in its current form, is little more than legalized prostitution wrapped in corporate Jewish financed algorithms. Throughout human history, pair-bonding occurred within the constraints of community like small towns, shared values, and the Dunbar’s Number limit of roughly 150 meaningful connections was still respected, I talked about this theory a lot before I went on a mental break and reached a burnout. These constraints enforced accountability, familiarity, and genuine social feedback loops.
What we have now is the exact opposite such as infinite optionality. Dating apps and social media platforms have engineered a state of perpetual hypergamy, where the average woman is flooded with thousands of options and an endless stream of validation. This isn’t natural selection which is what I hear time on time again, but it’s artificial selection, designed to maximize anxiety, minimize commitment, and ultimately paralyze decision-making. Why else do you think lots of men are doubtful of commitment? Not cause they need therapy like society gaslights them into thinking, no, cause they know that commitment nowadays is inherently risky, emotional vulnerability is risky and you are 1 inch away from being replaced thanks to artificial algo's. Nothing about this is natural whatsoever. Jfl if you think that this environment is natural selection and natural, when even chads are disposable and 1m away from being cheated on which takes only 1 more swipe. You would be a fool to Try, what makes you think that you somehow are the exception to it all? Which is how these RP idiots often posture themselves when they talk about 'improving' (jfl, Im literally laughing right now while typing this).
All this creates something called 'choice overload'.
Choice overload doesn’t lead to better choices, it leads to no choice at all and that’s the entire point of it. They kmew exactly what they were doing when they introduced us to high-exposure environments such as social media.
It’s no coincidence that these shit systems were rolled out and perfected right as birth rates began to crater. This isn’t an accident, but all part of the bigger plan. A small, disconnected clique of elites, architects of the post-2000s digital dystopia etc designed a world that rewards dysfunction, punishes stability, and alienates people from their own nature. It's as if they say around a table beginning 2000's and said 'let's fuck it all up and make life miserable'.
They took the seeds planted during the sexual revolution around the 50's and amplified them through social media, which was the final nail in the coffin of traditional society. Now we live in the wreckage. You’re competing against the entire internet nowadays, it's literally pointless to even try.
It’s wild btw to watch YouTubers whom I once considered on the same wavelength are now flipping the script entirely. Suddenly, the same voices who once dissected systemic dysfunction with nuance are now peddling shallow self-help RP shit mantras like 'It’s all on you' as if decades of social erosion, algorithmic dating, and deliberate societal fragmentation can be undone by putting in work and a better routine. It makes you wonder whether these people are truly incapable of deeper pattern recognition that they can’t see the structural rot, Or are they willfully ignorant choosing to monetize hopium rather than speak uncomfortable truths. Either way, I consider their pivot like betrayal. They’re gaslighting an entire generation of men into believing the problem is their effort and not the fact that the world itself has been engineered to fail them.
What people here need to understand is that sometimes the problem isn’t you, the problem is the system.
So where does that leave us? I’ve reached a state of total apathy. I don’t care about trying to meet mew people, putting myself out there whhich all seems cringe and 'clownesque' to me in today's world. I don’t care about impressing strangers who are lost in the same labyrinth and so brainwashed into thinking that this tech is just an innocent innovation. This world is totally destroyed and all that's left is waiting for death, which seems like thebmore pleasant option.
My solution is Simple. Stay in my lane. Focus on the stuff that I'm busy with now, engage in hobbies that matter to me and only me. Avoid causing trouble, avoid consuming mainstream poison, and slowly ride this life out on my own terms.
As for dating? I never tried to begin with cause I knew it was hopeless from the start, tired of explaining all it. You don't need to be a rocket scientist to find it out. We were born in the wrong timeline and I could care less about all of this.
