Brutal I need to somehow cope with wasting so many opportunities in life

[Pikacel]

Going forward if I want to commit to unfucking my life I need to deal with this

Because I’m basically still at the same place I was when I was 14

Questioning my past mistakes is pointless because I’ll repeat them again anyway

FFS how am I so pathetic and retarded

I was handed everything in life (except looks) and still ended up a failure. I should rope in shame

 

[Grodd]

I never really had opportunities.

 

[Pikacel]

I never really had opportunities.

Well my inceldom is confirmed but otherwise I wasted so many chances

 

[Grimm]

I was handed everything in life (except looks) and still ended up a failure. I should rope in shame

Were you born in a rich family? Are you NT?

There are many factors, but looks are still the most important one.

 

[Pikacel]

Were you born in a rich family? Are you NT?

There are many factors, but looks are still the most important one.

No

Am on the spectrum

I am fine with being an incel. But I’m generally behind in life due to laziness and poor judgment

 

[Reddit=Bandwagonism]

Going forward if I want to commit to unfucking my life I need to deal with this

Because I’m basically still at the same place I was when I was 14

Questioning my past mistakes is pointless because I’ll repeat them again anyway

FFS how am I so pathetic and retarded

I was handed everything in life (except looks) and still ended up a failure. I should rope in shame

How old r u bro?

 

[Pikacel]

How old r u bro?

22

 

[Reddit=Bandwagonism]

22

You’re still very young. What do u want to do?

 

[Pikacel]

You’re still very young. What do u want to do?

Get a job rn, finish uni next year then maybe get into accounting or look for some office job

 

[Reddit=Bandwagonism]

Get a job rn, finish uni next year then maybe get into accounting or look for some office job

Why do u even feel behind if you’re in uni and almost done with it? I’m genuinely curious. Dont be so hard on yourself.

 

[Pikacel]

Why do u even feel behind if you’re in uni and almost done with it? I’m genuinely curious. Dont be so hard on yourself.

Normies have networked done internships and have graduate jobs secured by my age

All I did was jerk off

They also have sex, social life and are generally all around superior to subhumans like me

The mog is insane

 

[Reddit=Bandwagonism]

Normies have networked done internships and have graduate jobs secured by my age

All I did was jerk off

They also have sex, social life and are generally all around superior to subhumans like me

The mog is insane

You’re looking at those who are ahead in certain facets. Try looking at those who you’re ahead of. As the normies say “comparison is the thief of joy.” There are decent amount of people who have not yet went to college at 22 and you know it (or maybe you don’t) but that’s okay. Keep your head up brother.

 

[Pikacel]

You’re looking at those who are ahead in certain facets. Try looking at those who you’re ahead of. As the normies say “comparison is the thief of joy.” There are decent amount of people who have not yet went to college at 22 and you know it (or maybe you don’t) but that’s okay. Keep your head up brother.

They worked or did businesses though

While I fucking LDARed like a faggot

Even speds are able to work fk

 

[Reddit=Bandwagonism]

They worked or did businesses though

While I fucking LDARed like a faggot

Even speds are able to work fk

Not all of them worked or did business. Come on man. I know lots who didn’t. Either neeted or kept jumping from one thing to another.

 

[Pikacel]

Not all of them worked or did business. Come on man. I know lots who didn’t. Either neeted or kept jumping from one thing to another.

Did they make it in the end…?

 

[Reddit=Bandwagonism]

Did they make it in the end…?

Well it depends what counts as “made it.” I know few who didn’t finish high school even, but are fairly content in their lives. Will they regret that years or decades later? Idk. Some majored in useless majors and spent six years to finish them and are either studying now again from zero or doing jobs that don’t need any degree. Some got health conditions that rendered them helpless. Look at certain terminal cancer or brain or spinal injuries forums. Like literally every years hundreds get injuries that make them paralyzed. Thousands of young people get cancer every year and die. You view your life as mugged because of two reasons
1- you’re perfectionist (maybe idk)
2- you’re surrounded by people who are doing average/better than average. But that’s not an accurate reflection of reality

 

[Pikacel]

Well it depends what counts as “made it.” I know few who didn’t finish high school even but are fairly content in their lives. Will they regret that years or decades later? Idk. Some majored in useless majors and spent six years to finish it and are either studying now again from zero or doing jobs that don’t need any degree. Some got health conditions that rendered them helpless. Look at certain terminal cancer or brain or spinal injuries forums. Like literally every years hundreds get injuries that make them paralyzed. Thousands of young people get cancer every year and die. You view your life as mugged because of two reasons
1- you’re perfectionist (maybe idk)
2- you’re surrounded by people who are doing average/better than average. But that’s not an accurate reflection of reality

My major could easily turn out useless

Fking hell uni is a meme

 

[Reddit=Bandwagonism]

My major could easily turn out useless

Fking hell uni is a meme

Why? What’s your major? Art? Philosophy? Gender studies? I don’t think so.

 

[Pikacel]

Why? What’s your major? Art? Philosophy? Gender studies? I don’t think so.

Eh there’s no point in me worrying now

 

[coreacheeka]

I was handed everything in life (except looks) and still ended up a failure. I should rope in shame

same,but btw,finishing uni in 22,so right after school,is kinda better than average,idk what a failure u are talking about

 

[Reddit=Bandwagonism]

Eh there’s no point in me worrying now

But what’s your major? Accounting ?

 

[Dead End]

I have also "wasted" so many opportunities in life, but I genuinely just don't care. I can't imagine being happy grinding away at University and then at some soul crushing job for countless hours each week. I'd rather just LDAR and leech off my parents for as long as possible.

 

[luciferiancel]

I've been contemplating this and come to the conclusion it's not really my fault. Not talking about being an incel, which obviously isn't my fault, but things I could have achieved despite being an incel. Other people (i.e normies) have not had to go through the mental toil I have been experiencing since the end of my childhood, that leaves me psychologically paralyzed at times, incapable of any sort of discipline or motivation.
Doesn't mean I will stop trying though, but if I end up not achieving my goals or even LDARing the rest of my life, whatever, I won't blame myself as much.
I was never given the same opportunities, everything for me was exponentially more difficult not necessarily because I lack the intellect, but because I lack the mental and emotional stability (granted to most normies, regardless if it varies for some) to pursue certain milestones. With their simple minds and simple lives, they drift through this existence mostly carefree while every waking moment is a challenge for me