Don't blacks have a saying, "If you lost her that easily, you never had her"? If a bitch can turn around and leave you for some petty reason, and prefer to never see you again, doesn't that kinda say something about how ephemeral their feelings are?
A femoid will break up with a guy and
go jump on a bunch of other dicks. Men, on the other hand, will sit around pining over the loss of a chick. Our feelings for them are much different than their feelings for us.
It's a socio-sexual hierarchy. Unless you're Chad, you're below her in the hierarchy. Marriage doesn't change that. At any time, she can leave and easily find another guy, which means she has more options, which means her love is not as strong, since love is a combination of attraction and lack of other options.
The only exception is if pair-bonding has happened (e.g. you wife up a virgin). That usually doesn't happen these days.
Virgins tend to idealized relationships. They think, "If I could just get into a relationship with a girl, I could live happily ever after." The guys who are actually in relationships, and especially a marriage, often feel like they're in hell, because they're seeing a different side of the girl than what she presented when she was trying to get him to fall in love and commit to her. And of course, once the relationship falls apart, then they see her worst side, where she's still fucking him over but no longer giving him any benefits.
Non-virgins tend to be more blasé about relationships. They're focused on how they got their heart broken, or how the relationship isn't going well, or how they're bored with the relationship and want some new pussy, or whatever. They've seen how a foid's initial love or attraction for them didn't keep her from falling out of love, or cheating, or refusing sex, or leaving, or whatever else she did. Plus, even if everything goes well, she's eventually going to hit the wall.
Femoids only have unconditional love for Chad and for their sons. They don't feel that way toward their betabuxx, even if they're willing to open their legs to him in exchange for provisioning. So in that sense the relationship is kind of transactional, and her love is not even based on lust, or a wish to do what's best for the kids (since she'll leave their father if he's not earning the bucks), but on a desire for the stuff money can buy.
If she won the lottery, she would leave her betabuxx and go jump on Chad's cock for the rest of her life. A man, on the other hand, if he won the lottery, would add other girls to his harem but would keep the mother of his kids around. So in that sense, his love for her is more unconditional and her love for him.
Femoids' promises at the altar mean nothing unless society will enforce them. They don't feel morally bound by those promises at all, because femoids don't really have a sense of morality; they just want to avoid being judged for violating social norms. If they think they can dump you, or otherwise betray you, without being judged for it, then at that point they're just going to consider whether there's a better branch they can swing to -- and unfortunately for the beta, there's always going to be some guy who's more of a Chad than he is. Femoids view the beta's sexual demands as a liability, while Chad's sexual desire for her would be an asset.
The non-virgin's attitude toward girls tend to be like that of Pococurante from
Candide:
