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I have cold aproached over 100 girls

SuccessfulShark

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Rejected, everytime, 100%, sure, some girls gave me their instagram, many made an effort to be nice and all, but at the end of the day all of them rejected me... either by telling me "no, sorry", or ghosting me on insta.

I feel frustated as hell, I have almost no enjoyment in talking to girls, and I still have aproach anxiety even tho it's orders of magnitude lower than what I used to have. I still aproach sometimes even though I don't really believe it will ever work. I also enjoy aproaching in night clubs because I can get phisically close to them while I'm talking (and grab some ass).
The single best thing that cold aproaching gave me is the low inhibition, now I don't care as much anymore, I do watever I want, and I am not the weak beta I used to be, and to be honest that's the reason I still do it ocasionally and recomend everyone to do the same.

I'm way more social than I used to be but I don't have more friends, just more people I say "Hi" to. It's sad, I thought after overcoming social anxiety I would ascend to a new level but I guess that couldn't be further from the truth.
 
Fakecel

resolution exterminate GIF by Doctor Who
 
Based. Although I'm surprised none of these foids has falsely accused you.

I have cold approached a lot as well and it does help with inhibition, but I've found that stacking rejections does a lot of harm to your sense of self-esteem and confidence and ultimate find the effort not worth it. Feels like you're intentionally developing CPTSD. Plus, there is a risk you can get falsely accused.
 
The first 100 rejections are just the warmup to the warmup bro :soy:
 
When I approached I didn't even get past the conversation, lmao at getting their Instagram, fucking mogger.

You must not be ugly
 
Rejected, everytime, 100%, sure, some girls gave me their instagram, many made an effort to be nice and all, but at the end of the day all of them rejected me... either by telling me "no, sorry", or ghosting me on insta.

I feel frustated as hell, I have almost no enjoyment in talking to girls, and I still have aproach anxiety even tho it's orders of magnitude lower than what I used to have. I still aproach sometimes even though I don't really believe it will ever work. I also enjoy aproaching in night clubs because I can get phisically close to them while I'm talking (and grab some ass).
The single best thing that cold aproaching gave me is the low inhibition, now I don't care as much anymore, I do watever I want, and I am not the weak beta I used to be, and to be honest that's the reason I still do it ocasionally and recomend everyone to do the same.

I'm way more social than I used to be but I don't have more friends, just more people I say "Hi" to. It's sad, I thought after overcoming social anxiety I would ascend to a new level but I guess that couldn't be further from the truth.
Girls rejecting a good person like you is appalling. Girls should be punished for rejected the good guys
 
Based. Although I'm surprised none of these foids has falsely accused you.

I have cold approached a lot as well and it does help with inhibition, but I've found that stacking rejections does a lot of harm to your sense of self-esteem and confidence and ultimate find the effort not worth it. Feels like you're intentionally developing CPTSD. Plus, there is a risk you can get falsely accused.
No, stacking rejections just makes me not care as much. I already believe it's over so getting rejected just feels like confirmation of what I already know, doesnt change anything. It only hurts if I get hopefull, like some girl seems to be giving iois and I thnik that there's a chance just to get blown out.
When I approached I didn't even get past the conversation, lmao at getting their Instagram, fucking mogger.

You must not be ugly
Many of my aproaches was literally asking for ig of the opener lol, and most of them wouldn't even follow me back
Girls rejecting a good person like you is appalling. Girls should be punished for rejected the good guys
They do, they just don't realise it.
 
I did the approaching thing back in 2003-2010. Same experience. It is very evident that women are selecting men
purely on superficial criteria.
 
It's better to try and fail than to never try and then (after becoming old) thinking how it could be if you have putted some work in it
 
Rejected, everytime, 100%, sure, some girls gave me their instagram, many made an effort to be nice and all, but at the end of the day all of them rejected me... either by telling me "no, sorry", or ghosting me on insta.

I feel frustated as hell, I have almost no enjoyment in talking to girls, and I still have aproach anxiety even tho it's orders of magnitude lower than what I used to have. I still aproach sometimes even though I don't really believe it will ever work. I also enjoy aproaching in night clubs because I can get phisically close to them while I'm talking (and grab some ass).
The single best thing that cold aproaching gave me is the low inhibition, now I don't care as much anymore, I do watever I want, and I am not the weak beta I used to be, and to be honest that's the reason I still do it ocasionally and recomend everyone to do the same.

I'm way more social than I used to be but I don't have more friends, just more people I say "Hi" to. It's sad, I thought after overcoming social anxiety I would ascend to a new level but I guess that couldn't be further from the truth.
“Watch hamza bro he saved my lifee :soy:
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Cold approach is a great way to help high inhib. Helps build up rejection antibodies too to help out any brocels with RSD. Can't call yourself a truecel until you've tried and failed.
 
Cold approach is a great way to help high inhib. Helps build up rejection antibodies too to help out any brocels with RSD. Can't call yourself a truecel until you've tried and failed.

Many incels develop PTSD from cold approaches because they find out quickly that women are not so nice.
 
but I've found that stacking rejections does a lot of harm to your sense of self-esteem and confidence and ultimate find the effort not worth it
Nooo:feels::feels::feels:, getting rejected helps your self esteem because it proves that you had the guts to ask her out:feels::feels::feels:
 
can you please explain to me how to cold approach a foid
Wouldn't matter how you cold approach a foid if you're sub5. You'll get rejected regardless if you have a good "personality" or not. You can try to not be autistic and awkward. Easier said than done. I'd say just approach it kinda like a job interview. Go up to the foid, introduce yourself/shake their hand, and tell the stupid foid that they look good and ask if you can buy them a drink. Hopefully this is in a bar/nightclub environment. Cold approaching foids outside of bars and night clubs raises the difficulty up by a lot, but wouldn't matter if the foid was going to reject you regardless.
 
unsuccessfulshark mang
 
Reminds me of former incels user Uninstall:

https://incels.wiki/w/Uninstall
Cool, I didn't know about him before, maybe I should document it too? I have been writting my experiences on a document on my pc I could make a thread and just write here too.
“Watch hamza bro he saved my lifee :soy:View attachment 1036778
Hamza is fake and gay, but cold aproachingis the way to achieve god-tier low inhibition.
can you please explain to me how to cold approach a foid
You technically can just say anything, but my advice is start with something easy: like asking for the time, and then progress from there, by doing increasingly harder aproaches.
Cold approach is a great way to help high inhib. Helps build up rejection antibodies too to help out any brocels with RSD. Can't call yourself a truecel until you've tried and failed.
This
 
Cool, I didn't know about him before, maybe I should document it too? I have been writting my experiences on a document on my pc I could make a thread and just write here too.

Would be great buddy boyo ngl :feelsokman:
 
Rejected, everytime, 100%, sure, some girls gave me their instagram, many made an effort to be nice and all, but at the end of the day all of them rejected me... either by telling me "no, sorry", or ghosting me on insta.

I feel frustated as hell, I have almost no enjoyment in talking to girls, and I still have aproach anxiety even tho it's orders of magnitude lower than what I used to have. I still aproach sometimes even though I don't really believe it will ever work. I also enjoy aproaching in night clubs because I can get phisically close to them while I'm talking (and grab some ass).
The single best thing that cold aproaching gave me is the low inhibition, now I don't care as much anymore, I do watever I want, and I am not the weak beta I used to be, and to be honest that's the reason I still do it ocasionally and recomend everyone to do the same.

I'm way more social than I used to be but I don't have more friends, just more people I say "Hi" to. It's sad, I thought after overcoming social anxiety I would ascend to a new level but I guess that couldn't be further from the truth.
The only time I cold approached was years ago One day and I asked out like 15 girls at a highschool football game, Cringe
 
Nooo:feels::feels::feels:, getting rejected helps your self esteem because it proves that you had the guts to ask her out:feels::feels::feels:
Only at first, but soon you are mid 20s and start dreading cold approaching. Even for normies who are able to get something it's a bad experience. It's just putting yourself through trauma again and again. It's a small trauma, but it adds up.
 
Only at first, but soon you are mid 20s and start dreading cold approaching. Even for normies who are able to get something it's a bad experience. It's just putting yourself through trauma again and again. It's a small trauma, but it adds up.
I know, thats why i put the angry soyboy emojis there
 
Nooo:feels::feels::feels:, getting rejected helps your self esteem because it proves that you had the guts to ask her out:feels::feels::feels:
AHAHAHAHA IM DYING AT YOUR POSTS LMAO
 
larp. if this were real youd be in court with 100 rape allegations
 
Based keep going, once you get near 1000 approaches, you may get 5 or 6. I wish I was low-inhib enough for that.
 
Rejected, everytime, 100%, sure, some girls gave me their instagram, many made an effort to be nice and all, but at the end of the day all of them rejected me... either by telling me "no, sorry", or ghosting me on insta.

I feel frustated as hell, I have almost no enjoyment in talking to girls, and I still have aproach anxiety even tho it's orders of magnitude lower than what I used to have. I still aproach sometimes even though I don't really believe it will ever work. I also enjoy aproaching in night clubs because I can get phisically close to them while I'm talking (and grab some ass).
The single best thing that cold aproaching gave me is the low inhibition, now I don't care as much anymore, I do watever I want, and I am not the weak beta I used to be, and to be honest that's the reason I still do it ocasionally and recomend everyone to do the same.

I'm way more social than I used to be but I don't have more friends, just more people I say "Hi" to. It's sad, I thought after overcoming social anxiety I would ascend to a new level but I guess that couldn't be further from the truth.
I'm a caricature of a man.
Who wants a short non-nt baldcel?
No need to undergo such a humilation ritual for me.
 
larp. if this were real youd be in court with 100 rape allegations
What? Man you really need to get out of the house more, I have literally grabed random girls butts on the mall and at parties and most of the time the only thing I get is a disgusted look. You can get away with way more than you think.
Based keep going, once you get near 1000 approaches, you may get 5 or 6. I wish I was low-inhib enough for that.
You can be low-inhib too, I used to be so socially anxious that I couldn't even go to the barber. Now I can ask random girls for dates, you can do it too it just takes effort.
 
What? Man you really need to get out of the house more, I have literally grabed random girls butts on the mall and at parties and most of the time the only thing I get is a disgusted look. You can get away with way more than you think.

You can be low-inhib too, I used to be so socially anxious that I couldn't even go to the barber. Now I can ask random girls for dates, you can do it too it just takes effort.
Im a truecel so I rarely ever go out especially to parties and bars. but good to see that the radical feminist culture hasn't fully infiltrated (yet)
 
Im a truecel so I rarely ever go out especially to parties and bars. but good to see that the radical feminist culture hasn't fully infiltrated (yet)
You don't need to go out to parties and bars, you can talk to girls on the street, in fact, that's how I started and I recomend the most because it's harder in terms of anxiety.
 
The single best thing that cold aproaching gave me is the low inhibition, now I don't care as much anymore, I do watever I want, and I am not the weak beta I used to be, and to be honest that's the reason I still do it ocasionally and recomend everyone to do the same.
based, same advice
 
Youre a bluepilled retard. Imagine wasting lifetime by approaching 100 skanks without any success jfl.
 
When I approached I didn't even get past the conversation, lmao at getting their Instagram, fucking mogger.

You must not be ugly
guys here who still try are not ugly, as they still believe they look good enough to have a chance and is why they still try.
 
Based. Although I'm surprised none of these foids has falsely accused you.
Fakecel if you’ve never been falsely accused of rape, stalking, harassment, etc.
 
Rejected, everytime, 100%, sure, some girls gave me their instagram, many made an effort to be nice and all, but at the end of the day all of them rejected me... either by telling me "no, sorry", or ghosting me on insta.

I feel frustated as hell, I have almost no enjoyment in talking to girls, and I still have aproach anxiety even tho it's orders of magnitude lower than what I used to have. I still aproach sometimes even though I don't really believe it will ever work. I also enjoy aproaching in night clubs because I can get phisically close to them while I'm talking (and grab some ass).
The single best thing that cold aproaching gave me is the low inhibition, now I don't care as much anymore, I do watever I want, and I am not the weak beta I used to be, and to be honest that's the reason I still do it ocasionally and recomend everyone to do the same.

I'm way more social than I used to be but I don't have more friends, just more people I say "Hi" to. It's sad, I thought after overcoming social anxiety I would ascend to a new level but I guess that couldn't be further from the truth.
What’s your opening line? When do you ask for their instagram? What small talk do you make? When do you message them if you get their instagram? Do you go for girls who are alone, with friends, doesn’t matter? How do you get them away from their friends? Etc.

I’m curious.
 
I'd probably try to approach girls more too if I wasnt a non-NT retard who has no idea what to talk to them. Foids don't give any effort to conversations when you're not a sexhaver. If you're a miserable NEET without hobbies and friends, it's extra hard. Even JBWmaxxing wouldn't probably work because even itsOVER mogs my social skills from Iceland to Australia. I also don't go to clubs because I don't know how to fight and I don't want to risk having a permanent damage to humiliate me for the rest of my life. That's why I tried mostly in (((tinder))) which I hate too. I've approached girls occassionally since I was 12, never succeed, lost my virginity to escort when I was 21.
 
Fakecel if you’ve never been falsely accused of rape, stalking, harassment, etc.
Some girls have been offended that I talked to them. BS opinion though.
 

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