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Venting I got turned down/ignored by the lonely autistic foid bitch I tried befriending.

A-Leen

A-Leen

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I go to art college, since the first week I noticed (and admittedly had a crush on) a lonely girl that would always sit alone and talk to nobody at lunch time. She is tall, actually taller than me... I'm a bit of a manlet... and she has sort of strong facial features like a straight nose and square jaw but she looked cute nonetheless, specially with the way she styled her hair.

I'm very shy but I could tell this girl was even more shy and socially awkward than me, so I felt bad for her and after a few days of eyeing her from afar and hyping myself up to break through my shyness and talk to her I finally said hi to her and had a little conversation.

In retrospective I should've known this autistic bitch was not interested, I could tell how she loved talking about herself and would only interact when I asked her about something about her but the second I gave my opinion or my side of the conversation she pretty much shutdowned on me, even going as far as checking her phone while I talked to her. But alas, I had a crush so I brushed it off as nothing.

I would try every other day to talk to her but I felt like my attempts where useless, our first conversation was the longest because every other after that got shorter and I could tell she had less and less interest on talking to me, she would never look at me while I talked, often check her phone... this fucking whore would rather be a lonely autistic outcast than talk to me... I was making my best to fight my shyness, there where days when I didn't even approach her because I felt shy again.

Then it happened, I said hi to her and this time she outright ignored me... as if I wasn't even there... let me get this clear: THE AUTISTIC FOID WITH A MAN FACE THAT NO ONE TALKED TO FUCKING IGNORED ME.

why do I even bother....
 
I read the caption in ur AVI. hope that counts for something
 
You're mistake was even trying in the first place
 
you found a foid with the face of a man attractive?
 
"Lonely" autistic foids are usually even more Chad only than NT foids
 
Rookie mistake. Lonely foids are alone only by choice
 
4/10

meh, keep writing better fake stories
 
I go to art college
13
 
you found a foid with the face of a man attractive?
I think she was cute because of the way she dressed and acted... but yeah, she kinda looked like Henry Cavil, Idk what I was thinking
 
I've spent too many years on social anxiety/autism forums and 95% of foids users had bf or husband :feelskek:
 
female autism isn't real
 
Empaletic gendER strikes again i suppose :feelsclown:
 
Rookie mistake. Lonely foids are alone only by choice
I am aware of that now, she is lonely by choice. Also I checked her Instagram and she's into lgbt they them bullshit, I don't think she's asexual tho...

I hope she gets raped honestly...
 
I am aware of that now, she is lonely by choice. Also I checked her Instagram and she's into lgbt they them bullshit, I don't think she's asexual tho...

I hope she gets raped honestly...
Well, at least you tried. So you shall get award for trying
 
Female autism isn't real. It never began homie.
 
She's probably being molested by her father as we speak, these autist foids are all the same
 
Female autism isn't real. It never began homie.
It's real but because they are women it's not even affecting their life that much, what i mean by that is that all the bad things people point out on autistic guys, for a woman it's cute, for a guy it's creepy
 
I am aware of that now, she is lonely by choice. Also I checked her Instagram and she's into lgbt they them bullshit, I don't think she's asexual tho...

I hope she gets raped honestly...
Bro I had a similar experience... I got rejected by this autistic foid, the experience destroyed me as an autistic man, and then I learned she was a "he/they" and her man boyfriend was a "she/her". What the fuck. Then I also met other 2 autistic girls but they were lesbian.

Are you autistic OP?
 
I go to art college, since the first week I noticed (and admittedly had a crush on) a lonely girl that would always sit alone and talk to nobody at lunch time. She is tall, actually taller than me... I'm a bit of a manlet... and she has sort of strong facial features like a straight nose and square jaw but she looked cute nonetheless, specially with the way she styled her hair.

I'm very shy but I could tell this girl was even more shy and socially awkward than me, so I felt bad for her and after a few days of eyeing her from afar and hyping myself up to break through my shyness and talk to her I finally said hi to her and had a little conversation.

In retrospective I should've known this autistic bitch was not interested, I could tell how she loved talking about herself and would only interact when I asked her about something about her but the second I gave my opinion or my side of the conversation she pretty much shutdowned on me, even going as far as checking her phone while I talked to her. But alas, I had a crush so I brushed it off as nothing.

I would try every other day to talk to her but I felt like my attempts where useless, our first conversation was the longest because every other after that got shorter and I could tell she had less and less interest on talking to me, she would never look at me while I talked, often check her phone... this fucking whore would rather be a lonely autistic outcast than talk to me... I was making my best to fight my shyness, there where days when I didn't even approach her because I felt shy again.

Then it happened, I said hi to her and this time she outright ignored me... as if I wasn't even there... let me get this clear: THE AUTISTIC FOID WITH A MAN FACE THAT NO ONE TALKED TO FUCKING IGNORED ME.

why do I even bother....
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Dating for foids in 2025 is like this....

I never met a foid over 18 who hasn't dated.
 
50% of autists enjoy fulfilling sex lives... and they're all women.

Chad only :feelsEhh:
 
In all seriousness though... over the years I've found that ugly women / low status women / social misfit women are much, MUCH harsher in how they treat sub-5 men, than Becky and Stacey are.

Becky and Stacey live in a blissful dream world where they receive affirmation, smiles, desire, assistance, everywhere they go. Every day is a happy day for them.
And there is absolutely no question that sub-5 men would even dream that they have a chance with them. So they aren't threatened in any way by random interactions with sub-5 men.

Low status, ugly women see Becky and Stacey enjoying more options than them, and it pisses them off. So they are already a bit shitty and hostile just by default.

And then if a subhuman (i.e., any sub-8) tries to flirt with her or shoot his shot with her, that's like a slap in the face to her, because if a subhuman thinks he's on a level that he can do that, that's just a further reminder that she's not Becky or Stacey.

Being approached by you is an insult to her, not a compliment. That's why she shut you down so rudely.
 
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Ah, yes, the classic story of falling for the lonely autistic introverted nerdy but kinda cool and cute girl... thinking that surely SHE is different from the rest of them...

I've been there buddy. Many of us have been. It's what ultimately blackpilled me.
AWALT
 
Bro I had a similar experience... I got rejected by this autistic foid, the experience destroyed me as an autistic man, and then I learned she was a "he/they" and her man boyfriend was a "she/her". What the fuck. Then I also met other 2 autistic girls but they were lesbian.

Are you autistic OP?
I'm not sure tbh, I do think so sometimes, I kinda fit perfectly on the high-functioning side of the spectrum but I've never been properly diagnosed so I might aswell just be a shy and obsessive weirdo.
 
I go to art college, since the first week I noticed (and admittedly had a crush on) a lonely girl that would always sit alone and talk to nobody at lunch time. She is tall, actually taller than me... I'm a bit of a manlet... and she has sort of strong facial features like a straight nose and square jaw but she looked cute nonetheless, specially with the way she styled her hair.

I'm very shy but I could tell this girl was even more shy and socially awkward than me, so I felt bad for her and after a few days of eyeing her from afar and hyping myself up to break through my shyness and talk to her I finally said hi to her and had a little conversation.

In retrospective I should've known this autistic bitch was not interested, I could tell how she loved talking about herself and would only interact when I asked her about something about her but the second I gave my opinion or my side of the conversation she pretty much shutdowned on me, even going as far as checking her phone while I talked to her. But alas, I had a crush so I brushed it off as nothing.

I would try every other day to talk to her but I felt like my attempts where useless, our first conversation was the longest because every other after that got shorter and I could tell she had less and less interest on talking to me, she would never look at me while I talked, often check her phone... this fucking whore would rather be a lonely autistic outcast than talk to me... I was making my best to fight my shyness, there where days when I didn't even approach her because I felt shy again.

Then it happened, I said hi to her and this time she outright ignored me... as if I wasn't even there... let me get this clear: THE AUTISTIC FOID WITH A MAN FACE THAT NO ONE TALKED TO FUCKING IGNORED ME.

why do I even bother....
Ok GrAY
 
Being approached by you is an insult to her, not a compliment. That's why she shut you down so rudely.
Amazing, isn't it? You can't attract people better looking than yourself, because duh. You're ugly, know your place.
You also can't attract people uglier or looksmatched, because duh. How could you think you got a chance, you weird low value male?

Lose-lose scenario. I'm happy, that i was always introverted and had a good social awareness. I could be considered not a rist taker, so i always played it safe. And while i can say that my life is uneventful, at the very least i did not get my heart torn into pieces that many times
 
lonely autistic foid
The bluepillers say, 'don't put you dick in crazy'. The meaning is that they will suffer more with crazy people and thus they shouldn't even start anything with such foids. Just like them, you shouldn't expect an outcast foid to be better in any way than normal foids, even if you're an outcast yourself. There are always reasons why she's an outcast
 
The bluepillers say, 'don't put you dick in crazy'. The meaning is that they will suffer more with crazy people and thus they shouldn't even start anything with such foids. Just like them, you shouldn't expect an outcast foid to be better in any way than normal foids, even if you're an outcast yourself. There are always reasons why she's an outcast
But then, there's no way in hell I a NT foid will ever stand my retarded shenanigans, logic tells me I should seek people that would or could understand my mindset.... life really is a loose-loose situation, isn't it?
 
Me and you are very alike I think the same
 
Tsk tsk, thou has a lot to learn, graycel!
 
But then, there's no way in hell I a NT foid will ever stand my retarded shenanigans, logic tells me I should seek people that would or could understand my mindset.... life really is a loose-loose situation, isn't it?
I suppose a NT would understand you, it just unlikely she will accept you that way as a partner. However I would still say you've got better chances with them as 2 disfunctional people together usually don't have matching traumas at all. Basically, just like Leo Tolstoy wrote, 'All happy families are happy in the same way, every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.' Instead of matching each other, you both will probably get twice the shit. Tbh, it seems she was just a typical 'queer freak girl', egoistical, shallow and so on, and it wasn't actually your fault at all.

As for your situation overall, I think we're on the same page. I'm a manlet, shy with social anxiety, go to a college as well. I don't know what exactly your situation is, but what I know is that a person can change, not entirely, but something can truly change. After years of struggling with SA and depression, now I'm much more outgoing and have greater self-esteem. I don't know how to put this in a good way.. sorry for such rude assumptions, but.. the last message of yours sounds like you just lack self-esteem and not some physical feature, like being NT. Now add shyness, some psycological problems and not being physically dominant... It all genuinly adds up to a familiar imagery of a shy insecure and awkard guy, whose problems lie, for some part, in the matter of socialisation and not his physics. Well, if that true by any chance, then it's not over for you, you still can win big if you take measures
 
In all seriousness though... over the years I've found that ugly women / low status women / social misfit women are much, MUCH harsher in how they treat sub-5 men, than Becky and Stacey are.
discovered this myself too. they also all have the same looks standards, you'd expect it to be lower -- even slightly, but nope.
 
She seemed to give you a chance until she ignored you with the phone. Interesting. Lack of personal experience likely killed your opportunity because you don't give women an opinion about something. You have to know.
 
What was the general rule again? Oh, CHAD ONLY!
 
She is definitely a chadsexual whore.
 

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