
ColdLightOfDay
Serge’s alt.
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First of all I am 5’7 so at a decisive disadvantage to most men in my society, which is the UK. However, I literally cannot imagine being so pathetic as to try and fraud a couple inches of height by wearing lifts. Not only because two inches cannot make a discernible difference, but this sets a terrible precedent of a desire to be perceived a certain way by others by virtue of your appearance - which is the exact line of thinking that makes 21st century society so abhorrent and should disgust incels.
I disagree that the mental effects of being ugly worsen as you get older, approaching my mid twenties I am far more accepting of my hideous drawbacks in comparison to myself a few years ago when I would be emotionally affected by every single response I received from a person, male or female, that I perceived to be a provocation of my ugliness.
I have come to accept that I have nothing in common with most of humanity and I do not try to impress them by pathetically and desperately employing the use of illusions to make myself more attractive, this is what women do with makeup and I consider it vapid and myopic in them and so will not stoop to it myself.
If you truly have an incel face then going up a couple inches will do nothing, your friends / co workers will eventually know what you’re doing and you will be even more of a joke in their eyes. In showing that their acceptance is important to you, you will have alienated yourself from them further.
When I see an attractive person who has put massive effort into their appearance I feel a specific type of loathing towards the superficial society such behaviour is representative of, but when I see an ugly person who has attempted to do the same thing (aside from laughing at how pathetic it looks) my heart breaks for them because they have not only failed in their endeavour to raise their standing in a system that will never truly accept them, they have telegraphed to the world that they really, really care (in doing so lowering their standing even further) - and perhaps worst of all - they have venerated and conformed to the terms of the very system which disenfranchised them in the first place, when they should have rejected it out-right.
I am not against looksmaxxing for those who can actually go from incel tier to normie, but let’s be honest: that is very rare. If you have a truly incel tier face then it is likely even surgery will not save you, so the only thing you can do is start down the difficult road of learning not to care - I will be explaining how to do this best in forthcoming posts.
I disagree that the mental effects of being ugly worsen as you get older, approaching my mid twenties I am far more accepting of my hideous drawbacks in comparison to myself a few years ago when I would be emotionally affected by every single response I received from a person, male or female, that I perceived to be a provocation of my ugliness.
I have come to accept that I have nothing in common with most of humanity and I do not try to impress them by pathetically and desperately employing the use of illusions to make myself more attractive, this is what women do with makeup and I consider it vapid and myopic in them and so will not stoop to it myself.
If you truly have an incel face then going up a couple inches will do nothing, your friends / co workers will eventually know what you’re doing and you will be even more of a joke in their eyes. In showing that their acceptance is important to you, you will have alienated yourself from them further.
When I see an attractive person who has put massive effort into their appearance I feel a specific type of loathing towards the superficial society such behaviour is representative of, but when I see an ugly person who has attempted to do the same thing (aside from laughing at how pathetic it looks) my heart breaks for them because they have not only failed in their endeavour to raise their standing in a system that will never truly accept them, they have telegraphed to the world that they really, really care (in doing so lowering their standing even further) - and perhaps worst of all - they have venerated and conformed to the terms of the very system which disenfranchised them in the first place, when they should have rejected it out-right.
I am not against looksmaxxing for those who can actually go from incel tier to normie, but let’s be honest: that is very rare. If you have a truly incel tier face then it is likely even surgery will not save you, so the only thing you can do is start down the difficult road of learning not to care - I will be explaining how to do this best in forthcoming posts.