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I see some posts of people who haven't even tried to talk to a women if you haven't become the best you can in your life at least once and were still rejected your not a true cell. Chad could lock himself in his room all day and not get a girl (they might break in that might have been an exaggeration) I would say if you haven't tried with at least 20-30 women your not a truecell
 
Didn't you have a girlfriend?
 
I don't need to waste my time publicly humiliating myself to know it’s over.
 
We're just avoiding the humiliation
 
Didn't you have a girlfriend?
Nigga I swear to god I made that post to explain that I didn't you can reread to post or some shit I explained I didn't have a gf i wish did if you could someone one that would be nice
 
why would I ask out 20-30 chicks if they care more about my looks and how much money I have. Even if I find one, she would lie to me that she had only one love, while had fucked with 20+ guys.
 
I do.

I am a 30 year old man and i've never had sex or a relationship before, but I still try. For example, I stop by at a smoothie shop and I try to talk to foids who work there sometimes. Most of them are college students. Some of them look too young (like 18-21) but I sometimes try to talk to the ones who appear to be 22+. They are seniors/super seniors and grad school students so they are at least closer to my age.

I also try to talk to foids at work who are not disgusting, landwhales. I don't mind overweight, but I avoid obese pigs. Not being an obese animal is really my only requierment. There are 3 foids who aren't landwhales who are not married. I try to talk to them from time to time as well. None seem interested, but its important to still try imo.

Thoughts? Do you guys try, if so how?
 
why would I ask out 20-30 chicks if they care more about my looks and how much money I have. Even if I find one, she would lie to me that she had only one love, while had fucked with 20+ guys.
Do your even like girls if you refuse to date any you refuse to even try with them
 
I do.

I am a 30 year old man and i've never had sex or a relationship before, but I still try. For example, I stop by at a smoothie shop and I try to talk to foids who work there sometimes. Most of them are college students. Some of them look too young (like 18-21) but I sometimes try to talk to the ones who appear to be 22+. They are seniors/super seniors and grad school students so they are at least closer to my age.

I also try to talk to foids at work who are not disgusting, landwhales. I don't mind overweight, but I avoid obese pigs. Not being an obese animal is really my only requierment. There are 3 foids who aren't landwhales who are not married. I try to talk to them from time to time as well. None seem interested, but its important to still try imo.

Thoughts? Do you guys try, if so how?
Only real nigga here
 
I also try to talk to foids at work who are not disgusting, landwhales.
Don't do that at your workplace. Or do you want to get fired and sued for sexual harassment? Besides, you don't have a neetbuxx system like we do in Germany.
 
Do your even like girls if you refuse to date any you refuse to even try with them
Not implying that I have high standards but there is no point to date a girl with flaws or closing eyes on certain issues. Even giving a second chance. She will never adapt to your likings cuz of how 99% of them perceive relationships.
 
I try to talk to them from time to time as well. None seem interested, but its important to still try imo.
Then stop it, I can already see them suing you.
 
I tried 31 times before I took the hint
 
I’m never going to participate in that cucked humiliation ritual.
 
Why would i even try i'm non-nt+ manlet + framelet + ugly i don't have any humiliation fetish sorry.
 
The NT tallfags here should try. They would have better odds IMO.
 
Justgottatrytheory
 
pisses me TF off, seeing bumcels identify themselves as truecels for being lazy, cowardly pieces of human garbage who never even gave life a fucking chance and just threw it away in self pity, and then go on to shame truecels who've tried all their lives and are still trying, and it's like...NO YOU FUCKING FAGGOTS, that's not how that works you will never know the pain of rejection and indifference from the person you thought was the right one, you are not even good enough to be incels, y'all are nothing, FUCKING NOTHING, nothing but a bunch pussies that is, y'all deserve to be alone with nothing but the barrel of a gun staring directly back at you for company. (spergcels get a pass since it's actually over for them)
 
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I do.

I am a 30 year old man and i've never had sex or a relationship before, but I still try. For example, I stop by at a smoothie shop and I try to talk to foids who work there sometimes. Most of them are college students. Some of them look too young (like 18-21) but I sometimes try to talk to the ones who appear to be 22+. They are seniors/super seniors and grad school students so they are at least closer to my age.

I also try to talk to foids at work who are not disgusting, landwhales. I don't mind overweight, but I avoid obese pigs. Not being an obese animal is really my only requierment. There are 3 foids who aren't landwhales who are not married. I try to talk to them from time to time as well. None seem interested, but its important to still try imo.

Thoughts? Do you guys try, if so how?
i respect you for still trying tbh
 
I’ve tried so much that I’ve pretty much heard every foid insult you can name. If you can name it then I’ve been called it.
 
The NT tallfags here should try. They would have better odds IMO.
the thing is they aren't NT which prevents them from ascending.
 
I have tried in the past but I won't anymore. The gf should try to get me
 
I tried when I was in school and it didn't get me anywhere. Currently, there's nowhere I can meet foids without having to cold approach
 
I see some posts of people who haven't even tried to talk to a women if you haven't become the best you can in your life at least once and were still rejected your not a true cell. Chad could lock himself in his room all day and not get a girl (they might break in that might have been an exaggeration) I would say if you haven't tried with at least 20-30 women your not a truecell
There's a reason why the trend here is that, postmaxxxers tend to disagree with you and the newbies agree with you,
Becuase the postmaxxers are the trucels that truly know it's OVERRRRRR.

Chances are you're not a trucel, I've heard ppl say u have a gf. whether u have or haven't doesnt matter to me, but I tend to agree with the fact that there's no point in trying if it never began.

I've tried in the past multiple times, but it's just a humiliation fetish at this point to continue. It's best for me and every trucel to just rotmax and cope.

Either you ascend or u will come to the same conclusion.
 
From my experience they all have boyfriends so what's the point?
 
I'm 36, I'm too old now to let myself be degraded and humiliated by some foid with a three-digit bodycount.
Back then, I tried a few things, both in real life and online.
That ended with me being beaten up, laughed at, and mocked.
Or I was allowed to be an emotional tampon and I could read through the whining about Chad.
When I sent a picture of myself to foids, I was usually ghosted pretty quickly. Yes, before the invention of smartphones and dating apps, it was a bit easier to at least text a girl; sometimes it even worked without having a picture in your profile. There were countless communities and chat rooms.
But as soon as the foids saw me, the "magic" was gone. Or as soon as their Chad(lite) fuckboy had time for them again.
Eventually, dating apps came along, and that's when I finally realized it was over.
Of course, I don't have the money for betabuxxing, but even if I did, it wouldn't change much, and as I said, at almost 40, I don't need this humiliation anymore.
My mother humiliated and laughed at me often enough, and she said no girl would even look at me anyway.
Yes, at least she was honest.

I got beaten up when, thanks to my only real life friend and the internet, I somehow managed to gain access to normie parties.
"Be confident and funny! The worst thing that can happen is that she says "no." :foidSoy: :soy:
Yes, I tried, and got a beating from some white knights. And probably from the boyfriend of a foid.
Unattractive boys aren't allowed to be confident and go all out.
Unfortunately, I didn't know that back then.
 
There's a reason why the trend here is that, postmaxxxers tend to disagree with you and the newbies agree with you,
Becuase the postmaxxers are the trucels that truly know it's OVERRRRRR.

Chances are you're not a trucel, I've heard ppl say u have a gf. whether u have or haven't doesnt matter to me, but I tend to agree with the fact that there's no point in trying if it never began.

I've tried in the past multiple times, but it's just a humiliation fetish at this point to continue. It's best for me and every trucel to just rotmax and cope.

Either you ascend or u will come to the same conclusion.
Yeah I agree with you when you know it's over it's over but I think having atleast a go is atleast good but after reading all the replies I see the point of view of not wanting to get embarrassed also I do not have a girlfriend I wouldn't be on here I harassed some girl until she said she would date me when I was 9 and then literally a hour later she got her 15 year old boyfriend to say he would stab me I just explained the story bad it was supposed to be a funny thread but I kinda messed it up I never even got to hug or anything so yeah probably shouldn't have made that thread
 
I'm 36, I'm too old now to let myself be degraded and humiliated by some foid with a three-digit bodycount.
Back then, I tried a few things, both in real life and online.
That ended with me being beaten up, laughed at, and mocked.
Or I was allowed to be an emotional tampon and I could read through the whining about Chad.
When I sent a picture of myself to foids, I was usually ghosted pretty quickly. Yes, before the invention of smartphones and dating apps, it was a bit easier to at least text a girl; sometimes it even worked without having a picture in your profile. There were countless communities and chat rooms.
But as soon as the foids saw me, the "magic" was gone. Or as soon as their Chad(lite) fuckboy had time for them again.
Eventually, dating apps came along, and that's when I finally realized it was over.
Of course, I don't have the money for betabuxxing, but even if I did, it wouldn't change much, and as I said, at almost 40, I don't need this humiliation anymore.
My mother humiliated and laughed at me often enough, and she said no girl would even look at me anyway.
Yes, at least she was honest.

I got beaten up when, thanks to my only real life friend and the internet, I somehow managed to gain access to normie parties.
"Be confident and funny! The worst thing that can happen is that she says "no." :foidSoy: :soy:
Yes, I tried, and got a beating from some white knights. And probably from the boyfriend of a foid.
Unattractive boys aren't allowed to be confident and go all out.
Unfortunately, I didn't know that back then.
Yeah your actually double my age I read a lot of responses from this post I was very red pilled when I was younger so I was on this gay self improvement shit but I'm finally coming to grips it's over for me after all the ridicule
 
Yeah I agree with you when you know it's over it's over but I think having atleast a go is atleast good but after reading all the replies I see the point of view of not wanting to get embarrassed also I do not have a girlfriend I wouldn't be on here I harassed some girl until she said she would date me when I was 9 and then literally a hour later she got her 15 year old boyfriend to say he would stab me I just explained the story bad it was supposed to be a funny thread but I kinda messed it up I never even got to hug or anything so yeah probably shouldn't have made that thread
it's fine, it's just that this is the last accesiable forum where moggers and foids are truly banned, so that's why people are so vigilant.


And I agree, you should try if you think you have a chance etc. it's just that there's no point in trying if ur trucel, if u feel like u can try,/have a chance u arent rly a trucel. imo
 
it's fine, it's just that this is the last accesiable forum where moggers and foids are truly banned, so that's why people are so vigilant.


And I agree, you should try if you think you have a chance etc. it's just that there's no point in trying if ur trucel, if u feel like u can try,/have a chance u arent rly a trucel. imo
I used to be red pilled when I used to try but now I pretty much know it's over
 
Good for them if they aren't fakecels. I wish I never tried.
 
Yeah your actually double my age I read a lot of responses from this post I was very red pilled when I was younger so I was on this gay self improvement shit but I'm finally coming to grips it's over for me after all the ridicule
Even though I sometimes make jokes like "Kids.is" etc.,
Your generation is REALLY screwed. Even average-looking boys have it very difficult. Twenty years ago, getting a 4-5/10 foid would have been quite achievable for an average guy. Nowadays, you actually have to be at least a 7/10 to have a minimal chance of that, and even getting a fat 3 became difficult.
It's completely crazy.

At first, I didn't know anything about all these pills. I first encountered the Redpill in my mid-to-late 20s. Back then, this pill primarily criticized women's behavior and their astronomically high standards. It was more like today's Blackpill, and MGTOW was a common copium in that space. At least in German-speaking countries.
I never had much to do with PUA or that self-improvement coaching nonsense; at some point, it became the main topic of discussion for these dating coaches/scammers. But their content didn't bother me and I realized pretty quickly that it wouldn't work for a guy like me anyway.
The fact that Redpillers are such gigantic simps and cucks is probably more of a new phenomenon or a phenomenon of the American/English-speaking manosphere. As I said, it wasn't that common in the German-speaking manosphere.

As I learned more about the Blackpill, I also blackpiled my fellow countrymen in these spaces.
 
I said above that I wouldn't become a betabuxxer even with a lot of money.
I must add that I spent years in MGTOW circles and studied the experiences of numerous betabuxxers. It's absolutely horrific. I actually believe some of them when they say they're fed up with women and not just coping. These foids often downright despised and hated their husbands, and they made them feel it every day. To the point of divorce rape. And that's a whole other level of abyss...
 
Even though I sometimes make jokes like "Kids.is" etc.,
Your generation is REALLY screwed. Even average-looking boys have it very difficult. Twenty years ago, getting a 4-5/10 foid would have been quite achievable for an average guy. Nowadays, you actually have to be at least a 7/10 to have a minimal chance of that, and even getting a fat 3 became difficult.
It's completely crazy.

At first, I didn't know anything about all these pills. I first encountered the Redpill in my mid-to-late 20s. Back then, this pill primarily criticized women's behavior and their astronomically high standards. It was more like today's Blackpill, and MGTOW was a common copium in that space. At least in German-speaking countries.
I never had much to do with PUA or that self-improvement coaching nonsense; at some point, it became the main topic of discussion for these dating coaches/scammers. But their content didn't bother me and I realized pretty quickly that it wouldn't work for a guy like me anyway.
The fact that Redpillers are such gigantic simps and cucks is probably more of a new phenomenon or a phenomenon of the American/English-speaking manosphere. As I said, it wasn't that common in the German-speaking manosphere.

As I learned more about the Blackpill, I also blackpiled my fellow countrymen in these spaces.
I live in England so red pillers are extremely popular over here with Andrew Tate and hamza large majority of people over here watch them and I mainly grew up listening to people like this and it made a false sense of reality for me I don't know why I tried. I have a facial deformity where I don't grow adult teeth so I'm recessed I also have dyslexia what's not major but still hurts me overall I tried for years to get girls before accepting my fate I'm just getting ready to bunker down and cope
 
I tried when I was younger but I don't have the energy anymore. The best I could hope for now would be some single mom roastie and I have no interest in that.
 
I live in England so red pillers are extremely popular over here with Andrew Tate and hamza large majority of people over here watch them and I mainly grew up listening to people like this and it made a false sense of reality for me I don't know why I tried. I have a facial deformity where I don't grow adult teeth so I'm recessed I also have dyslexia what's not major but still hurts me overall I tried for years to get girls before accepting my fate I'm just getting ready to bunker down and cope
Interesting. In Germany, this was more of a niche topic. Until recently.
Because articles about the manosphere increasingly appeared in the mainstream. "Anti-feminist, right-wing extremist misogynists spread their hate online," etc.
Yes, that's typical of modern Germany: Anyone who deviates from the mainstream is initially considered a "Nazi."
But the actual neo-Nazis are usually enormous simps and defend foids fiercely.
However, there is no big distinction made between MGTOWs and incels; they are all lumped together and declared to be the enemy.
Whether it's about divorce or someone not being able to find a girlfriend, men are always the ones to blame.
It's the same propaganda garbage.

I have a facial deformity where I don't grow adult teeth so I'm recessed I also have dyslexia what's not major but still hurts me overall
So it's over for you too. Before it even began. :feelscry:
 
I’m shy :feelsrope: not much to talk about either
 
I can't meet any women in warm environments, so cold approach is my only option. I've asked out landwhales, grannies and even a girl with down syndrome once. But never once did I get a number or even an Instagram account :feelsrope:
 
Enlightenment is realizing that dating is a cucking ritual, where the man is reduced to a product to be evaluated. This game is beyond disgusting, and I rather not participate.
 
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pisses me TF off, seeing bumcels identify themselves as truecels for being lazy, cowardly pieces of human garbage who never even gave life a fucking chance and just threw it away in self pity, and then go on to shame truecels who've tried all their lives and are still trying, and it's like...NO YOU FUCKING FAGGOTS, that's not how that works you will never know the pain of rejection and indifference from the person you thought was the right one, you are not even good enough to be incels, y'all are nothing, FUCKING NOTHING, nothing but a bunch pussies that is, y'all deserve to be alone with nothing but the barrel of a gun staring directly back at you for company. (spergcels get a pass since it's actually over for them)
I didn't expected to get motivated on .is lmao
 
you have to confirm where you stand before you say it's over.
 
at least 20-30 women your not a truecell
BrothER, my mind would break because of all the shame and shyness. I tried to ask like 3 foids in my class out and they laughed at me and bullied me even more. Idk, perhaps you are just saying that because you want to flex. Well you have, you socialmogg me and like 90% of the forum.
 
I think you fail to understand that some of us actually want meaningful, serious relationships which will last a lifetime.
We don't want the typical western rot, where we marry and then get divorced a year later, cheated on etc. .

I have always, only been looking for something serious.
The girls I talked to, I always knew a bit already, be it from school, through friends and family.

Asking out random foids is LITERALLY a waste of time and like looking for a needle in a haystack. I have also noticed that, at least here in Germany, the foids don't ever respond positively when you talk to them in public. Might just be that I am too ugly for that too work. Though, in general Ii have never seen guys hit on girls in public. Girls have gotten super cold overall, I'd say. Or maybe it's just typical Germans.

As for me, I have certain standards, which do involve looks, but those are at the very bottom, as my goal was always to have a family, when I was much younger. So, I have certain views, ideals, which the mother of my children should absolutely share.
Like, I perfectly understand if, say, a catholic man only wants to marry a catholic woman. It makes sense. Living together will be easier. They will the same / a similar mindset.

Yet the older I got the more I realized that the quality of foids had degraded so much and so fast, that finding wife material is damn near impossible. It was already a pain in the early 2000s ... .

You simply can't and shouldn't even bother to try and build a family with a foid that's already been in relationships.

She is already damaged. It is a waste of your time and energy.
If you are supposed to invest your all into it, then so is she.

But if she has already invested in one or several other relationships, then she can never 100% invest in yours.

Even if you weren't ugly, try finding wife material in this day and age... .
And I don't consider betabuxxing ascension. It is a bad joke.
I'd rather remain an incel than betabuxx. I might as well pay for an escort and receive the same half assed fake affection.

Like, what are you gonna do if she isn't genuinely into you?

I have approached different types of girls, with different backgrounds, attitudes, believes, views, different looks. I never went beyond my league.
The rejections were harsh, cold, often times with stupid reasons that they've named.
Been lead on twice too.
One of those times was even a literal catfish moment. The bitch later tried to humiliate me. Didn't work, but still, she tried.

I was indirectly called dumb by a foid with whom a friend of my mother tried to set me up.
She was so fucking stuck up that she didn't care to ever meet me irl.
She wanted to know my social media account. Checked out my profile and told me in a passive aggressive way that I am a dumb boy, not a man.
 
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