South_of_Heaven
Greycel
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- Jan 22, 2023
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Look before I start, I know the whole “I’m not even ugly” excuse is some of the biggest coping mechanisms of our kind however in my case I really don’t think I’m a ugly dude, quite the opposite in fact, yet it’s all the more soul crushing how I can’t find anyone.
I am a 23 year old, 5’11 in height, 145lbs. My face has a nice jawline, I have a fabulous mustache, my hairline is good, face free of acne. I’m not socially awkward and can hold my own in a conversation. I workout 3-5 days a week and while I’m not *big* I have a legitimately good physique. I wear a lot of black T shirts and hoodies with different colored jeans and various Air Jordan’s. I have a solid revenue stream, live on my own and own a car.
On my worst days I feel like a 5/10 *bad haircut, bummy clothes, haven’t shaved etc* on my best I feel like a solid 7/10.
Theoretically I should be able to get a GF right?
No.
Unlike men women don’t punch below their weight and date their legitimate looksmatch when they only look up. Why would my theoretical looksmatch settle with me when she knows that if she holds out a little bit longer a chad will come around and swoop her off her feet?
A few weeks ago I did the unthinkable and shot my shot with a coworker. We had worked a whole shift together talking about various topics, hobbies etc, genuinely laughing and having a good time. I felt we had a spark and were genuinely on the same looks level so after work in her DMs I shot my shot only for her to turn me down.
Ok no biggie life goes on…
Two weeks later I see her IG and she’s met a 6’1 white chad with huge biceps and a nice car.
Fml….
I am a 23 year old, 5’11 in height, 145lbs. My face has a nice jawline, I have a fabulous mustache, my hairline is good, face free of acne. I’m not socially awkward and can hold my own in a conversation. I workout 3-5 days a week and while I’m not *big* I have a legitimately good physique. I wear a lot of black T shirts and hoodies with different colored jeans and various Air Jordan’s. I have a solid revenue stream, live on my own and own a car.
On my worst days I feel like a 5/10 *bad haircut, bummy clothes, haven’t shaved etc* on my best I feel like a solid 7/10.
Theoretically I should be able to get a GF right?
No.
Unlike men women don’t punch below their weight and date their legitimate looksmatch when they only look up. Why would my theoretical looksmatch settle with me when she knows that if she holds out a little bit longer a chad will come around and swoop her off her feet?
A few weeks ago I did the unthinkable and shot my shot with a coworker. We had worked a whole shift together talking about various topics, hobbies etc, genuinely laughing and having a good time. I felt we had a spark and were genuinely on the same looks level so after work in her DMs I shot my shot only for her to turn me down.
Ok no biggie life goes on…
Two weeks later I see her IG and she’s met a 6’1 white chad with huge biceps and a nice car.
Fml….
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