I can't even imagine myself in marriage anymore

[RuudVanNistelrooy]

Even if I could betabuxx she would still be annoyed with my non-NT behavior. 90% of people I know are already married with children. And having children is a burden so it's not very encouraging to listen a crying baby at night.
When my child attends high school I already would be a senior citizen.

 

[Junkie]

Don't have children if you're too old, unless you're very intelligent, rich or talented in any way.

 

[carrot]

Even if I could betabuxx she would still be annoyed with my non-NT behavior. 90% of people I know are already married with children. And having children is a burden so it's not very encouraging to listen a crying baby at night.
When my child attends high school I already would be a senior citizen.

I don’t really see the appeal of having children anyway. You’d lose your complete freedom and have to be there always for your offspring. It just doenst sound too much fun. Being with someone on the other hand

 

[Cuckoja]

I dont know what to think, i like to believe that i could pull it off, i know many guys at our age who just became fathers and they seem to do ok. But in our case, with zero relationship experience and some experience with kids like nephews and nieces, im not so sure.

 

[RuudVanNistelrooy]

I don’t really see the appeal of having children anyway. You’d lose your complete freedom and have to be there always for your offspring. It just doenst sound too much fun. Being with someone on the other hand

My wife would be in her 30's or early 40's so there is a risky pregnancy.

 

[RuudVanNistelrooy]

I dont know what to think, i like to believe that i could pull it off, i know many guys at our age who just became fathers and they seem to do ok. But in our case, with zero relationship experience and some experience with kids like nephews and nieces, im not so sure.

My tall NT cousin had a child when he was in late 30's and is no joke, plus financial expenses.

 

[Smiggles]

Might marry a prisoner just so I can say I been married.

 

[Cuckoja]

My tall NT cousin had a child when he was in late 30's and is no joke, plus financial expenses.

My ex colleague was born in 84, had four small kids aged 0 to 6. It was hard for him, worked two jobs often. But he seemed genuinely happy, probably happiest guy i met in last 10 years, and he and his wife sounded like teenagers in crush on the phone. How much that was cute to me, that much i envied him.

 

[carrot]

My wife would be in her 30's or early 40's so there is a risky pregnancy.

I don’t think I’d be worth it. Rather a long and healthy life spend with her

 

[carrot]

My ex colleague was born in 84, had four small kids aged 0 to 6. It was hard for him, worked two jobs often. But he seemed genuinely happy, probably happiest guy i met in last 10 years, and he and his wife sounded like teenagers in crush on the phone. How much that was cute to me, that much i envied him.

Wow, not something you hear much. Love can be so beautiful if you’re lucky

 

[TheHungariancel]

My ex colleague was born in 84, had four small kids aged 0 to 6. It was hard for him, worked two jobs often. But he seemed genuinely happy, probably happiest guy i met in last 10 years, and he and his wife sounded like teenagers in crush on the phone. How much that was cute to me, that much i envied him.

No wonder. The majority of men find fulfillment in life by getting married and having kids. The same would apply to many of us here, imo.

 

[Cuckoja]

No wonder. The majority of men find fulfillment in life by getting married and having kids. The same would apply to many of us here, imo.

Yeah, man needs to take care of someone to feel fulfilled. At least i think so.

 

[FiveThreeBlackCel]

im married to my right hand i love palmela so much