He wouldn't be the first closeted gay to have a family.
If that's the case, then why do you differentiate between what's in the Quran and what the prophet said as part of the collections of his saying (hadith)? If every word coming from him is divinely inspired and direct from God, then why isn't all of his words in the Quran? Why does that distinction between scripture and hadith even exist anyway?
And how would anyone know if he's giving his own personal opinion on something or if he's calling God on the direct channel? Are you saying that he has no opinions of his own? If you're saying that, then you're saying that he doesn't think, because you have to think to form and construct your own opinions. And what of the fact that he was simply a human being with likes and dislikes - a man with preferences. He had clothing and dietary preferences. Does this mean that those preferences are from God as well? If he dressed a certain a way, walked, talked, sat and ate a certain way, that this is was all from God? If that's true, then why is everything your prophet does not compulsory instead of what you would call "sunnah?"
Your religion has a cult-like veneration of your prophet, and the unfortunate thing is that you all have this blind spot. You dress like him, grow your beards like him, and even adopt his reported mannerisms. This goes beyond religion. This is cult behavior.