how would u solve this problem of loneliness

[bbwqs_v]

by human nature, any social interaction anyone would ever have is to ultimately serve their own best interests, most relationships are just built upon being mutually beneficial with reciprocal altruism.

after always being the "giver" or "first one to provide value" in any social relationship and being used by everyone my whole life and ignored once no longer needed, how could i ever want to attempt to form any social relationship unless absolutely necessary? is there any way around this?

 

[bbwqs_v]

i guess that's why people only have one or two 'real' friends, but those usually develop when people are transitioning into adulthood from their teenage years, when they're maturing together, spending lots of time together, it's kinda doomed isn't it

 

[Specimen]

by human nature, any social interaction anyone would ever have is to ultimately serve their own best interests, most relationships are just built upon being mutually beneficial with reciprocal altruism.

after always being the "giver" or "first one to provide value" in any social relationship and being used by everyone my whole life and ignored once no longer needed, how could i ever want to attempt to form any social relationship unless absolutely necessary? is there any way around this?

Make yourself desirable, make your own traits that would benefit your presence to others

 

[Med Anime]

the only real friendships that you can build are in childhood becaus ethat period of life isn't really affected by looks. all the relatioships you make now are futile

 

[bbwqs_v]

Make yourself desirable, make your own traits that would benefit your presence to others

the only thing desirable about me is my academic excellence, which i learned that once ppl associated me with being the smart kid, they would just keep asking me for answers to assignments and quizzes, so now i just try to pretend im stupid so i dont get pestered with questions. plus, most people seem to be too hard to teach, in terms of thinking skills. after they use me for my knowledge, i become disposable, why would i ever subject myself to such loserdom, maybe if i wasnt autistic i could leverage it to my advantage somehow

 

[bbwqs_v]

Make yourself desirable, make your own traits that would benefit your presence to others

i initially wanted to try likeminded peers but it seems like they just mog me in every aspect, lookswise and iq, so it's not like we can even get along, and i believe those who are like me are probably too autistic, introverted, and socially inept to want to try to form a relationship in the first place despite feeling lonely

 

[bbwqs_v]

the only real friendships that you can build are in childhood becaus ethat period of life isn't really affected by looks. all the relatioships you make now are futile

i agree, i mean even the looks factor eventually catches up after childhood and they will either split paths into chad, normie, or incel lifestyle, unless they're the same, but that's so unlikely

 

[bbwqs_v]

Make yourself desirable, make your own traits that would benefit your presence to others

i guess it's maybe the same as when attractive people say they feel like they got used for their looks, like how high iq ppl are just used for their smarts. i can't get over the idea of being used, after being used my whole life, how retarded am i

 

[Cletus Longthing]

by human nature, any social interaction anyone would ever have is to ultimately serve their own best interests, most relationships are just built upon being mutually beneficial with reciprocal altruism.

after always being the "giver" or "first one to provide value" in any social relationship and being used by everyone my whole life and ignored once no longer needed, how could i ever want to attempt to form any social relationship unless absolutely necessary? is there any way around this?

Get p00sie

 

[MiSKiRaT]

by human nature, any social interaction anyone would ever have is to ultimately serve their own best interests, most relationships are just built upon being mutually beneficial with reciprocal altruism.

after always being the "giver" or "first one to provide value" in any social relationship and being used by everyone my whole life and ignored once no longer needed, how could i ever want to attempt to form any social relationship unless absolutely necessary? is there any way around this?

It's instinctual, if you feel like you aren't getting anything in return from anyone you'll ignore them and try your best to not relate to them since they aren't of your interest, just like how cumdumpsters ignore low SMV males since they have no interest in them. They want you for what you HAVE not for what you are, this happened to me and I've seen it everywhere, when I had a garbage PC I rarely played with my friends since they only stuck to playing gta 5 online and my PC doesn't have the specs to run that dogshit game but when I got an expensive PC me and my friends played the shit out of it until we got bored from it. Nothing works out if you got nothing to provide, emotional support or anything related to personality is a meme at this point you gotta have something redeeming about you materialistically. Humans are parasites that leech off of everyone for their own interest it's an evolutionary trait. Try to be careful when you talk to anyone especially when some of your old acquaintances call you back. They almost always will ask you for a favor and ditch you when you do their dirty deed.

 

[bbwqs_v]

It's instinctual, if you feel like you aren't getting anything in return from anyone you'll ignore them and try your best to not relate to them since they aren't of your interest, just like how cumdumpsters ignore low SMV males since they have no interest in them. They want you for what you HAVE not for what you are, this happened to me and I've seen it everywhere, when I had a garbage PC I rarely played with my friends since they only stuck to playing gta 5 online and my PC doesn't have the specs to run that dogshit game but when I got an expensive PC me and my friends played the shit out of it until we got bored from it. Nothing works out if you got nothing to provide, emotional support or anything related to personality is a meme at this point you gotta have something redeeming about you materialistically. Humans are parasites that leech off of everyone for their own interest it's an evolutionary trait. Try to be careful when you talk to anyone especially when some of your old acquaintances call you back. They almost always will ask you for a favor and ditch you when you do their dirty deed.

thanks for the reply, mentally paralysed at the fact that i am also just a leech when it comes desiring who i want to interact with, something out of my control, like how others desire to interact with me, we r all nothing but agents for our genes, i want to end my life

 

[MiSKiRaT]

thanks for the reply, mentally paralysed at the fact that i am also just a leech when it comes desiring who i want to interact with, something out of my control, like how others desire to interact with me, we r all nothing but agents for our genes, i want to end my life

You're welcome, although I don't think it's healthy to adapt to this mentality. Sometimes people ( especially low SMV males, normies most of the time are not empathetic and are fucking emotionless cucks ) like you for being there for them or for having memories or experiencing a lot of things with them, just like my indonesian trucel friend that I always chat about modern warfare with. But it takes miles to develop a real friendship with someone. And for relationships yeah I don't think most cumdumpsters are interested of anything outside of chad, and it's fucking impossible to find a whore to date with all the handed privileges they have, they're already winning in life by doing nothing so why should they look for a low SMV loyal male partner when chad is an option? Fuck this life anyway and fuck all cucks.