Here are steps
1. Enough money to afford not only the travel, which will likely be over $1000, but obviously also money for a place to be living at, rent. This doesn’t include food, utilities etc. All told, I would want to have minimum $10,000 in cash to even attempt this move, and that’s $10,000 in cash left over after the first months rent and travel expenses.
2. You need to pick an ideal location. Disregard politics for this. You need to find a place with a low enough population and in a particular environment so that housing isn’t insanely expensive. It must also be in a location that you have pre-screened for potential job opportunities. Consider even calling these businesses and informing them of your imminent move when this plan actually becomes serious. I would imagine that you taking that kind of initiative with them, coupled with you moving from a new country, will make them likely to hire you.
3. But before any of this, you must acquire your green card. You must obtain citizenship so you may live in the country and work legally. It will also be necessary for acquiring housing. Obviously, being an illegal is possible and can be managed around, including a job, however since you are an incel I don’t see that type of life being for you anyway. Also, you’re white assumedly, not a spik.
Either way, I don’t know how lonely your current life is (friends, family, of course. None of us have a woman.) but be prepared for complete and total isolation once you come here. You will know absolutely no one. For Chad, or even very sociable normies this would solve itself shortly and naturally. Since you are here, well, I can only assume that would not be the case for you. Good luck brother.