Discussion How many people were confident and outgoing in early childhood/ pre-puberty?

[Deleted member 21173]

I don't know if this is a common incel trait, but when I was probably 11 and under I was a very confident child, to the point I was probably quite annoying. Then puberty rolls around and I'm the awkward freak I am today. Along with that I notice foids are repulsed by me and that acne is about to make my life hell.

I was wondering if this is common or that the aspiecels here have always had a hard time socialising? I, for one, wish I was never confident and always the autistic freak I am now as then I'd have never had anything to compare my misery to but the people around me.

 

[startcel]

I was that way too. I was confident and popular until I hit puberty.

 

[zangano1]

Not me

 

[Deleted member 21173]

I was that way too. I was confident and popular until I hit puberty.

It's just even more suifuel. To tease us with a life we couldve had.

 

[Uglyethnicrat]

No. Not a fakecel.

 

[Deleted member 21173]

fakecel

I'm mogged by my 9 yo self and you're calling me a fakecel. Ridiculous.

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

I don't know if this is a common incel trait, but when I was probably 11 and under I was a very confident child, to the point I was probably quite annoying. Then puberty rolls around and I'm the awkward freak I am today. Along with that I notice foids are repulsed by me and that acne is about to make my life hell.

I was wondering if this is common or that the aspiecels here have always had a hard time socialising? I, for one, wish I was never confident and always the autistic freak I am now as then I'd have never had anything to compare my misery to but the people around me.

yeah i was basically bullied into being anxious and guarded, i didn't have any anxiety at all and used to get injured from playing way too hard with the other kids
all it takes is a few instances of girls or cool people reacting to you like you're a piece of shit, for you to second guess your every move from then on

 

[VirginAutistManlet]

Puberty is a funny thing - it either completely destroys you and locks you out of living a life, or turns you into a hypersexual demigod that enables you to live life to the max.

 

[IamJacksBrokenHeart]

No. Not a fakecel.

that has nothing to do with being a fakecel .
Puberty makes us or breaks us as a Male .

 

[kvn]

I was so social and outgoing i couldnt decide which friends to go out with. However then thr spd/avpd/sad hit me and it was over for me.

 

[startcel]

Puberty is a funny thing - it either completely destroys you and locks you out of living a life, or turns you into a hypersexual demigod that enables you to live life to the max.

that has nothing to do with being a fakecel .
Puberty makes us or breaks us as a Male .

 

[Deleted member 6214]

I don't know if this is a common incel trait, but when I was probably 11 and under I was a very confident child, to the point I was probably quite annoying. Then puberty rolls around and I'm the awkward freak I am today. Along with that I notice foids are repulsed by me and that acne is about to make my life hell.

I was wondering if this is common or that the aspiecels here have always had a hard time socialising? I, for one, wish I was never confident and always the autistic freak I am now as then I'd have never had anything to compare my misery to but the people around me.

Yep. I was actually the most popular kid in my class in 7th grade... but gradually it all went downhill. I even had a teacher ask me in 10th grade why I had no friends to hang out with at lunch. I just told her I was busy studying (a lie, my grades were going downhill too. But no teacher noticed or cared).

 

[Uglyethnicrat]

that has nothing to do with being a fakecel .
Puberty makes us or breaks us as a Male .

Sure fakecel

 

[EyesAreSoCold]

I was still shy but difference between me today and then is so immense that I voted 'was'.

 

[Homoculus]

My early childhood was mostly good, although I had some significant birth defects. My father was a military man, so I was entitled to the same gruff but caring medical care as he.

Everything changed in 1964. My mother was pregnant, and wanted her third child to be born in England. Part of the process required getting me an American passport. My earlier trips to and from the British Isles and beyond used other documents. A long form birth certificate was required. The long form birth certificate asked: How many live births prior to this one? The surprise answer was one.

That's about it.

 

[Deleted member 21173]

fakecel

Just pathetic.

 

[iKillCucks]

Not me

 

[Adamhastor]

I had a fucking half-Chad, half-jester personality when I was a kid. I was teasing girls, didn't give a fuck, got into fights, ect...

No idea what the hell happened after puberty

 

[Uglyethnicrat]

Just pathetic.

Yes, yes you are.

 

[IamJacksBrokenHeart]

Sure fakecel

dont go ER

 

[azakhan]

I was, fuck puberty, fuck this gay earth and fuck you God.

 

[Capable_Onion]

I was very confident before puberty hit, couldn't care less about what people thought.

After that it was pretty much a downward spiral.

 

[Deleted member 17606]

Given my extremely shit upbringing I was relatively outgoing and socially capable to degree before I hit around 14. Then mental illness took over my life well into my 20s until it calmed down with that aspect. Now I am hollow. No point in being outgoing. No dreams and daydreaming like I used to be able to when I was younger. Just a monotone life of wageslaving and trying to find something to care for.

 

[JestER]

I was screwed from the beginning, so I can't relate

 

[Idotms]

I wasn't. I was never the social type.

 

[startcel]

Sure fakecel

troll

 

[Vermilioncore]

I wasn't. I was never the social type.

 

[Midwestcel]

My early childhood was mostly good, although I had some significant birth defects. My father was a military man, so I was entitled to the same gruff but caring medical care as he.

Everything changed in 1964. My mother was pregnant, and wanted her third child to be born in England. Part of the process required getting me an American passport. My earlier trips to and from the British Isles and beyond used other documents. A long form birth certificate was required. The long form birth certificate asked: How many live births prior to this one? The surprise answer was one.

That's about it.

1964??? You're a legit oldcel! That was 55 years ago and you're old enough to have memories from that time.

 

[Shigechi]

Puberty ruined my life. I was a cute kid, people treated me better and i was confident and extroverted, had female friends. When i was 11 my subhuman traits began to appear more and more and i changed school, everything went to hell from this point.

 

[Deleted member 21908]

i was the fat funny bluepilled kid all throughout middle school so yes

 

[Deleted member 20195]

Pre puberty was the best. I was confident, outgoing, had alot of friends including girls. Post puberty I only have a handful of outcast male friends and zero female interest.

 

[AlexanderTheGreat11]

Yes , I was amazing. Jealous of that guy , Dissapointed of the person I became

 

[ThirdWorldcel]

Used to be a high-tier normie when I was a kid, a very talkative and funny kid...about to be a Chadlite until puberty fucked me up.

Puberty is for 50% of men what the wall is for women.

 

[MountainGorilla]

I stayed inside for most of my life during my childhood as well as being sent to different baby sitters while my mom wage slaved away. I only made 1 friend during my childhood being baby sitted. I mostly stayed inside playing with toys and watching cartoons. I never talked to people throughout my childhood or at school.

 

[Admiral_Arkantos]

Was

 

[Mainländer]

I was super extroverted and talkative. School/bullying destroyed me.

 

[AlexanderTheGreat11]

Puberty is for 50% of men what the wall is for women.

Agree

 

[Deleted member 19971]

I was pretty confident and extroverted as a child, mostly around males.
I didn't have much success with females though.
Once puberty hit it was over for me.

 

[bigantennaemay1]

I'm actually more confident and outgoing in recent years, after I've completely given up on life, as it turns out, than I ever have been before.

 

[Monk of Failure]

I was not.

 

[Homoculus]

1964??? You're a legit oldcel! That was 55 years ago and you're old enough to have memories from that time.

The earliest memory I can date comes from February 14th, 1962, the day Mom and my new sister came home from the hospital.

 

[Midwestcel]

The earliest memory I can date comes from February 14th, 1962, the day Mom and my new sister came home from the hospital.

You're probably around my parents age range.

 

[Homoculus]

I'm sixty. Your parents are probably younger.

 

[GeneticDysfunction]

yeah i was basically bullied into being anxious and guarded, i didn't have any anxiety at all and used to get injured from playing way too hard with the other kids
all it takes is a few instances of girls or cool people reacting to you like you're a piece of shit, for you to second guess your every move from then on

THisssss

 

[Deleted member 19236]

I wasnt. I remember when I was a kid I played alone with ants.
I am not on the Autism Spectrum, though

 

[Indari]

since pre-k i was too shy to talk to almost anyone

 

[Deleted member 818]

I wouldn’t say I was outgoing, but I felt more comfortable talking to people I was familiar with. Even then I was still an aspie.