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JFL How many girls have you asked out in your lifetime?

Anyone answering 0 should be permabanned, what the fuck.

Maybe 10-15 or so before the full realization of my subhumanity was undeniable.
 
You're confusing norwooding and having short hair. You're not balding apparently, but believe me, even with a buzzcut you'll notice that
Like I said with my brother, he shaved it ALL OFF, I am not confusing anything, he is clean shaven, I've only had to do buzz cut so far, but I have no problem going clean shaven either, a lot of black men have that hairstyle anyways, and I'm talking about guys who can grow a full head of hair

Maybe it just looks better on black men than it does white men

I've always liked the Lex Luthor look anyways tbh lol

Plus let's not ignore hundreds of teehee's who "find bald men not unattractive" yet "sorry teehee, I love to [UWSL]run my hand through my bf´s hair¨[/UWSL]
Same with height too, a lot of women will say "I can date a short guy" but "It just so happens than my boyfriend is 6ft tall"

As men were going to have to go to extremes to get what we want

For example travel

The average height in countries like the Netherlands is 6ft tall, so a tall white guy who struggles to date there could move to a country where the average height is lower and take advantage of the fact that he's tall

A balding unattractive guy can build his wealth and move to a country where the women are more impoverished (people are poor) and take advantage of the fact that he's rich

There are options available, the thing is, most men (especially incels) are stubborn and egotistical, and they refuse to exploit these loopholes, for them its - "I have to get what I want specifically where I live or else I don't want it"

My response to that is - "Ok, well continue to suffer for the rest of your life :feelskek:"

I don't even care about dating, marriage or children, I plan to move to a 3rd world country to escortcel cheaply, but I know full well that if I wanted to date, get married and have children that I could pull it off, because I look at everything in life as "a game", its about strategy and taking advantage of the options you have available

Too many men (especially incels) are being led by their emotions and their ego down paths that lead to nothing but failure and depression
 
Unless you are significantly short (5'6" and below) or you have some kind of significant mental and/or physical defect (that is observable), you have no excuse to not approach

Combination of both. I am a 5'3 ethnicel with ASD and stuttering problems.
 
@NorwoodVictim
@Paranoidcel

How the fuck would you know you are really incel then?

I don't get you guys, you could never truly know if you haven't approached at all, all you did was create a self fulfilling prophecy

Unless you are significantly short (5'6" and below) or you have some kind of significant mental and/or physical defect (that is observable), you have no excuse to not approach
my reputation irl is enough to repel them, why would any woman spare her time to speak to me if i’m perceived as unforgivable by the majority of people i know irl just for being a socially inept loser
 
my reputation irl is enough to repel them
Your excuse just sounds ridiculous, you don't have a reputation with every woman in your country, it isn't really "approaching" if you only target women within your social circle

You have to do "cold approaches" too
 
Your excuse just sounds ridiculous, you don't have a reputation with every woman in your country, it isn't really "approaching" if you only target women within your social circle

You have to do "cold approaches" too
cold approaches barely work though, especially for non chad males such as us. most relationships these days are formed by meeting through your social circle or online dating apps
 
cold approaches barely work though, especially for non chad males such as us. most relationships these days are formed by meeting through your social circle or online dating apps
They barely work, but you don't know if they would have worked for you, and you don't know if your social group approaches would have worked either because you refused to try those too :feelskek:

I'll say it again, you are just creating a self fulfilling prophecy and then using it as an excuse

You can't do nothing and then complain when nothing happens lol
 
1 in primary school, she just said "no" when I asked if she would be my girlfriend :feelskek: I wish I was this low inhib again before my brain got fucked
 
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I tried to approach once. She looked straight through me like I didn't exist and I didn't even finish my introduction because it was immediately over.
 
1 in primary school, she just said "no" when I asked if she would be my girlfriend :feelskek: I wish I was this low inhib again before my brain got fucked
I got the "you know were just friends" when I approached a girl like that during those years of schooling :feelskek:
 
In person, twice.

Online, about 57 times.
 
i think about 6, but after blackpill no more
 
How many times did you ask out girls?
302. 298 rejections, four phone numbers. Only one was willing to talk to me but we never met up for a date

And that's just IRL. If we want to talk about online rejections I don't even know how many I have rejected, the call of the rope would become too strong
 
Thinking about it now, 6 real ones.

The first was when I was 17 and the last one I would have been about 29. So I'm a bit of a slow learner but I did start to see the pattern eventually JFL. :feelshaha:

The 6 were all IRL, and were all in situations where I thought there was something there, and I thought there was some real possibility of something more happening. Of those 6, the 1st and the 2nd rejections were the worst, because in my naive youth I let my imagination and my oblivious optimism get way ahead of me, and I was pretty emotionally invested even before I "asked her out."

In the 6 I don't count a couple of pathetic schoolboy infatations that I had no idea how to maturely act on, and probably a dozen online dating site swing & misses.
302. 298 rejections, four phone numbers. Only one was willing to talk to me but we never met up for a date

And that's just IRL. If we want to talk about online rejections I don't even know how many I have rejected, the call of the rope would become too strong
Genuine question - how on earth do you know it's three hundred and two?

I had to count on my fingers and wrack my brain to remember some of the names just to confirm my number 6...
 
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Online about 15 times. In person (cold) never In person (warm) a good few. How many dates have you guys been on from online?
 
Online about 15 times. In person (cold) never In person (warm) a good few. How many dates have you guys been on from online?
I only asked a girl out through a friend in middle school. :feelskek: It was so stupid.
 
0 cuz dey nvr showed any interest whatsoever which is mandatory b4 approaching and asking out someone if you're subchad
 
Have any of you guys ever been on a tinder/OLD date?
 
lost count tbh, irl probably close to 50

online? easily over 150

@NorwoodVictim
@Paranoidcel

How the fuck would you know you are really incel then?

I don't get you guys, you could never truly know if you haven't approached at all, all you did was create a self fulfilling prophecy

Unless you are significantly short (5'6" and below) or you have some kind of significant mental and/or physical defect (that is observable), you have no excuse to not approach
ikr, they're basically cucking themselves

Because I'm ugly and the girls have already expressed hostile (mostly passive-aggressive) sentiment towards me, I guess that's enough.

Approaching works for normies, not sub5s. A sub5 can get approach as much as he wants, he won't get shit.

Also, don't want to get in trouble due to misandrist laws or because of simps trying to protect their ''kween'' from being approached

That's paranoia, especially where we live. Forget about these autistic measurements we have, one can be objetively ugly by these lookism dumb measurements and yet be good enough for women given certain traits he has.

idk I think I have told you about the white guy I know who's chincel, framecel and a manlet altogether. He's way uglier than you. Yesterday I saw him in a bar with his WHITE gf, can you believe that shit? Even back then when we went to school together he would get some chicks by approachmaxxing, mostly uggos but now he managed to get something good.

He literally looks like a upgraded version of this guy:

otjov6o6jqu11.jpg


what does that means? It means that PSL measurements are shit, I jawmog him to death, yet I can't get a sheboon gf to save my life while he has a cute WHITE gf. In the end of the day we can talk hours about psl, but it isn't worth a word from a foid. They decide what's the looks threshold
 
lost count tbh, irl probably close to 50

online? easily over 150


ikr, they're basically cucking themselves



That's paranoia, especially where we live. Forget about these autistic measurements we have, one can be objetively ugly by these lookism dumb measurements and yet be good enough for women given certain traits he has.

idk I think I have told you about the white guy I know who's chincel, framecel and a manlet altogether. He's way uglier than you. Yesterday I saw him in a bar with his WHITE gf, can you believe that shit? Even back then when we went to school together he would get some chicks by approachmaxxing, mostly uggos but now he managed to get something good.

He literally looks like a upgraded version of this guy:

otjov6o6jqu11.jpg


what does that means? It means that PSL measurements are shit, I jawmog him to death, yet I can't get a sheboon gf to save my life while he has a cute WHITE gf. In the end of the day we can talk hours about psl, but it isn't worth a word from a foid. They decide what's the looks threshold
Teracope
Socialmaxxing to become a betabuxxer is legit clownshit kek
 
lost count tbh, irl probably close to 50

online? easily over 150
and how many said yes? did u have decent convo b4?
 
and how many said yes? did u have decent convo b4?
you mean online or irl?

irl I'd say they rarely say no, when they do is basically saying they have a bf. They may give you a fake number, or the real number to see what are you about, and never go out with you/flake/ghost regardless of the convo.

I feel like as long as you're not extremely autistic it doesn't really matter what you say. Online is a total shitfest, ignore and ghost rate is probably 98%
 
you mean online or irl?

irl I'd say they rarely say no, when they do is basically saying they have a bf. They may give you a fake number, or the real number to see what are you about, and never go out with you/flake/ghost regardless of the convo.

I feel like as long as you're not extremely autistic it doesn't really matter what you say. Online is a total shitfest, ignore and ghost rate is probably 98%
i mean just online, did u ever meet up with a girl from online?
 
i mean just online, did u ever meet up with a girl from online?
yeah, but I just end up being ghosted afterwards

it's not worth the squeeze, most girls on dating apps are not there to really date anyone (maby if chad comes along* but I guess they'll rather stick with irl chad instead)
 
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0 in real life.
About 5 on the internet.
 
yeah, but I just end up being ghosted afterwards

it's not worth the squeeze, most girls on dating apps are not there to really date anyone (maby if chad comes alone but I guess they'll rather stick with irl chad instead)
same here exactly, ive been on quite a few online dates, always ghosyed afterward beacuse i am much uglier in person thanks to scars
 
two times, and it was absolutely humiliating.

The first time I got beaten up in front of this bitch, and she stopped talking to me and started treating me like shit and talking shit about me to other bitches.

the second bitch told me no, and she got mad because she told me I was a liar. two seconds later she told me if I wanted to be her friend, and she told me she wanted to confess a secret.
Then she told me she liked another guy. (an emo faggot who victimized himself a lot, and apparently the bitch liked it)

i hate them... i hate them so much
 
same here exactly, ive been on quite a few online dates, always ghosyed afterward beacuse i am much uglier in person thanks to scars
that sucks bro :feelsbadman:

ever managed a second date? Last one I went was so awkward, also almost got cucked on live jfl so I just quit the online thing.
 
that sucks bro :feelsbadman:

ever managed a second date? Last one I went was so awkward, also almost got cucked on live jfl so I just quit the online thing.
nope. last girl was actuall really attractive french staceylite. After we had our date she told me she was moving back to france:lul:
 
fr? did she really move tho?
I don't know tbh, I deleted the message and contact when I saw that because it seemed like just a 'fuck off'.

She was very anxious to meet me and actually proposed the date (a walk) after a bit of back and forth. We had date for an hour and a half walking through park, seemed ok to me, I didnt do any of that 'kino' shit. She grabbed my hand 1 time to show me a rabbit. After date she went from keen to very slow resposne (hours and 1/2 days or more), when i asked to see her agai she said something like 'sorry I have to move back to france actually next week, I cant see u), and I didnt say anything :redpill::redpill::redpill::redpill::redpill::redpill::redpill:). and that was that it was over. this was acouple of months ago. SImilar situation ahs happened many times. I just look much worse in real life despite height and whatever. Im just uglier. I have since given up because it is SO much time consuming and effort to get 1 fucking date, and nothing comes of it.
 
I don't know tbh, I deleted the message and contact when I saw that because it seemed like just a 'fuck off'.

She was very anxious to meet me and actually proposed the date (a walk) after a bit of back and forth. We had date for an hour and a half walking through park, seemed ok to me, I didnt do any of that 'kino' shit. She grabbed my hand 1 time to show me a rabbit. After date she went from keen to very slow resposne (hours and 1/2 days or more), when i asked to see her agai she said something like 'sorry I have to move back to france actually next week, I cant see u), and I didnt say anything :redpill::redpill::redpill::redpill::redpill::redpill::redpill:). and that was that it was over. this was acouple of months ago. SImilar situation ahs happened many times. I just look much worse in real life despite height and whatever. Im just uglier. I have since given up because it is SO much time consuming and effort to get 1 fucking date, and nothing comes of it.
lol

hard to tell bro, but idk maby there's a chance you may have messed up in there. Grabbing your hand and everything, still texting you after the date (albeit not as interested?)... Maybe she was expecting some move from you and you didn't, so she just assumed you weren't interested?

If she was being real about going back to France, she may have just wanted to have some fun and a quick hookup before returning. Either way, you know, with these girls you really can't mess up or they'll never give you the opportunity again.

I think you should have at least made out with her that day
 
lol

hard to tell bro, but idk maby there's a chance you may have messed up in there. Grabbing your hand and everything, still texting you after the date (albeit not as interested?)... Maybe she was expecting some move from you and you didn't, so she just assumed you weren't interested?

If she was being real about going back to France, she may have just wanted to have some fun and a quick hookup before returning. Either way, you know, with these girls you really can't mess up or they'll never give you the opportunity again.

I think you should have at least made out with her that day
you never had a vaguely similar situation? I also live with my parents which she asked about which may have turned her off. I really think it was my skin though tbh, I would reject me cus of my skin. I cant be making so many moves on the first date i though im honestly not chad, i will go to prison or smt
 
Hundreds, success rate 0. :feelsjuice:
 
you never had a vaguely similar situation? I also live with my parents which she asked about which may have turned her off. I really think it was my skin though tbh, I would reject me cus of my skin. I cant be making so many moves on the first date i though im honestly not chad, i will go to prison or smt
I wouldn't say it was the living with parents thing, but maybe she wanted to go back to your place so she asked about it?

I wouldn't be so quick to say it was your skin either, especially if she was being nice to you during the date. Idk how things are where you live tho, but don't be so paranoic about it, you won't go to prison for trying to kiss her or smth jfl.

sketchy question tbh, I should avoid addressing it since it may be bragging. I went out with a girl once and didn't make a move as I should, never heard from her again. And thinking about it now maybe she just wanted a quick fuck I was too much of a pussy to make it happen (girls won't jump onto your cock, they'll just make it easy to happen most of the times), who knows.

I was much more inexperienced and naive back then so there was no way I could have known that.
 
Interesting stories
 
2 both ended up with my tallfaggot friends :feelsrope:
Brutal. I take it your entire circle was aware..? Did anyone feel sorry for you or did they try to pretend it never happened?
 
0. I am a Man Coping Their Own Way.

MCTOW.
 
The online/social media boom is relatively recent and I concluded it was over for me by that time. When I was still in high school/college myspace was a thing. So I never tried online dating.

I feel old now.

In anycase, I can't recall exact numbers but it had to exceed 20 at least. I cold approached only a couple of times when I was particularly young and somehow had the notion corny pickup lines would actually be effective. Never tried asking any foids outside my ethnic group as I knew by then it would be pointless.
 
Lots... around 40 at least.
 
The whole incels talking about asking out girls shit is hilarious kek
You don't have a chance b4 you even try.
 
More than 30... and always got rejected :blackpill:
 
I don’t need to they ask me out :feelsLSD:
 

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