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Discussion How long does the average user last?

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I'm seeing lots of 2024-2025cels here (myself included) so I was wondering how long the average user lasts?
It's odd not seeing that many oldcels on here
 
Couple months before we quietly eliminate them
 
From a week to a year, rarely who lasts longer
 
most don't seem to last long, couple months but idk haven't been here very long
 
The majority of users I see are from 2025
 
Feels like there used to be a wider range of joindates
 
Most GrAYs dont last long but people who become regular active users usually last 1-2 years before getting burnt out and finding a new cope, suiciding, or ascending.
 
Hard to quantify any meaningful "average".

At least half of the people who join (as in their accounts are approved) never make any posts. There's also a good chunk who make a few posts then are never to be seen again.

Then you have some who join in bad faith, those are often banned pretty quickly. Some break the rules, get temp banned, and never come back because they don't like the site's rules. Others realize this forum isn't for them. This forum has fairly specific rules and a pretty specific culture and you're expected to assimilate. The userbase isn't very kind to new users who don't assimilate (rightfully so).

After that, a lot of users just get burnt out after a while. This can take months or years.
 
The fact I'm still here after all these years is unbelievable, but also sad. Lurking every day is pretty entertaining as of right now, but we will have to see if I will get the motivation to write more posts or if I'll leave this forum again for the foreseeable future.
 
Everything about BP has been said so there is no longer any intellectual discourse here. It's just an echo chamber now
 
It's odd not seeing that many oldcels on here
Because most youngcels don't actually belong here and eventually ascend. They're normie-tier anxietycels who've never approached a foid in their lives. I only made an account here at 28 years of age and ~100 rejections from cold approach.
 
I'm seeing lots of 2024-2025cels here (myself included) so I was wondering how long the average user lasts?
It's odd not seeing that many oldcels on here
6 months until they get bored (a significant percentage gets banned the first month because they don't even bother to read the rules).
 
Because most youngcels don't actually belong here and eventually ascend. They're normie-tier anxietycels who've never approached a foid in their lives. I only made an account here at 28 years of age and ~100 rejections from cold approach.
Avi corn made me think you were way younger
 
Users who are active seem to last 6-12 months
 
some people just stop using the site and quitting
 
I'm an oldcel poster who is from the first generation of the incel-sphere( pre 2010). So i seldom post. Just read. At my age ( 36) I can't really connect with the majority here. Some of whom are half my age. I feel the most affinity with the oldcel's or the very very few remaining OG's from my era. I'm just a a middle aged Incel of a bygone era, staring out into the sunset.
 
I'm an oldcel poster who is from the first generation of the incel-sphere( pre 2010). So i seldom post. Just read. At my age ( 36) I can't really connect with the majority here. Some of whom are half my age. I feel the most affinity with the oldcel's or the very very few remaining OG's from my era. I'm just a a middle aged Incel of a bygone era, staring out into the sunset.
yo you really are an OG
 
I'm an oldcel poster who is from the first generation of the incel-sphere( pre 2010). So i seldom post. Just read. At my age ( 36) I can't really connect with the majority here. Some of whom are half my age. I feel the most affinity with the oldcel's or the very very few remaining OG's from my era. I'm just a a middle aged Incel of a bygone era, staring out into the sunset.
strong 88 post
 
I'm an oldcel poster who is from the first generation of the incel-sphere( pre 2010). So i seldom post. Just read. At my age ( 36) I can't really connect with the majority here. Some of whom are half my age. I feel the most affinity with the oldcel's or the very very few remaining OG's from my era. I'm just a a middle aged Incel of a bygone era, staring out into the sunset.
Salute for you
 
I'm an oldcel poster who is from the first generation of the incel-sphere( pre 2010). So i seldom post. Just read. At my age ( 36) I can't really connect with the majority here. Some of whom are half my age. I feel the most affinity with the oldcel's or the very very few remaining OG's from my era. I'm just a a middle aged Incel of a bygone era, staring out into the sunset.
Im two years older. Funny to see a 2018 greycel
 
Not very long I'm afraid but this is just from my limited observation.
 
I'm still here.
 
A well-established user will last around two years.
 
I'm an oldcel poster who is from the first generation of the incel-sphere( pre 2010). So i seldom post. Just read. At my age ( 36) I can't really connect with the majority here. Some of whom are half my age. I feel the most affinity with the oldcel's or the very very few remaining OG's from my era. I'm just a a middle aged Incel of a bygone era, staring out into the sunset.
Holy shit, legendary 2018 greycel just pulled up!:shock::feelsautistic:
 
I'm an oldcel poster who is from the first generation of the incel-sphere( pre 2010). So i seldom post. Just read. At my age ( 36) I can't really connect with the majority here. Some of whom are half my age. I feel the most affinity with the oldcel's or the very very few remaining OG's from my era. I'm just a a middle aged Incel of a bygone era, staring out into the sunset.
There are many oldcels here
 
Holy shit, legendary 2018 greycel just pulled up!:shock::feelsautistic:
My knowledge of the incel sphere goes back to 2006 when i first heard the term "loveshy". Read Dr Gilmartins book. Some of it applied to me. But i was just never shy. Then I found the Loveshy forum in 2009 and it also featured a new term .. "Incels". Thats when I really started to put 2 and 2 together. Sadly that forum no longer exists. Nearly all the members are gone. One particular member of note was a bit Hollywood actor who was a life long virgin despite his best efforts. He wrote a ebook on it.

His username was Alone99. Those guys are the real OG's. Other oldcels i knew roped. Some ascended through beta buxxing. I feel like I'm the last of the Mohicans, though i know of one or two more OG'S on here.
 
My knowledge of the incel sphere goes back to 2006 when i first heard the term "loveshy". Read Dr Gilmartins book. Some of it applied to me. But i was just never shy. Then I found the Loveshy forum in 2009 and it also featured a new term .. "Incels". Thats when I really started to put 2 and 2 together. Sadly that forum no longer exists. Nearly all the members are gone. One particular member of note was a bit Hollywood actor who was a life long virgin despite his best efforts. He wrote a ebook on it.

His username was Alone99. Those guys are the real OG's. Other oldcels i knew roped. Some ascended through beta buxxing. I feel like I'm the last of the Mohicans, though i know of one or two more OG'S on here.
You have some ancient level lore, respect.:cool::bigbrain:

Imo, you should make a big post on the incel communities evolution. This is sacred history.
 
A year and a half at most
 
Couple months before we quietly eliminate them via virgin sacrifices to Moloch. So we can use there deaths points to buy ewhore nudes
 
I'm an oldcel poster who is from the first generation of the incel-sphere( pre 2010). So i seldom post. Just read. At my age ( 36) I can't really connect with the majority here. Some of whom are half my age. I feel the most affinity with the oldcel's or the very very few remaining OG's from my era. I'm just a a middle aged Incel of a bygone era, staring out into the sunset.
You're truecel aged nigga
 

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