Serious How is your quality of life?

[Alone75]

Higher-order domain: Physical and material wellbeing​

Lower-level Domain	Defining Features
Material wellbeing and financial security	Having good food, home, possessions, comforts, and expectations of these for the future.
Health and personal safety	Freedom from sickness, physical and mental fitness, avoiding accidents and health hazards. Availability of effective health treatment.

Higher-order domain: Relations with other people​

Lower-level Domain	Defining Features
Relations with spouse/partner	Being married/having a loving companion, sexual satisfaction, effective communication, and devotion.
Having and raising children	Becoming a parent, watching children develop, and enjoying spending time with one’s children.
Relations with parents, siblings, or other relatives	The presence of relatives with whom one feels belonging. Enjoying spending time with and visiting such relations.
Relations with friends	Having close friends with whom one shares activities, interests and views. Friendships are characterized by trust, support, love, and acceptance.

Higher-order domain: Social, Community, and Civic Activities​

Lower-level Domain	Defining Features
Activities related to helping or encouraging other people	Efforts as an individual or as a member of a group (e.g., a church) to help others beyond one’s network of friends/relatives.
Activities related to local and national governments	Voting, staying informed through the media, having political, social and religious freedoms.

Higher-order domain: Personal Development and Fulfillment​

Lower-level Domain	Defining Features
Intellectual development	Education access, ongoing mental stimulation/challenges, opportunities to improve problem-solving ability, comprehension, etc., in or outside of school.
Personal understanding and planning	The presence of guiding principles in one’s life. Developing maturity, personal growth, agency over decisions and one’s life-course (sometimes involving religious or spiritual experiences).
Occupational role	Interesting, worthwhile work at home or in one’s formal job. Being recognized for accomplishments and feeling competent at one’s tasks.
Creativity and personal expression	Expressing oneself or applying one’s imagination via artistic pursuits, such as writing, drama, music, etc.

Higher-order domain: Recreation​

Lower-level Domain	Defining Features
Socializing	Meeting new people, participating in social group activities, hosting/attending events.
Passive and observational recreational activities	Appreciating passive or relaxed recreational activities, such as reading, media, or sports events.
Active and participatory recreational activities	Enjoying active recreational activities, such as travel, sports, nature activities, games, artistic activities, etc.

Higher-order domain: Independence​

Lower-level Domain	Defining Features
Independence, doing for yourself	Remaining independent and being able to care for oneself, which is particularly relevant among populations with chronic illness

Mine was always crappy, it's only got worse the older I've become. Relations with other people is non-existent. Recreation, meh. My material well being is the only thing I'd say isn't poor. I wouldn't say it's more than average or 5/10 though and I don't have expectations of it staying the same in future.

Overall quality of life, 2/10. How about you?

 

[Deleted member 34955]

Higher-order domain: Physical and material wellbeing​

Lower-level Domain	Defining Features
Material wellbeing and financial security	Having good food, home, possessions, comforts, and expectations of these for the future.
Health and personal safety	Freedom from sickness, physical and mental fitness, avoiding accidents and health hazards. Availability of effective health treatment.

Higher-order domain: Relations with other people​

Lower-level Domain	Defining Features
Relations with spouse/partner	Being married/having a loving companion, sexual satisfaction, effective communication, and devotion.
Having and raising children	Becoming a parent, watching children develop, and enjoying spending time with one’s children.
Relations with parents, siblings, or other relatives	The presence of relatives with whom one feels belonging. Enjoying spending time with and visiting such relations.
Relations with friends	Having close friends with whom one shares activities, interests and views. Friendships are characterized by trust, support, love, and acceptance.

Higher-order domain: Social, Community, and Civic Activities​

Lower-level Domain	Defining Features
Activities related to helping or encouraging other people	Efforts as an individual or as a member of a group (e.g., a church) to help others beyond one’s network of friends/relatives.
Activities related to local and national governments	Voting, staying informed through the media, having political, social and religious freedoms.

Higher-order domain: Personal Development and Fulfillment​

Lower-level Domain	Defining Features
Intellectual development	Education access, ongoing mental stimulation/challenges, opportunities to improve problem-solving ability, comprehension, etc., in or outside of school.
Personal understanding and planning	The presence of guiding principles in one’s life. Developing maturity, personal growth, agency over decisions and one’s life-course (sometimes involving religious or spiritual experiences).
Occupational role	Interesting, worthwhile work at home or in one’s formal job. Being recognized for accomplishments and feeling competent at one’s tasks.
Creativity and personal expression	Expressing oneself or applying one’s imagination via artistic pursuits, such as writing, drama, music, etc.

Higher-order domain: Recreation​

Lower-level Domain	Defining Features
Socializing	Meeting new people, participating in social group activities, hosting/attending events.
Passive and observational recreational activities	Appreciating passive or relaxed recreational activities, such as reading, media, or sports events.
Active and participatory recreational activities	Enjoying active recreational activities, such as travel, sports, nature activities, games, artistic activities, etc.

Higher-order domain: Independence​

Lower-level Domain	Defining Features
Independence, doing for yourself	Remaining independent and being able to care for oneself, which is particularly relevant among populations with chronic illness

Mine was always crappy, it's only got worse the older I've become. Relations with other people is non-existent. Recreation, meh. My material well being is the only thing I'd say isn't poor. I wouldn't say it's more than average or 5/10 though and I don't have expectations of it staying the same in future.

Overall quality of life, 2/10. How about you?

I'd say it is pretty good, mainly because I feel this way about it. Like i could feel this way even though im homeless.

Though, I am interested in ending my life (not due to rage though).

 

[Izayacel]

3-4/10

 

[Cuckoja]

Im very poor, i live in tiny 100yo house, i have enough to eat. I have no chronic illness.

 

[Alone75]

Im very poor, i live in tiny 100yo house, i have enough to eat. I have no chronic illness.

Inceldom can become a chronic illness, a fucking life destroyer!

 

[Cuckoja]

Inceldom can become a chronic illness, a fucking life destroyer!

Yeah, mentally im fucked up for good, like all of us i have constant depression, suicidal thoughts, sometimes i lose my mind to the point i dont know what is real whats not.

 

[proudweeb]

Ok other than occasional depression, frequent anxiety, back and shoulder pain, occasional digestive issues (i.e. incel trait, you shit your pants), lack of IRL friends or gf

 

[Meus]

Money is the least of my worries

 

[cucksaar]

Doing fine economically because my parents support me

 

[tacotown2142]

Inceldom can become a chronic illness, a fucking life destroyer!

This is actually kind of true. I once worked with a truecel who was short, fat, and balding in his mid-20s with severe social anxiety. I mean SEVERE. Like he actively would get physically nauseous in social situations if he felt even a little stressed.

 

[Deleted member 34664]

I can't ever focus enough to read any of that tbh, but that probably tells you where I'm at.

 

[Deleted member 31361]

I live in rural Africa

 

[Deleted member 23518]

I live in rural Africa

sounds based

 

[Sennacherib]

I'm broke af

 

[SchrodingersDick]

Absolute shit. I have enough food to stay alive. That’s about it

 

[Fancy Alcoholic]

The feeling of security is an illusion. There's no reason the covid thing and the bs money printing governments are doing all around the world won't lead us to the worst financial crisis ever. Even if you have a job, even if you have some savings, you have NO unbreakable security regarding what's coming next.

 

[epillepsy]

if i was a dog, a veterinarian would recommend to put me down.