How is university for a incel? I am soon going and im starting to be hopeless about it

[Guatemalancel]

I never had many friends trough most of my life but was way more lonely in high school and I hated it and I don't miss any of it I am still on vacations and I wish to stay forever I would rather work than go to university I can atleast try some copes in vacations and even better my life I feel like I am roting when I was at school or when I was home from school

So I want to ask what copes do people do in university any tips on what to do since I am not very sociable and people never go out to talk to me unless they are obligated to (teachers for example) and I don't know anyone from my high school that will be in my class and most people know other people atleast

I am also prone to procrastination which has always been a problem in high school I always did only enough to pass since I never felt like doing more than I had to now I know this was a error and this habit is gonna be a bigger problem If I don't fix it and I know that people often help each other in school class groups and so more although I was almost always excluded from any such help in high school since most people knew me but never talked to me

Has anyone eliminated procrastination and have any suggestions for this or what to avoid to not make things worse either in my situation? Thankfully when it comes to women already I won't humiliate myself since I never talked to women in high school or middle school and this won't change since I am high inhib I never talked with much people either in high school since I would initiate conversations and most people would treat you almost if you were inflected with some plague I don't like being lonely always even though I am rather used to I don't have many people to talk to especially that are willing to listen even my own mother sometimes gets tired after I talk too long since I don't have anyone that will listen to most of what I have to say unless it is any relevance to them and I won't be living with my parents and I won't be able to overshare with aquantainces I had either I might post on this forum more when I enter university because of that though

 

[incelite88]

People are probably not going to bully you, they'll tolearte you, but if you were asocial during high school, you'll likely end up the same way in the uni

 

[Guatemalancel]

fixed the grammar issues

 

[incelite88]

The worst part are the pauses between lectures, you see all of these people socialize, and you are watching them from the corner. Especially if you go to classes with Stacies.

If you don't want to have your energy drained, try not to attend classes you don't have to attend.

 

[Guatemalancel]

People are probably not going to bully you, they'll tolearte you, but if you were asocial during high school, you'll likely end up the same way in the uni

I was never bullied in high school since I made people scared even though I never had any bad intentions for most of my life and in high school in general there were no fights it was more mockery but that stopped when I lost weight and years passed instead I was invisible for most of my class although sometimes would be the subject of jokes with people I don't even know randomly but it was less common in my last year of high school

I had a few aquantainces I would talk to during class in the last year of high school but I fear it's gonna be different in university since classes are done in things like that

It's not like in high school where there were only a few students and you could make friendships although I never had more than a few people I knew and It is hard to call them friends since I never exchanged more than a few words with such people and rarely talked with anyone after high school unless it was sending messages and then getting ignored often

 

[wereq]

People are probably not going to bully you, they'll tolearte you, but if you were asocial during high school, you'll likely end up the same way in the uni

The worst part are the pauses between lectures, you see all of these people socialize, and you are watching them from the corner. Especially if you go to classes with Stacies.

If you don't want to have your energy drained, try not to attend classes you don't have to attend.

 

[TheInklingofAnIncel]

What are you majoring in? Honestly, if you have a bs major, your job prospects are horrible, so you might as well skip the 4 years of being lonely and just start working and making money.

 

[Guatemalancel]

The worst part are the pauses between lectures, you see all of these people socialize, and you are watching them from the corner. Especially if you go to classes with Stacies.

If you don't want to have your energy drained, try not to attend classes you don't have to attend.

I live in europe so all classes are more or less related to what you study from what I have seen unless you want extra points so It's hard to do anything about it

I didn't know they had pauses I think I would possibly pretend to watch something on my phone or go to the toilets I think this can be brutal though imagine going from vacations visiting family and doing things you enjoy to not being stuck in university with people you don't know and don't want to talk to you

 

[Guatemalancel]

What are you majoring in? Honestly, if you have a bs major, your job prospects are horrible, so you might as well skip the 4 years of being lonely and just start working and making money.

I will be studying mathematics to hopefully go do engeneering although I chose that since I was left with little choice considering what I studied and did well although I wish I could just work but that would upset my parents greatly

 

[incelite88]

I live in europe so all classes are more or less related to what you study from what I have seen unless you want extra points so It's hard to do anything about it

I didn't know they had pauses I think I would possibly pretend to watch something on my phone or go to the toilets I think this can be brutal though imagine going from vacations visiting family and doing things you enjoy to not being stuck in university with people you don't know and don't want to talk to you

I think attendance brings 10 points (out of 100), so you have to balance. Idk is it possible, but if you meet someone, you can ask them to sign you on classes (if professors don't control) so you don't waste the points.

 

[TheInklingofAnIncel]

I will be studying mathematics to hopefully go do engeneering although I chose that since I was left with little choice considering what I studied and did well although I wish I could just work but that would upset my parents greatly

Shit, engineering is a good major, and can get you a job. At least that's what I think, you can ask the techcels about the job market. But engineering is a really hard major. If you're down for the work, do it. Use whatever tools to help your study, whether it's cheating with chat gpt or chegg or whatever. If you actually do want to learn to get your technicals better for an interview, you can also consider taking less classes each semester unless your financial aid requires you to take way too many classes. It might help your procrastination if you're only taking 3 classes a semester, cause then it's easier to tell yourself that you only have 3 classes to do versus 5 or 6.

 

[Guatemalancel]

I think attendance brings 10 points (out of 100), so you have to balance. Idk is it possible, but if you meet someone, you can ask them to sign you on classes (if professors don't control) so you don't waste the points.

Thank you did you go to university in the USA though I don't know how they give out points exactly though I would like to ask people to do things with me but even in high school when I asked most people I knew for a favour a small one they would look like I was asking them a impossible task meanwhile I would do the same to them even If I didn't knew them I think what was brutal was when you see women they don't even know asking them the same things and suddendly they are very happy to do it

 

[Super Nigger Boy]

4 years of suffering

 

[Guatemalancel]

Shit, engineering is a good major, and can get you a job. At least that's what I think, you can ask the techcels about the job market. But engineering is a really hard major. If you're down for the work, do it. Use whatever tools to help your study, whether it's cheating with chat gpt or chegg or whatever. If you actually do want to learn to get your technicals better for an interview, you can also consider taking less classes each semester unless your financial aid requires you to take way too many classes. It might help your procrastination if you're only taking 3 classes a semester, cause then it's easier to tell yourself that you only have 3 classes to do versus 5 or 6.

Thanks I am already trying to study right now before I enter classes because there were a lot of things I neglected learning in most subjects including mathematics for most of school and I realized years later that this was going to end up causing me greater difficulties

I'm also trying to fix my procrastination and it's a good thing I can sometimes get to work right now but I fear it's gonna be the same as in high school when vacations end If I don't make greater efforts

 

[Guatemalancel]

4 years of suffering

Atleast you have done it I am only starting and I don't know if it's only gonna take this many years sadly worst is I fail thoughout since I don't want to deceive my parents and waste time

 

[incelite88]

Thank you did you go to university in the USA though I don't know how they give out points exactly though I would like to ask people to do things with me but even in high school when I asked most people I knew for a favour a small one they would look like I was asking them a impossible task meanwhile I would do the same to them even If I didn't knew them I think what was brutal was when you see women they don't even know asking them the same things and suddendly they are very happy to do it

I'm in Europe. EU/Europe has a special score system, and I think every university following those standards do the same.
Some professors insist on strict attending classes, some not. You'll figure that out at the first classes.

You'll probably meet some nerds if you study maths, so...

 

[TheInklingofAnIncel]

Thanks I am already trying to study right now before I enter classes because there were a lot of things I neglected learning in most subjects including mathematics for most of school and I realized years later that this was going to end up causing me greater difficulties

I'm also trying to fix my procrastination and it's a good thing I can sometimes get to work right now but I fear it's gonna be the same as in high school when vacations end If I don't make greater efforts

Definitely take your time, as stupid math is everywhere for engineering. And math is like the hardest subject ever that only lucky fucking smartcels can learn. If you need to, it's okay to take semesters where you're taking much easier prerequisite math classes to build your math foundation back up. If you need to take a high school level math course for one semester, that's fine. Do what you need to do, cause the normies and foids will hate you regardless.

 

[incelite88]

One big tip for procrastrination: Study before classes start, no matter at which time.

Being socially awkward will drain your enegy levels, leaving you incapable of doing anything after school.

In the morning while your blackpilled mind is still not fu*ked up, start studying, and eventually you will be able to finish thing you want. I sometimes had to go to sleep at 19:00, so I can get up at 03:00-04:00. Worked for me.

 

[Guatemalancel]

I'm in Europe. EU/Europe has a special score system, and I think every university following those standards do the same.
Some professors insist on strict attending classes, some not. You'll figure that out at the first classes.

You'll probably meet some nerds if you study maths, so...

I figured that since most normies including women that studied the same subjects as me go for easier studies in that country or they go and study medicine but sadly I think even if there's some people who lack friends I believe they might have aquantainces I don't have any there since I am an outsider even to that city

 

[Guatemalancel]

One big tip for procrastrination: Study before classes start, no matter at which time.

Being socially awkward will drain your enegy levels, leaving you incapable of doing anything after school.

In the morning while your blackpilled mind is still not fu*ked up, start studying, and eventually you will be able to finish thing you want. I sometimes had to go to sleep at 19:00, so I can get up at 03:00-04:00. Worked for me.

this is one of the biggest problems I had in high school I had this retarded schedule where I slept extremely late and I didn't study anything I spent time reading things that didn't have anything to do with my studies to pass time

 

[Guatemalancel]

Definitely take your time, as stupid math is everywhere for engineering. And math is like the hardest subject ever that only lucky fucking smartcels can learn. If you need to, it's okay to take semesters where you're taking much easier prerequisite math classes to build your math foundation back up. If you need to take a high school level math course for one semester, that's fine. Do what you need to do, cause the normies and foids will hate you regardless.

thanks for the advice

 

[incelite88]

this is one of the biggest problems I had in high school I had this retarded schedule where I slept extremely late and I didn't study anything I spent time reading things that didn't have anything to do with my studies to pass time

That's extremly important, if you're able try even to go a couple of lectures ahead. Classes will be more familiar and rooting in classroom will be less depressing.
If you have some work to do there, you can even develop God-complex haha. Those HTN+ will not study-hard, and when they ask for you help, you can for minutes feel like you're above them. Walk towards them slowly, speak slowly, tell them what to do with your hand etc.

 

[Guatemalancel]

That's extremly important, if you're able try even to go a couple of lectures ahead. Classes will be more familiar and rooting in classroom will be less depressing.
If you have some work to do there, you can even develop God-complex haha. Those HTN+ will not study-hard, and when they ask for you help, you can for minutes feel like you're above them. Walk towards them slowly, speak slowly, tell them what to do with your hand etc.

I think lectures start at the same time more or less for everyone in this university if I could attend lectures earlier to see what it's like I would but sadly I can't the only thing I can do is repeat the parts I took in high school for mathematics that i struggled with so I won't be lost instantly I think htns don't study at all but that's why they'll become rare in mathematics to begin with almost every normie goes to do some short term study that will get you some terrible job often or they go into medicine and fail

I would kinda like to help people with studies though since It's a very effective way to memorize something too but sadly I think i won't get asked for example when I was in high school I often was put in groups made by teachers and was often alone and made to be with women I couldn't work alone either they wouldn't allow that mostly and that really upset me back then one obese jewish teacher even lied to my parents and she said I was being uncooperative and did nothing even though when I was always assigned in those groups the women wouldn't even talk to me and I wouldn't talk to them either since I already had experiences where women mocked me not in my face but still just because of my presence I didn't even need to speak and when I did speak I often had one word or vague answers or sometimes no answer so after those experiences I didn't speak to women my age even when I had to if they didn't speak first I do what I have to do but I don't want to take humiliation ritual for no reasons just because some teacher sees it as nessesary and if you don't you are "uncooperative" or not putting enough effort in work I hated working in groups for that reason

This same teacher kinda made me anti semitic too she was the only jew I knew and she made my parents mad at me

I would like to teach even to normies since I'll help me memorize but to be honest most people just pretend like you don't exist when it is to interact with you I do know they know I'm not invisible or that i exist though since people often made jokes about me even if I didn't or vaguely even know who they were it just shows people will notice you but still won't interact with you even when they have to

 

[incelite88]

I'll tell you my experience.
In the first couple of weeks, I would be ignored, not talked to, not greeted.
I would finish what I had, pack my shit and leave. They all would struggle and waste 1-2h in class, I would be done in 15min.
Some of them approached me later, we started greeting each other, but nothing beyond that. I stated helping them when about half of a semester was done.

 

[Guatemalancel]

I'll tell you my experience.
In the first couple of weeks, I would be ignored, not talked to, not greeted.
I would finish what I had, pack my shit and leave. They all would struggle and waste 1-2h in class, I would be done in 15min.
Some of them approached me later, we started greeting each other, but nothing beyond that. I stated helping them when about half of a semester was done.

Shows normies will only be nice to you as a sub 5 to virtue signal or some benefit

 

[Mr Black]

Sounds nightmarish, ill neet

 

[BlackLowLtn]

Tiring, going through university depends on you seeing some point in it…

So, with how utterly miserable I see my future is going to be regardless, I genuinely have to drag myself through everything without flat out giving up.

Don’t even want to do copes like gaming, reading, doomscrolling, internet browsing, working out etc anymore; lost the urge to even do that so at times I just look at the ceiling and cry.

 

[Vakasneb3856]

I tried to make friends and tried approaching women to talk but its all the same, getting ignored or told to go away. I did get laughed at by women a lot behind my back because of the way i look. Its less concentrated then previous schooling but same social dynamics still are the same.
Its best to try and socialize as much as possible, but with university or college its really the last 'chance' to get a girlfriend or stuff, once that bus is gone the stats are against you, but in all fairness most of us here, luck was never on our side.

 

[incelite88]

Shows normies will only be nice to you as a sub 5 to virtue signal or some benefit

Being sub5 is a hell, unless you find a fulfiling cope and goal to strive for, you literally have no reason to live. I don't know for how long I'll go.

 

[incelite88]

I tried to make friends and tried approaching women to talk but its all the same, getting ignored or told to go away. I did get laughed at by women a lot behind my back because of the way i look. Its less concentrated then previous schooling but same social dynamics still are the same.
Its best to try and socialize as much as possible, but with university or college its really the last 'chance' to get a girlfriend or stuff, once that bus is gone the stats are against you, but in all fairness most of us here, luck was never on our side.

The worst part is when your family is telling you "go live life, you're in your prime".
You know it's only going to get worse.

 

[BlackLowLtn]

One big tip for procrastrination: Study before classes start, no matter at which time.

Honestly, whenever they release the week’s material just get the whole thing done and dusted; I hardly can imagine how much worse university would be if I didn’t force myself to learn everything before it is touched on since actually attending classes makes me too anxious.

 

[BlackLowLtn]

Impossible to genuinely get proper information out of them alone, especially with how loud certain people are in my microeconomics module.

 

[Guatemalancel]

Sounds nightmarish, ill neet

I'll give my experience when I'm there

Tiring, going through university depends on you seeing some point in it…

So, with how utterly miserable I see my future is going to be regardless, I genuinely have to drag myself through everything without flat out giving up.

Don’t even want to do copes like gaming, reading, doomscrolling, internet browsing, working out etc anymore; lost the urge to even do that so at times I just look at the ceiling and cry.

I just do copes out of habit even if I don't want to do them really

I tried to make friends and tried approaching women to talk but its all the same, getting ignored or told to go away. I did get laughed at by women a lot behind my back because of the way i look. Its less concentrated then previous schooling but same social dynamics still are the same.
Its best to try and socialize as much as possible, but with university or college its really the last 'chance' to get a girlfriend or stuff, once that bus is gone the stats are against you, but in all fairness most of us here, luck was never on our side.

I never asked out anyone and I still got laughed by them as for university I'll think I'll continue the same when it comes to that I think it is more peaceful I'll try to socialize though to make atleast some friends or even acquaintances so I'm not alone every day as I won't be with my parents or anyone

Being sub5 is a hell, unless you find a fulfiling cope and goal to strive for, you literally have no reason to live. I don't know for how long I'll go.

Don't give up brother try to make some try to make some goals even if they're material or hard to reach

 

[PersonalityChad]

It was better than middle and high school for me. Other students just minded their own business usually

 

[Guatemalancel]

It was better than middle and high school for me. Other students just minded their own business usually

I think they're kinda forced to since people know less eachother and you meet the same people less

 

[Wizardmaxxer]

People are probably not going to bully you, they'll tolearte you, but if you were asocial during high school, you'll likely end up the same way in the uni

They're going to bully you* retard

 

[Sir Silentium]

In Australia uni is pretty good, bearly anyone is going to pick on you as 99% of them are all sub 5 immigrants. Depends on your course though and your geogrpahical location.

 

[Nintendo 64]

humiliation ritual it is

 

[Rapistcel]

I never had many friends trough most of my life but was way more lonely in high school and I hated it and I don't miss any of it I am still on vacations and I wish to stay forever I would rather work than go to university I can atleast try some copes in vacations and even better my life I feel like I am roting when I was at school or when I was home from school

So I want to ask what copes do people do in university any tips on what to do since I am not very sociable and people never go out to talk to me unless they are obligated to (teachers for example) and I don't know anyone from my high school that will be in my class and most people know other people atleast

I am also prone to procrastination which has always been a problem in high school I always did only enough to pass since I never felt like doing more than I had to now I know this was a error and this habit is gonna be a bigger problem If I don't fix it and I know that people often help each other in school class groups and so more although I was almost always excluded from any such help in high school since most people knew me but never talked to me

Has anyone eliminated procrastination and have any suggestions for this or what to avoid to not make things worse either in my situation? Thankfully when it comes to women already I won't humiliate myself since I never talked to women in high school or middle school and this won't change since I am high inhib I never talked with much people either in high school since I would initiate conversations and most people would treat you almost if you were inflected with some plague I don't like being lonely always even though I am rather used to I don't have many people to talk to especially that are willing to listen even my own mother sometimes gets tired after I talk too long since I don't have anyone that will listen to most of what I have to say unless it is any relevance to them and I won't be living with my parents and I won't be able to overshare with aquantainces I had either I might post on this forum more when I enter university because of that though

Truecels also get bullied in university

 

[Guatemalancel]

Truecels also get bullied in university

I finally entered and I will say I think it depends on what you're studying you will get weird looks or even angry ones just like in other places so it doesn't change much although most people won't go out of their way to talk to you or mock you since they don't know you at all