I think it's sad but I also think it's important to point out that just reading posts from a community like this and it's very existence makes me feel better. A lot of people say that misery loves company but it's not the fact that I know that other people are miserable it's the fact that seeing that other people are having these same experiences that I have and have the same reasons for experiencing them makes me feel like I'm not completely alone in this vile world and that it's not my fault.
Before I found out about it I used to come home from work/college/a night out after being ignored by women that I am attracted to who were only attracted to every other man and stare in the mirror for hours on end wondering how I can fix my apparent ugliness. I used to type in words like "am I ugly?", "invisible to women", "why don't girls like me?" etc into google which only returned bluepill bullshit where an obviously average or ugly guy is being told things like "there is someone for everyone" and "it's all about confidence".
At age 32 when I'd been experiencing this pain since I was age 12 and no girl had ever looked at me no matter how ugly old fat or skinny she was, those 2 answers weren't going to cut it because 20 years of pain solidified the truth in my mind. This is when I luckily somehow stumbled across the reddit version of incels and the rest is history.
The thing that worries me is what about the people who are in the position that I was in? Maybe this could help them but they are trapped searching the lying sea of shit that the internet is looking for answers and may never discover this island.
And that is also one thing that find hilariously ironic. All of these news articles, stories and posts which are attempting to denigrate us will only help lead guys like that to find us at which point they will feel at home and know their truth.
Before I found out about it I used to come home from work/college/a night out after being ignored by women that I am attracted to who were only attracted to every other man and stare in the mirror for hours on end wondering how I can fix my apparent ugliness. I used to type in words like "am I ugly?", "invisible to women", "why don't girls like me?" etc into google which only returned bluepill bullshit where an obviously average or ugly guy is being told things like "there is someone for everyone" and "it's all about confidence".
At age 32 when I'd been experiencing this pain since I was age 12 and no girl had ever looked at me no matter how ugly old fat or skinny she was, those 2 answers weren't going to cut it because 20 years of pain solidified the truth in my mind. This is when I luckily somehow stumbled across the reddit version of incels and the rest is history.
The thing that worries me is what about the people who are in the position that I was in? Maybe this could help them but they are trapped searching the lying sea of shit that the internet is looking for answers and may never discover this island.
And that is also one thing that find hilariously ironic. All of these news articles, stories and posts which are attempting to denigrate us will only help lead guys like that to find us at which point they will feel at home and know their truth.
Let´s cope til the rope together 
