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I am a 32 year old khv, and thinking very seriously about the possibility of fixing my life, even if it's late. I have brutal childhood trauma and all I've been doing so far is make improvements on my life, which used to be hell, however, I can't get a gf. I think that it's because I'm ugly, and there's no room for self improvement in that regard.
When it came to finding a job, I had guidance. I found people who gave advice that made sense to me, so I followed it, and got jobs. I also found guidance from society on overcoming childhood trauma and getting self esteem. Same for taking care of myself, eating properly etc (I didn't learn this growing up). Every time this happened, before doing what they said, I had found a logical reason to take advice from each group of people.
If I could find a group of people to give me guidance to get a relationship with a woman, I would do everything they say and ask them for help. But the closest thing is the red pill. On redpill forums, everyone claims to be a chad and fuck all the girls, which doesn't make mathematical sense, and in comments and questions, you can also get the idea that everyone in those forums is desperate. So my first impression is that they're a joke. If you check individual post histories, you can also see contradictions such as "I'm an 8 with great genetics and face" and then "this girl is into me, she smiled at me, but rejected me and is resisting so far because she's shy". Their advice is contrary to what I know about women's psychology, for example "texting is only for logistics" (even though the more you talk, the more you bond emotionally), and cold approaching (which is objectively worse than meeting through some hobby, and women don't like it which you can see from their reactions), and to me, it sounds like their advice, despite being intended to cater to women, revolves around whatever sounds alpha and feels right to them. Therefore, it is my opinion that the redpill is a joke.
Another alternative is the "just be yourself", "don't be misogynistic" etc people. Those are an obvious fucking joke, I won't even get into that.
I wish society had a real answer to being an incel and had actually logical advice to offer. I'm not stupid, I don't just want to be lonely and complain like redditors claim, if someone could give me advice on how to improve my situation, and the advice made logical sense to me, I would 100% follow it. However, it seems that I'm hopeless by virtue of what I look like. The blackpill is the only take on dating that I've seen which is actually based on evidence.
So, back to LDARing. Because I tried to geomaxx and the south asian foid I was talking to was a pajeet scammer
can't make this up.
tl;dr: it's ovER , don't bother trying
When it came to finding a job, I had guidance. I found people who gave advice that made sense to me, so I followed it, and got jobs. I also found guidance from society on overcoming childhood trauma and getting self esteem. Same for taking care of myself, eating properly etc (I didn't learn this growing up). Every time this happened, before doing what they said, I had found a logical reason to take advice from each group of people.
If I could find a group of people to give me guidance to get a relationship with a woman, I would do everything they say and ask them for help. But the closest thing is the red pill. On redpill forums, everyone claims to be a chad and fuck all the girls, which doesn't make mathematical sense, and in comments and questions, you can also get the idea that everyone in those forums is desperate. So my first impression is that they're a joke. If you check individual post histories, you can also see contradictions such as "I'm an 8 with great genetics and face" and then "this girl is into me, she smiled at me, but rejected me and is resisting so far because she's shy". Their advice is contrary to what I know about women's psychology, for example "texting is only for logistics" (even though the more you talk, the more you bond emotionally), and cold approaching (which is objectively worse than meeting through some hobby, and women don't like it which you can see from their reactions), and to me, it sounds like their advice, despite being intended to cater to women, revolves around whatever sounds alpha and feels right to them. Therefore, it is my opinion that the redpill is a joke.
Another alternative is the "just be yourself", "don't be misogynistic" etc people. Those are an obvious fucking joke, I won't even get into that.
I wish society had a real answer to being an incel and had actually logical advice to offer. I'm not stupid, I don't just want to be lonely and complain like redditors claim, if someone could give me advice on how to improve my situation, and the advice made logical sense to me, I would 100% follow it. However, it seems that I'm hopeless by virtue of what I look like. The blackpill is the only take on dating that I've seen which is actually based on evidence.
So, back to LDARing. Because I tried to geomaxx and the south asian foid I was talking to was a pajeet scammer
can't make this up.tl;dr: it's ovER , don't bother trying
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