This insistence of personality is not just wrong, it's evil. There's a supposition that one can't change his looks, but can change his personality, and women reject incels based on their personality, but it is okay because they can change their personality, therefore all the guilt lies within incels and not women. BUT:
- Looks can be changed sometimes. Fat women are ugly because they're fat. They could change their looks by eating less.
- Personality can sometimes not be changed. Autistic men cannot choose to not be autistic.
- Looks are prioritized over personality. This is demonstrated by the dating app data and various experiments. Good looking men who are child rapists get plenty of matches, bad looking men who take care of sick puppies get no matches.
- While it is somewhat difficult to prove that it is morally wrong for women to not date incels, it is definitely wrong for them to date, for example, violent criminals, as this rewards acts of evil with sex, therefore making acts of evil more prominent.
- Insistence of personality is damaging in a sense that an incel, were he to accept this theory, would also accept loads of unnecessary guilt. He's supposed to "work hard on his personality" but since this is not about personality, his effort will be futile and that's supposedly his fault then.
