How do I stop feeling lonely?

[BlackLowLtn]

I just want to stop, it doesn't matter anymore about love. I just want to stop feeling lonely, the feeling itself; perhaps some sort of suppressant could help, does anyone know one?

I have the immense desire to ruffle hair man, yet they don't even allow pets into the dorm...

I am walking home fucking drained as I constantly walk past couples and families of all shapes and sizes going past, I just want it all to stop. I want to just stop registering the world

 

[BlackLowLtn]

I am a lame fuck

 

[spud_tard]

when I feel lonely I listen to ambient music and sometimes Irish musics, when I'm less depressed I cope by watching a movie, and when I'm not depressed anymore I read books

 

[pls]

Wish i knew the answer

 

[Ambatukam Alone]

I just want to stop, it doesn't matter anymore about love. I just want to stop feeling lonely, the feeling itself; perhaps some sort of suppressant could help, does anyone know one?

I have the immense desire to ruffle hair man, yet they don't even allow pets into the dorm...

I am walking home fucking drained as I constantly walk past couples and families of all shapes and sizes going past, I just want it all to stop. I want to just stop registering the world

Meditation techniques/mindfulness may allow you to have equanimity/peace/acceptance with your emotional sensations of loneliness with enough practice. Additionally, similar techniques allow you to focus on other things, temporarily removing any subjective experience of loneliness.

 

[BlackLowLtn]

when I feel lonely I listen to ambient music and sometimes Irish musics, when I'm less depressed I cope by watching a movie, and when I'm not depressed anymore I read books

What kind of books you read? I generally love low fantasy or dark fantasy, lovecraftian-esque dark fantasy to be specific

 

[BlackLowLtn]

Meditation techniques/mindfulness may allow you to have equanimity/peace/acceptance with your emotional sensations of loneliness with enough practice. Additionally, similar techniques allow you to focus on other things, temporarily removing any subjective experience of loneliness.

I used to do a lot of meditation as part of my "self-journey" over the years, but it was somewhat early on. I will try to get into it again, I do remember my mind was more driven even if it didn't help with the underlying issue.

 

[spud_tard]

What kind of books you read? I generally love low fantasy or dark fantasy, lovecraftian-esque dark fantasy to be specific

lmao we are not the same, I read nihilist philosophy, provocative novels (I'm trying to finish all the popular books by Michel Houellebecq). A "friend" (that I hate and I blocked him) recommended me Hunger Games, but it seems to be a feminist book, and I'm just tired with politics

 

[BlackLowLtn]

The dorm is a pretty bad setting for it though, there isn't much spaces where I can get some quiet

 

[ItsOverMan]

I just want to stop, it doesn't matter anymore about love. I just want to stop feeling lonely, the feeling itself; perhaps some sort of suppressant could help, does anyone know one?

I have the immense desire to ruffle hair man, yet they don't even allow pets into the dorm...

I am walking home fucking drained as I constantly walk past couples and families of all shapes and sizes going past, I just want it all to stop. I want to just stop registering the world

It's sad that so many guys here are lonely but can't be friends with one another. We're just text on a screen.

 

[Ambatukam Alone]

I used to do a lot of meditation as part of my "self-journey" over the years, but it was somewhat early on. I will try to get into it again, I do remember my mind was more driven even if it didn't help with the underlying issue.

Lmk if you want some links in PM. Otherwise I'll just say to either discover what/where/changes in your emotions (in this case loneliness) and/or focus on something you see/hear/feel that's not relevant to your suffering as a distraction. Knowing you can just focus on something else may help empower you, brocel.

 

[Misogynist Vegeta]

You don't, The best you can do is distract yourself.

 

[SewerGoat]

I sit alone in bars when i can afford it. I feel less alone there sometimes, sometimes the opposite. I just like to take my attention to something else than myself for a moment. Helps me

 

[Lego Island 2]

 

[BasedGoyslopReviews]

idk man i can only theorycraft about shit and dont know if it would work irl.
its easy to say just do a hobby that has other ppl around that would interact with u

normies dont wanna interact with us subhumans and that in turn has made is bitter about social interaction so its a endless loop

for a man, a positive interaction with females is cathartic, even if it doesnt lead to anything physical. just being recognized and treated as human can make the brain happy. good luck achieving that. maybe a 70 year old granny somewhere wouldnt hate me but i doubt that would do the trick.
We are unhappy because we cant get social validation, and that in turn makes our brains take us out of the gene pool for the benefit of our species

 

[Coyote Cooch]

Wish i knew the answer

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[Saint Nigger]

I just want to stop, it doesn't matter anymore about love. I just want to stop feeling lonely, the feeling itself; perhaps some sort of suppressant could help, does anyone know one?

I have the immense desire to ruffle hair man, yet they don't even allow pets into the dorm...

I am walking home fucking drained as I constantly walk past couples and families of all shapes and sizes going past, I just want it all to stop. I want to just stop registering the world

You cant stop it.

 

[anonob122]

I just want to stop, it doesn't matter anymore about love. I just want to stop feeling lonely, the feeling itself; perhaps some sort of suppressant could help, does anyone know one?

I have the immense desire to ruffle hair man, yet they don't even allow pets into the dorm...

I am walking home fucking drained as I constantly walk past couples and families of all shapes and sizes going past, I just want it all to stop. I want to just stop registering the world

Religion max believe in God follow his commandment its bluepilled but bro most people who Religion max are happy

 

[Chud Norris72]

Voice call online friends from .is

 

[Lonelyus]

Oxycontin but its almost impossible to get

 

[Autistic Uggo]

Pets are a good cope. I like being around animals.

 

[Emba]

Pets are a good cope. I like being around animals.

I have a Kitty doge