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Venting How do I get over the need of being validated by my parents?

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Just had an argument with my mom and realized even further how much she despises me and looks down upon me.
I have no logical reason to love my bully narcissistic parents, yet I somewhat can't help but feel the need to be validates by them.
Knowing that my parents have such a negative image of me and are indifferent about my feelings just hurts. :cryfeels:
But, knowing that their negative opinion about me is set in stone at that they don't care about truly understanding and heping me, what can I do?
How do I get over this unfulfillable need of getting validates by them? :fuk:
 
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They brought you into this world with their shit genetics, making sure you would be born a subhuman in the 21st century, and then have the audacity to mock and shame you over it. In what world is their validation a good thing to have? :feelskek:
 
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they can keep their validation to themselves ... you need to move on and leave your parents
 
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Just had an argument with my mom and realized even further how much she despises me and looks down upon me.
I have no logical reason to love my bully narcissistic parents, yet I somewhat can't help but feel the need to be validates by them.
Knowing that my parents have such a negative image of me and are indifferent about my feelings just hurts. :cryfeels:
But, knowing that their negative opinion about me is set in stone at that they don't care about truly understanding and heping me, what can I do?
How do I get over this unfulfillable need of getting validates by them? :fuk:
Watch Validation Boy
 
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Doomer Guy

Deleted my account because this site is so dumb...
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They brought you into this world with their shit genetics, making sure you would be born a subhuman in the 21st century, and then have the audacity to mock and shame you over it. In what world is their validation a good thing to have? :feelskek:
They treat me as if I'm a mental retard and try to make me as dependent as possible to them, and in the end just shame me for being awkward, clueless, unconfident, depressed, resentful and angry...
I don't even feel like they're bullying me for my appearance they just seem to have a sadistic pleasure to make me feel like shit.
 

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