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How do I even reply to this message from my dad? Nigga thinks being 5’4 is normal

@Genetic Error
You have to see how kinda stupid it is to break your fucking legs just to get to 5'7". I'm 5'7" and I've had just as much luck as you lol. I could probably get the surgery and fraud my way to the legendary 6ft status and I'd NEVER fucking do that shit to myself, because my life is no longer about trying to validate women and the people around me.

I don't think you realize all the issues that come about in old age because of that shit.

Are you planning to kill yourself by 45-50, because your life will be very painful and you may need a wheelchair.
 
pity party actually sounds like fun
 
@Genetic Error - Have you read anything we've been writing brother?

Read my previous posts and link to other thread. You have to calculate how much your facial features are also effecting your outcomes in life. THEN you need to decide whether actually going from 5'4 to 5'9 or 5'10. Because bro I'm telling you, even if you are white, if you want to compete for a decent foid whore, even my height g 5'9.5-5'10 is GRUELING and in my opinion not worth the expenditure, especially since I'm this economy you'll be paying off the load (if from non-family) forever. Plus your other expenses in life. The math problem you face is one of calculating just how much your pheno is worth. I don't know what your face looks like, and i don't know what other "pros and cons" you have but you know them, so start thinking even more critically about it (not saying you haven't but perhaps some more time is necessary).

From what you are saying, the financial aid from family is out of the question. Perhaps as a last ditch effort you can see if a Psychiatrist would write you letter speaking about just how paramount it is to your mental health for you to get the LL. But honestly AND AGAIN, this is not easy either. You'll need to likely attend many psychological counseling session with a mental health specialist to convince them to even write this letter on your behalf in the first place. Besides if your father is already saying no so quickly it means that you are not wealthy enough to where the family could absorb the hit if something goes wrong.


@BurntIvoryKingcel
@BlkPillPres
:cryfeels:but in SEA 5'7 maybe frauded 5'8 could be okay enough to get a gf if white

the psychiatrist letter was a good idea tbh that might help. ive already had 1 session with one but she didnt seem to care just i talked about my suffering and she'd say stuff like "oh im so sorry thats so terrible" with no advice how to deal with it
 
And btw, is this a repost or did the same exact message come from you a few months or even year back? I remember seeing this screenshot before and thinking that your dad was half-way decent for at least admitting "we've got shit to deal with". Honestly, I have known reactions from parents to be FAR WORSE my friend !
its a different screenshot/convo but yeah been pestering him for months
 
You have to see how kinda stupid it is to break your fucking legs just to get to 5'7". I'm 5'7" and I've had just as much luck as you lol. I could probably get the surgery and fraud my way to the legendary 6ft status and I'd NEVER fucking do that shit to myself, because my life is no longer about trying to validate women and the people around me.
how can i ever be happy at 5'4 tho? i can never have friends or a gf at 5'4 no matter where i go. if get to 5'7/5'8 could at least try get a gf in SEA

i just cant see myself being happy without an LTR. theres a reason literally everyone in life has one/tries to get one
 
I don't think you realize all the issues that come about in old age because of that shit.

Are you planning to kill yourself by 45-50, because your life will be very painful and you may need a wheelchair.
do you know that happens for a fact tho?
 
how can i ever be happy at 5'4 tho? i can never have friends or a gf at 5'4 no matter where i go. if get to 5'7/5'8 could at least try get a gf in SEA
You can literally do that at 5'4", women in SEA want men for their resources, I don't think you guys get what a "traditional" culture really is. There is no "love". Men are for resources, women are for sex. At the end of the day that woman will still only be with you because you provide for her.

Whether you are 5'4" or not makes no difference. You are speaking as if there aren't already 5'4" guys born in SEA countries that have wives and GF's, you'll be going there with US dollars, you'll be an upgrade to most men by default.


i just cant see myself being happy without an LTR.
Do any of you guys on this forum have any consistency is your words?

This is literally you in a thread from yesterday:
i dont have the gynocentric mindset that you do
You told some guy who refused to pay for sex this, but how is what you said here not also gynocentric, when you're basically saying you can't live without a woman's validation?

yeah ur right tbh. the GFE is probably the only way u can walk out of a escort session feeling shit knowing u paid for her fake validation:feelskek: that is fucking sad ngl
Why would you have a problem paying for "fake validation" (GFE - Girlfriend Experience) from an escort, but you'd break your legs to get "fake validation" from a woman you are in a LTR with?

I think you believe that the validation will be "real" in that case, but you're wrong. The average woman even in SEA wants 6ft guys too, they just live in an environment where they can't afford to be picky, that's the only difference, ALL WOMEN ARE THE SAME AT THEIR CORE.


theres a reason literally everyone in life has one/tries to get one
Yes, it's the prerequisite to consistent sex (having a "sex life").
 
Your parents fault is that they gave you birth at the most FUCKED UP AND WRONG TIME. If he ascended with your mother in the past, you would too if you were born before foids started having brutal standarts for their partner
 
You can literally do that at 5'4", women in SEA want men for their resources, I don't think you guys get what a "traditional" culture really is. There is no "love". Men are for resources, women are for sex. At the end of the day that woman will still only be with you because you provide for her.

Whether you are 5'4" or not makes no difference. You are speaking as if there aren't already 5'4" guys born in SEA countries that have wives and GF's, you'll be going there with US dollars, you'll be an upgrade to most men by default.
i guess so but 5'4 is j ust unacceptable for a white man. its embarrassing. avg local will mog me and ill feel like a bitch. she wont wanna be seen with me outside and i wouldnt want to go outside either

You told some guy who refused to pay for sex this, but how is what you said here not also gynocentric, when you're basically saying you can't live without a woman's validation?
not necessarily her validation. but i would just like to have a long term friend. a girlfriend is the only real way for me to have a friend and i want someone to cuddle with and spend time with and shit

I think you believe that the validation will be "real" in that case, but you're wrong. The average woman even in SEA wants 6ft guys too, they just live in an environment where they can't afford to be picky, that's the only difference, ALL WOMEN ARE THE SAME AT THEIR CORE.
yeah i know they want 6ft guys too but being avg or a few inches above avg height is still enough to be satisfied with rather than being 3 inches below average height

but yes i see the hypocrisy. but how can i live for the rest of my life without a friend, gf or family and just paying to fuck escorts. how can i ever be happy like that? this is the only way i see it being possible
 
Your parents fault is that they gave you birth at the most FUCKED UP AND WRONG TIME. If he ascended with your mother in the past, you would too if you were born before foids started having brutal standarts for their partner
the only way my dad could reproduce was be dating a mentally ill landwhale. surely that was a sign for him to not reproduce. hes so fucking selfish anyone couldve guessed this would happen
 
you're trying to get a boomer to understand the blackpill

it's virtually impossible. their dating experiences were molded before every foid had smartphones and chad-on-demand apps
 
i had a similar discussion with mine
they will gaslight you in such retarded ways you think they are almost baiting you
then you will reply with anger and they will say " see ? its your shitty personality"

make your own money
 
I gave up trying to blackpill my parents, they admitted to me that they know that everything I told them is the truth, but they just don’t want to hear it because it makes Them uncomfortable

When you have parents who will never understand your situation, you really have no choice but to just suffer in silence on your own.

Complaining won’t change your situation anyway, so you might as well focus on actions which will change your reality
 
This has to be the weirdest thing I read today.
 
how can i ever be happy at 5'4 tho? i can never have friends or a gf at 5'4 no matter where i go. if get to 5'7/5'8 could at least try get a gf in SEA

i just cant see myself being happy without an LTR. theres a reason literally everyone in life has one/tries to get one
why are you annoying your dad go get a job or something
 
why are you annoying your dad go get a job or something
it will take ages to save + you try being in a work environment as an ugly 5'4 guy
 
how is it weird
You are talking literal unfiltered incel bullshit to your dad and he's replying with talking points lifted put of some new age self help book. In a tone that doesn't sound fatherly.
 
You are talking literal unfiltered incel bullshit to your dad and he's replying with talking points lifted put of some new age self help book. In a tone that doesn't sound fatherly.
lmao i wouldnt say its incel bullshit. its clearly obvious a 5'4 man would face problems in life. clear to anyone.

and wym not fatherly, like he doesnt really care?
 
No. Like he's your friend or acquaintance or something. Also seems a bit removed.
yeah its horrible man i wish he just cared about my suffering that i didnt even ask for and paid my LL
 
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So you expect me to live a normal life at 5’4?

“ yep! Just like everyone else” WHAT?£?!?!!?!?!?

IS IT ME OR AM I LIVING IN A NIGHTMARE WHERE IM LITERALLY DISABLED AND MY DAD IS PRETENDING IM NOT AND THAT EVERYTHING IS FINE

How should I even reply to this and convince him to help me with a loan for LL?
He knows he failed you as a parent so he's coping hard. How tall is he?
 
:cryfeels:but in SEA 5'7 maybe frauded 5'8 could be okay enough to get a gf if white.
Dude let me fucking pour water on this slow burning, tiny fire you got going. Cause honestly, I wish the best for you and all but there is a blockage around you brain which makes you kind of annoying:

:cryfeels:but in SEA 5'7 maybe frauded 5'8 could be okay enough to get a gf if white

Not necessarily and not if they find out you have done leg extensions. It's the GENES they want. For example if you came to India and try with your new found leg extension, you will find an impossible up hill battle and trust me, they (the pretty upper class Indian girls, which will be the only ones you can communicate with as the rest will not speak English ) don't want any sort of relationship with a poor below average looking short white guy. The ones who would give you a one night stand, you will have to pay a lot of money before hand, and also, from what I have seen after I moved here, in all of thes places, White Chad (and if not white-tourists Chad then Indian Chad) come and dominate these sort of one-night stand girls. You must again consider whether spending the money for Leg extension surgery (which has a 1-3 month for full healing time) is worth the possible one-night stand you MIGHT get after spending a fortune on travel. It depends how much money you have. And it doesn't sound like you and your father are in this position. So be careful and don't be careless brocel.
the psychiatrist letter was a good idea tbh that might help. ive already had 1 session with one but she didnt seem to care just i talked about my suffering and she'd say stuff like "oh im so sorry thats so terrible" with no advice how to deal with it
Welcome to the Mental Health field !
 
Not necessarily and not if they find out you have done leg extensions. It's the GENES they want. For example if you came to India and try with your new found leg extension, you will find an impossible up hill battle and trust me, they (the pretty upper class Indian girls, which will be the only ones you can communicate with as the rest will not speak English ) don't want any sort of relationship with a poor below average looking short white guy. The ones who would give you a one night stand, you will have to pay a lot of money before hand, and also, from what I have seen after I moved here, in all of thes places, White Chad (and if not white-tourists Chad then Indian Chad) come and dominate these sort of one-night stand girls. You must again consider whether spending the money for Leg extension surgery (which has a 1-3 month for full healing time) is worth the possible one-night stand you MIGHT get after spending a fortune on travel. It depends how much money you have. And it doesn't sound like you and your father are in this position. So be careful and don't be careless brocel.
i would never let them find out about me getting leg lengthening!

ok as a MTN. LL to 5'7. lifts to 5'9. blonde blue eyes. will have money when geomaxx.

do u think thats still not enough to get an average/below average looking gf in a 5'7 darker skinned and poor country?

if u think i still wont get one then idk what to do man:cryfeels::cryfeels::cryfeels: i dont even want a lot. just betabuxx a average/below average girl so i can have a gf:cryfeels::cryfeels:
 
mfw i was wrong as a kid for cheering for naruto in the chunin exams when neji was blackpilled.
Neji was unironically blackpilled. Naruto as a show is all about genetic superiority
 
My dad is the same when i talk about my height (5'3), he literally thinks everyone is beautiful in his own way and that there's someone for everyone.
 
My dad is the same when i talk about my height (5'3), he literally thinks everyone is beautiful in his own way and that there's someone for everyone.
Lol what can we even fucking do

I showed my dad all the height studies on dating, money, bullying , everything and this manlet scum still won’t help
 
Lol what can we even fucking do

I showed my dad all the height studies on dating, money, bullying , everything and this manlet scum still won’t help
Its the fucking gen x/boomer mindset who think everything can be compensated with hard work.
 
i would never let them find out about me getting leg lengthening!
My lord. How old are you again? I[UWSL]t doesn't work that way so easily. IF we are talking about a one-night-stand with a foreign whore, MAYBE you can escape that situation without it coming to the surface, BIG MAYBE. You have NO IDEA how these surgeries actually turn out. You will have huge scars on your legs. You will always have to be on top of your mental acuity game to speak out the right "anecdotes" about why these scars are there. Assuming your surgery looks natural overall, you still have to have these stories in your pocket. Please don't be a GenZ twat and dismiss these sort of foibles "dude bro easy dude bro easy to do" blaa blaa. NO ITS NOT. It's very difficult to manage.[/UWSL]
ok as a MTN. LL to 5'7. lifts to 5'9. blonde blue eyes. will have money when geomaxx.
Face ? What is the rating out of 10? How will you have the money to Geomaxx, dad? He won't shell out for the surgery but he might for Geomaxx, is that the deal?
do u think thats still not enough to get an average/below average looking gf in a 5'7 darker skinned and poor country?
Lol. It might be enough, it might not be.

Or, you will feel like shit when all your SEAmaxx efforts will lead to a disgusting foid with a smelly pussy for a night. Either situation is possible. You might even be saddled with even more burden the way curry upper class girls are reporting white guys left and right for "rape" so they can try to extract some money or prestige from the whole "sexual altercation". And believe me, if you are not Savoy about it, the local authorities will gladly freeze your passport for a while if there is a complaint made against you.

Basically, these things are easy for White Chad, and we'll placed white Normie who knows the ground where he hunts, always tougher for Incel to try.
if u think i still wont get one then idk what to do man:cryfeels::cryfeels::cryfeels: i dont even want a lot. just betabuxx a average/below average girl so i can have a gf:cryfeels::cryfeels:.
So you want to move to a place like India and betabuxx a foid? I thought you said one-night stand. You want a relationship? That you COULD do if your truly commit to the whole endeavour. In that case your whiteness + height chance MIGHT go a longer way.
My dad is the same when i talk about my height (5'3), he literally thinks everyone is beautiful in his own way and that there's someone for everyone.
My experience: It's pointless to try and convince foreign men who immigrated to the West that their spawn is inferior compared to the Western genetic elite. They have no concept of it. Trust me Indian men from India who end up having kids (especially boys) in the West have no idea whats in store for their children.
Lol what can we even fucking do

I showed my dad all the height studies on dating, money, bullying , everything and this manlet scum still won’t help
Stop wasting your time with this part
[UWSL]This is like the 10th time older users on here have told you this [/UWSL]:feelsjuice:
 
your dad is a retard

giga manipulate him to give you money for LL
 
He knows that he has failed as a parent and he is coping that didn't happen by telling you "just like everyone else".
yeah imagine him having to acknowledge how bad this is it would crush him LMAO
 

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