How do I even reply to this message from my dad? Nigga thinks being 5’4 is normal

[Genetic Error]

So you expect me to live a normal life at 5’4?

“ yep! Just like everyone else” WHAT?£?!?!!?!?!?

IS IT ME OR AM I LIVING IN A NIGHTMARE WHERE IM LITERALLY DISABLED AND MY DAD IS PRETENDING IM NOT AND THAT EVERYTHING IS FINE

How should I even reply to this and convince him to help me with a loan for LL?

 

[My Name Jeff]

holy shit you got ghosted by your dad for a while that's brutal

 

[Darius L]

[UWSL]The coping emoji face at the end[/UWSL]

 

[Darius L]

Tell him to cope harder

 

[Genetic Error]

holy shit you got ghosted by your dad for a while that's brutal

nigga just went on holiday abroad with my little brother and not me + blanking me

legit wants me to kill myself

 

[Nunber]

brutal bro pops shouldve given you big doses of HGH knowing he was 5'4 and your potential would be shit off the bat

 

[My Name Jeff]

nigga just went on holiday abroad with my little brother and not me + blanking me

legit wants me to kill myself

wow wtf, he does that and has the nerve to talk to you like he cares

also yeah, it want easy for him but he managed to do it. he acknowledged he beat the odds at his height

dating is now 100000000x harder than it was when he was dating. it ain't worth trying to convince him though, most old peoples brains have been melted to mush by the TV and they are incapable of having non-NPC thoughts

 

[Genetic Error]

wow wtf, he does that and has the nerve to talk to you like he cares

also yeah, it want easy for him but he managed to do it. he acknowledged he beat the odds at his height

dating is now 100000000x harder than it was when he was dating. it ain't worth trying to convince him though, most old peoples brains have been melted to mush by the TV and they are incapable of having non-NPC thoughts

nigga is literally taller than me + lived 40 years ago when the avg height was 2 inches shorter

how can i convince him to loan me for LL man

 

[Genetic Error]

@BlkPillPres any advice?

 

[My Name Jeff]

nigga is literally taller than me + lived 40 years ago when the avg height was 2 inches shorter

how can i convince him to loan me for LL man

idk i need to figure out the same to get my dad to fund LL for me too. if you figure it out let me know brocel

until then i'll just rot in my bed

 

[Genetic Error]

idk i need to figure out the same to get my dad to fund LL for me too. if you figure it out let me know brocel

until then i'll just rot in my bed

i will bro.

and lmao exact same

 

[war_with_myself]

boomers are out of touch with reality

 

[Malvo]

My dad is 6 feet scum and I just remember him saying ‘not everyone is as tall as their parents’ because I was pissed at him and he still insists that I’m going to become tall.

 

[Genetic Error]

boomers are out of touch with reality

what should i even say??!?!?!!

 

[war_with_myself]

what should i even say??!?!?!!

arguing with parents is futile, they'll never get your struggles. either play along or just ignore it.

 

[SadLife231]

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So you expect me to live a normal life at 5’4?

“ yep! Just like everyone else” WHAT?£?!?!!?!?!?

IS IT ME OR AM I LIVING IN A NIGHTMARE WHERE IM LITERALLY DISABLED AND MY DAD IS PRETENDING IM NOT AND THAT EVERYTHING IS FINE

How should I even reply to this and convince him to help me with a loan for LL?

The problem is not your size, the problem is the society we live in.

 

[BraincelsRefugee]

Boomers
He sounds like a massive bluepilled betabuxx cuck.

 

[Linky Love]

nigga is literally taller than me + lived 40 years ago when the avg height was 2 inches shorter

how can i convince him to loan me for LL man

You can’t.

He truly thinks that he’s right and since he’s old and set in his ways having been brainwashed by his own life experiences and the MSM he will never budge on this issue and just laugh you off whenever you bring it up to him.

Remember though it’s not because he’s really a cruel man at heart, he’s just not as smart as he thinks he is.

So sadly if you’re ever going to have any kind of life you’re simply going to have to work your ass off in school to get a high paying career and pay for this yourself or perhaps attempt to get a loan from a different relative if you have any that are sympathetic to your plight.

To send the message home to your dad about how badly he wronged you, you can also cut off all contact with him once if ever you are able to obtain a great career and make it on your own.

 

[JayGoptri]

You can’t.

He truly thinks that he’s right and since he’s old and set in his ways having been brainwashed by his own life experiences and the MSM he will never budge on this issue and just laugh you off whenever you bring it up to him.

Remember though it’s not because he’s really a cruel man at heart, he’s just not as smart as he thinks he is.

Agreed and - Many of us have experienced similar situations. In the case of many Indian-Americans our parents had NO EARTHLY IDEA what we were complaining about as youth when it comes to looks or height or "foids behavior now days" or "good looking people getting ahead" or any of that. It was like a foreign language to them, and mine were even older than yours so can you imagine, shit the understood was from the 60's. You could say retarded things like "I want to be a free spirit" and get financial support, but you say even one thing about being ugly and you get thrown out of the room.

Nah forget trying. I agree with @Fat Link, best you can do is grind until you can afford it, or give it up and put your mind at ease, less tension.

 

[SadLife231]

So sadly if you’re ever going to have any kind of life you’re simply going to have to work your ass off in school to get a high paying career and pay for this yourself or perhaps attempt to get a loan from a different relative if you have any that are sympathetic to your plight.

Not necessarily. Sometimes you work like a hard worker and you don't get any results.

 

[Genetic Error]

LL is a stupid surgery. @Genetic Error is 5'3.5 it's beyond over at that height. LL wont make up for his terrible proportions and the injury/surgery complication risks simply aren't worth it.

the plan is to LL from 5'4 to 5'7. wear 1 inch lifts to 5'8. then move to SEA where avg height is like 5'6 and put my pheno to use

 

[subhuman]

LL is a stupid surgery. @Genetic Error is 5'3.5 it's beyond over at that height. LL wont make up for his terrible proportions and the injury/surgery complication risks simply aren't worth it.

he is retarded. you cant save him bro. its over just give up.

 

[JayGoptri]

LL is a stupid surgery. @Genetic Error is 5'3.5 it's beyond over at that height. LL wont make up for his terrible proportions and the injury/surgery complication risks simply aren't worth it.

Agreed overall. I do think it COULD hold some promise for people who are:

1. Mid tier smv (but just a little short)

2. Rich and can afford the surgery and outcome

3. Plan on starting a new phase of life afterwards mostly around people who never knew them before.

In those cases the surgery may produce fruitful results. Otherwise, epic fail !

2022 Update: Leg lengthening Surgery: "The most dangerous cosmetic surgery"

I recommend all who feel they fall into the category of "Manlets" watch the entire piece especially if considering any type of similar procedure. Dr. Sarin, who was featured on an Al-Jazeera piece says he discusses with a Psychiatrist and Psychologist about their mental state before he does...

incels.is

 

[Genetic Error]

if ur gonna SEAmaxx i suggest you keep the $100k. a 5'4 guy with an extra 100k is gonna be a lot more handsome than a 5'7 guy with cartoon proportions (who's also missing the extra 100k)

nah man 5'4 for a white man is unacceptable and embarrassing to even be seen with regardless of money. dont u think?

5'8 is acceptable. and should have decent wage coming regular enough

 

[Transcended Trucel]

He knows that he has failed as a parent and he is coping that didn't happen by telling you "just like everyone else".

this. He knows he is trash and too poor to help you. You should move on and money Maxx and ignore this nigga

 

[Lv99_BixNood]

 

[Massimo The Lonecel]

boomers are out of touch with reality

They Live In The Past.

 

[Jarnvo]

LMAOOOO dude we must have the same Dad

 

[Hell]

Here's to that

 

[Genetic Error]

LMAOOOO dude we must have the same Dad

what happens with urs?

Here's to that

nigga basically just signed my death wish and ended it with that

 

[BlkPillPres]

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So you expect me to live a normal life at 5’4?

“ yep! Just like everyone else” WHAT?£?!?!!?!?!?

IS IT ME OR AM I LIVING IN A NIGHTMARE WHERE IM LITERALLY DISABLED AND MY DAD IS PRETENDING IM NOT AND THAT EVERYTHING IS FINE

How should I even reply to this and convince him to help me with a loan for LL?

You seem to be confused, if you convince him then what?, what does he have to even offer you afterwards?, condolences?.

Talking to your parents about this shit is pointless because they can't help you. Words don't matter, only actions matter.

Your father is both right and wrong, he's wrong that you still have a chance at 5'4" in this modern era where women have unlimited options. He's right in the sense that only your actions in life matter and just talking about these issues with your parents isn't going to do shit.

I really don't know why people waste their time trying to convince their parents about the black pill when you probably couldn't convince yourself from 10 years go (and they are an entire generation before you so they can't even comprehend your plight).

 

[SchrodingersDick]

Jfl it’s the “everyone has problems” like everyone is assigned one random problem valued equally to all other problems. Holy hell. Some things are minor inconveniences or even completely trivial, others are death sentences. “Well sweetie I know you have cancer, but everyone has something they go through or that they are self conscious about”

Agreed with Blkpillpres. Unless you’re 14 and your growth plates are still open, there is nothing your dad can do.

 

[Genetic Error]

You seem to be confused, if you convince him then what?, what does he have to even offer you afterwards?, condolences?.

Talking to your parents about this shit is pointless because they can't help you. Words don't matter, only actions matter.

Your father is both right and wrong, he's wrong that you still have a chance at 5'4" in this modern era where women have unlimited options. He's right in the sense that only your actions in life matter and just talking about these issues with your parents isn't going to do shit.

I really don't know why people waste their time trying to convince their parents about the black pill when you probably couldn't convince yourself from 10 years go (and they are an entire generation before you so they can't even comprehend your plight).

im trying to get him to loan for LL but he wont budge, any idea how?

 

[Genetic Error]

Agreed with Blkpillpres. Unless you’re 14 and your growth plates are still open, there is nothing your dad can do.

I EVEN FUCKING BEGGED HIM FOR HGH AT 14 AND HE DIDNT WANNA DO IT COS HE SAID ILL GROW EVEN THO I LITERALLY DIDNT FROM THAT AGE ON. THIS NIGGA WANTED TO RUIN ME WHY DO I DESERVE THIS

 

[PLA1092]

I EVEN FUCKING BEGGED HIM FOR HGH AT 14 AND HE DIDNT WANNA DO IT COS HE SAID ILL GROW EVEN THO I LITERALLY DIDNT FROM THAT AGE ON. THIS NIGGA WANTED TO RUIN ME WHY DO I DESERVE THIS

Well, it's brutal, but...

At least he did not expect you to be tall, like many copers...

Or bemoan your height, like many shortcels here have experienced.

 

[BlkPillPres]

im trying to get him to loan for LL but he wont budge, any idea how?

If the max height you'd get out of it is average height, then it won't make a difference lol.

Also for something like this you should use your own money. You can't make your parents complicit in things that they disagree with on a fundamental level.

I mean would you take money from your parents to pay prostitutes for sex?

If I was 5'4" I wouldn't bother. I'd focus on wealthmaxxing and move to a country where the women are 5'2" (Indonesia is a good one).

If you really want it go for it, but I'm not breaking my fucking legs and dealing with the pain of that shit in old age just to appease normies around me and to "try to fit in" or "try to feel normal".

On the other hand I've already long accepted that I'm a weirdo lol, I've never felt "normal" to begin with.

 

[JayGoptri]

if ur gonna SEAmaxx i suggest you keep the $100k. a 5'4 guy with an extra 100k is gonna be a lot more handsome than a 5'7 guy with cartoon proportions (who's also missing the extra 100k)

Correct. Especially if the height is only going to add a minimal amount of aid with a higher amount of risk. Don't want to toss your money into something that can never be undone and may produce zero results.

 

[JayGoptri]

the plan is to LL from 5'4 to 5'7. wear 1 inch lifts to 5'8. then move to SEA where avg height is like 5'6 and put my pheno to use

@Genetic Error - Have you read anything we've been writing brother?

Read my previous posts and link to other thread. You have to calculate how much your facial features are also effecting your outcomes in life. THEN you need to decide whether actually going from 5'4 to 5'9 or 5'10. Because bro I'm telling you, even if you are white, if you want to compete for a decent foid whore, even my height g 5'9.5-5'10 is GRUELING and in my opinion not worth the expenditure, especially since I'm this economy you'll be paying off the load (if from non-family) forever. Plus your other expenses in life. The math problem you face is one of calculating just how much your pheno is worth. I don't know what your face looks like, and i don't know what other "pros and cons" you have but you know them, so start thinking even more critically about it (not saying you haven't but perhaps some more time is necessary).

From what you are saying, the financial aid from family is out of the question. Perhaps as a last ditch effort you can see if a Psychiatrist would write you letter speaking about just how paramount it is to your mental health for you to get the LL. But honestly AND AGAIN, this is not easy either. You'll need to likely attend many psychological counseling session with a mental health specialist to convince them to even write this letter on your behalf in the first place. Besides if your father is already saying no so quickly it means that you are not wealthy enough to where the family could absorb the hit if something goes wrong.


@BurntIvoryKingcel
@BlkPillPres

 

[JayGoptri]

what a coincidence i watched that entire al jazeera doc a year ago. brutal

either way any1 who undergoes that surgery has 0 self-respect.

Brutal.

 

[MevsEarthpopulation]

your dad sounds cucked and af. Mine always writes me how i am a failure and its my mothers fault literally writing parapgraphs i had to block him or else i had to fight him

 

[JayGoptri]

he can't afford it and his father sure as hell (and rightfully so) isn't paying for it. i can almost guarantee you that after @Genetic Error spends years grinding from pay check to pay check he'll realize the value of his hard-earned money and wont even bother going through with it. nobody here can convince him to not do it anyway since his mind is set (currently anyway). either he'll grow out of this foolish desire overtime, on his own (most likely) or he'll do it when he can afford it (in that case i hope his surgery goes smoothly and he wont need crutches in a decade or two).

Correct. I call this "Youngcel problems". Of course it's not easy being 5'4 and I in no way intended to minimize his suffering. But his naievity is somewhat frustrating. How old is he?

 

[JayGoptri]

beats me

He's got a one track focus. "Ignore all the comments which say no" and keep asking people who don't know his father how to make his father do something which even he doesn't know how to do. I gave the best answer I could give him.

 

[JayGoptri]

he's here for the same reason most of us are: entertainment. almost nobody comes on .is to seek knowledge, therapy, or genuine advice.

Usually true for some. But if he is 5'4 there is a chance he's really suffering. He just may not have hit rock bottom to realize how shitty the outside world is, and throwing away money is a faster way to even more shityness.

 

[Puppeter]

Tell him to cope harder

 

[JayGoptri]

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So you expect me to live a normal life at 5’4?

“ yep! Just like everyone else” WHAT?£?!?!!?!?!?

IS IT ME OR AM I LIVING IN A NIGHTMARE WHERE IM LITERALLY DISABLED AND MY DAD IS PRETENDING IM NOT AND THAT EVERYTHING IS FINE

How should I even reply to this and convince him to help me with a loan for LL?

And btw, is this a repost or did the same exact message come from you a few months or even year back? I remember seeing this screenshot before and thinking that your dad was half-way decent for at least admitting "we've got shit to deal with". Honestly, I have known reactions from parents to be FAR WORSE my friend !

 

[Swagpilled]

cringed over annoying your dad with lame shit like that kys please. he probably wishes you already did

 

[Emperor Palpatine]

Things were different when he had your age, that's why he doesn't understand

 

[depressedblackcel]

This is why I dislike the older Generation. Tbh I hate all generations

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

My half-cousin is 5'4.

 

[PPEcel]

this was so fucking sad to read, jesus fuck