
Esoteric7
(╥﹏╥) curry in a hurry
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There have been a few Truecels on here who admitted to cold approaching several females before concluding it's over for them.
In my case, I've never approached my whole life. The only times l've approached females were strictly accidental, like asking for directions in some unfamiliar building, etc.
My brain shuts down when I see an attractive girl. I feel very afraid: muscles tense, eyes dart away like they're wired to escape. I literally cannot look at her. It's like being possessed.
My plan is to make eye contact, if she holds it then, maybe, it'll be okay to approach.
I don't care if cold/warm approaching is retarded. I'm not here to debate that, because I kinda agree. But what else am I supposed to do? My mind is plagued with 'What if' thoughts. If I do a few approaches, maybe I'll finally be at peace.
But I need advice on how to do this. Zero experience. Total paralysis. How do I start?
In my case, I've never approached my whole life. The only times l've approached females were strictly accidental, like asking for directions in some unfamiliar building, etc.
My brain shuts down when I see an attractive girl. I feel very afraid: muscles tense, eyes dart away like they're wired to escape. I literally cannot look at her. It's like being possessed.
My plan is to make eye contact, if she holds it then, maybe, it'll be okay to approach.
I don't care if cold/warm approaching is retarded. I'm not here to debate that, because I kinda agree. But what else am I supposed to do? My mind is plagued with 'What if' thoughts. If I do a few approaches, maybe I'll finally be at peace.
But I need advice on how to do this. Zero experience. Total paralysis. How do I start?