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Serious How do I approach women in the streets?

Esoteric7

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There have been a few Truecels on here who admitted to cold approaching several females before concluding it's over for them.

In my case, I've never approached my whole life. The only times l've approached females were strictly accidental, like asking for directions in some unfamiliar building, etc.

My brain shuts down when I see an attractive girl. I feel very afraid: muscles tense, eyes dart away like they're wired to escape. I literally cannot look at her. It's like being possessed.

My plan is to make eye contact, if she holds it then, maybe, it'll be okay to approach. :forcedsmile:

I don't care if cold/warm approaching is retarded. I'm not here to debate that, because I kinda agree. But what else am I supposed to do? My mind is plagued with 'What if' thoughts. If I do a few approaches, maybe I'll finally be at peace.

But I need advice on how to do this. Zero experience. Total paralysis. How do I start?
 
You don't, you die alone. Comprende?
 
I wish i knew it too. But it is too horrifying to approach foid
 
Just do it and shut off your brain. Realize none of this matters. We're judged immediately based on looks.

Obviously, I don't recommend it as an unattractive male because the State is against you.
 
I've done it before and it's led to some very painfully cringe moments that I think about at night and scream. I would say get drunk, it gives you kind of a built in excuse to be a creep, people will think you just got hammered and couldn't control yourself vs doing it sober where everyone knows you decided to approach women on the street purposefully.
 
You think a foid is going on a date with some asocial friendless stranger she has never met before, because of what?
 
I've done it before and it's led to some very painfully cringe moments that I think about at night and scream. I would say get drunk, it gives you kind of a built in excuse to be a creep, people will think you just got hammered and couldn't control yourself vs doing it sober where everyone knows you decided to approach women on the street purposefully.

a lot of painful memories...
 
Be chad. Interactions with women will be she accusing you from harassment and if you're not sub5 she will just answer with the shortest possible answer to finish the conversation
 
I never tried this, as it always feels like it'll come off as "rapey".

Maybe approach in an unusual setting rather than the street? In bars and clubs, women will expect it and be on guard. Try odd places like a library, supermarket, shop, whatever, as women will haver lower guard in an odd setting. Anything will be better than in the street.
 
i stop them and say, hey im dutchcel01 i would like to fornicate with you if you would like to. m
 
There have been a few Truecels on here who admitted to cold approaching several females before concluding it's over for them.

In my case, I've never approached my whole life. The only times l've approached females were strictly accidental, like asking for directions in some unfamiliar building, etc.

My brain shuts down when I see an attractive girl. I feel very afraid: muscles tense, eyes dart away like they're wired to escape. I literally cannot look at her. It's like being possessed.

My plan is to make eye contact, if she holds it then, maybe, it'll be okay to approach. :forcedsmile:

I don't care if cold/warm approaching is retarded. I'm not here to debate that, because I kinda agree. But what else am I supposed to do? My mind is plagued with 'What if' thoughts. If I do a few approaches, maybe I'll finally be at peace.

But I need advice on how to do this. Zero experience. Total paralysis. How do I start?
You don't.
 
drink alcohol to lower your inhib

dispel those thoughts of "what if"; the outcome is usually not as catastrophic as you'd think
 
Just do it and shut off your brain. Realize none of this matters. We're judged immediately based on looks.

Obviously, I don't recommend it as an unattractive male because the State is against you.
yeah. These days it could escalate quickly. Especially since most femoids are desperate to have a story about almost being raped to tell their friends.
 

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