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How did you cope this year when relatives asked you about your inceldom?

Kimble

Kimble

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I've just returned from a great family event. Seeing all of my cousins (and their respective girlfriends) was a bittersweet affair. When a relative asked me why I didnt' bring one I coped by saying "I don't commit to one, I don't need the expectations and obligations of a relationship" which of course is complete bullshit.

Multiple times thoughout the night my relatives asked my brother about his new girlfriend, he showed them photos of her and there was a riotous applause about how good looking she is, and every so often my mum would butt into conversations about how attractive he is.

There was one time my cousin brought a group of her friends to meet my brother and I, and my grandmother pointed at my brother and said "he's the good looking one".

This time of year is utterly excruciating.
 
My cousin found out I was an incel once because I mentioned the phrase "Chads and Stacys". But I think she understands cuz im so sub human.

Didnt care tbh
 
I've just returned from a great family event. Seeing all of my cousins (and their respective girlfriends) was a bittersweet affair. When a relative asked me why I didnt' bring one I coped by saying "I don't commit to one, I don't need the expectations and obligations of a relationship" which of course is complete bullshit.

Multiple times thoughout the night my relatives asked my brother about his new girlfriend, he showed them photos of her and there was a riotous applause about how good looking she is, and every so often my mum would butt into conversations about how attractive he is.

There was one time my cousin brought a group of her friends to meet my brother and I, and my grandmother pointed at my brother and said "he's the good looking one".

This time of year is utterly excruciating.
THIS IS SO BRUTAL MAN !!!

I remain in my room all the day , this is my christmas cope
 
I did nothing but waited inside all the time chatting to @Nothingness in pm
 
Its really sad how much i resent my family, so much jealous in me i honestly am just repulsed, theyre not chads or staceys but at least have something to care about, im roping boyos coping is almost done with
 
They don't bother anymore. Just like I don't bother coming.
 
A divorced foid in my family with 2 roastie daughters asked me if I have a girlfriend.
Jfl, she Is 50, single mum and makes hundreds of matches on Tinder while I just wagecuck&ldar.
I Just smiled and said no.
The bitch knows I'm single, probably Just wanted to feel Better about herself. I considered going ogre but I just coped with the wine.
 
My older relatives never visit now thank god, most are dead now anyway. Only one uncle left, its bad enough when my sister comes around with her 2 sons and they bring their latest hot teen girlfriends along.
 
Multiple times thoughout the night my relatives asked my brother about his new girlfriend, he showed them photos of her and there was a riotous applause about how good looking she is, and every so often my mum would butt into conversations about how attractive he is.
Must be fucking shit to have such a close relative like a brother to be living such a good life and you have nothing
my grandmother pointed at my brother and said "he's the good looking one".
Type of thing that would happen to me ngl and also that's abosulutly fucking brutal. Did she say it when you were close to her or far away but you just happened to hear?
 
Type of thing that would happen to me ngl and also that's abosulutly fucking brutal. Did she say it when you were close to her or far away but you just happened to hear?

We're standing aside, drinking beers and chilling talking shit and laughing. She pulls BOTH of us over to introduce us to this group girls by name before adding it in at the end.

To this day it still crushes me — not so much because it was mean spirited (shes a wonderful woman and genuinely very loving) but because the reality of the blackpill overided her sense of compassion.
 
I have no family besides my parents and they don’t celebrate anything, not even birthdays.
 
I didn't have to go to my shitty extended family's get-together because of my dehisced (split open post-op) surgical wounds. At the ones I've gone to before, nobody asked me about my relationship status, probably because my inceldom is written on my face.
 
They stopped asking me about women long ago.
 
When a relative asked me why I didnt' bring one I coped by saying "I don't commit to one, I don't need the expectations and obligations of a relationship" which of course is complete bullshit.

You should have replied with the plain truth.
 
If you are a truecel your relatives know you don't have a girlfriend without even asking, I don't think my relatives have ever asked me about girlfriends.
 
There was one time my cousin brought a group of her friends to meet my brother and I, and my grandmother pointed at my brother and said "he's the good looking one".
I would’ve went ER ngl
 
I got the usual 'so, do you have a girlfriend? no? do you like anyone? no? that's a shame' but it didn't really escalate more than that, my family isn't pushy enough and knows that it's over for me, just have a hard time accepting it.
 
It's finally over boys. Not in the typical sense, but this excruciating holiday. No more awkward questions - we made it.
 
I don't really say anything to my relatives and they don't say anything to me
 

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