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How did you celebrate your 18th birthday?

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This is inspired by the post about that one girl who got a car on her 16th. I'm asking about the 18th tho since it's a much more important and a more heavily celebrated milestone.

Personally, my parents bought me some cake. We ate it together and that's it. Didn't leave the house, no one (outside of my parents) wished me anything, I didn't even talk to anyone (other than my parents) on that day.

From what I understand, this isn't normal. Usually people (specifically women and chad) throw a party, inviting either friends or family or both. Is this the same for normies (average looking men) tho? Just an additional question I thought up as I was typing this. It seems like average men don't throw parties on their 18th? Or if they do it's usually a small family thing. Anyone have any input on this?
 
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I don't think I did anything iirc
 
My family came over for my birthday but I literally slept through the whole thing
 
Literally nothing lol, I don’t even remember getting a cake or balloons.
 
I don't know, GrAYnigger, that was almost 20 years ago.
 
For normies 18th birthday might mean something big but for a trucel like me it was just like every other birthday. I don't even know that 18th birthday is supposed to be a big occasion.
 
I believe I ate dominos pizza and cried in my room lol
 
I went out to eat with my family and then had sex (with my hand)
 
Looks like mine went better than most, I had cake and hotdogs but then on that day had to go work a shift too.
 
iirc i spent it playing vidya and eating junk food
 
Smoked ganja and drank a lot

Got some food from a Mexican taqueria and drove to some park hotbox the ever living shit out of my car while eating my food
 
I didn't celebrate it, my mother woke me up to tell me "happy birthday" but I just slept through the whole day like usual back than, I used to sleep until 10pm because I was completely isolated
 
can't remember. I probably did the same thing I do everyday, waste time on meaningless copes
 
Don’t remember, was probably just another day.
 
I had a psychotic break the week before and spent mine in an institution.
 
I didn’t celebrate it lol I probably just got drunk but I did that before I turned 18 (This liquor store used to sell to me without ID)
 
I ate a cake with my family
 
It was pretty bad. I remember that afternoon my godfather visited our house with my aunt. being my godfather, he didn't even remember that it was my birthday. It really sucked. Anyway, my life that year was already shitty. I had even dropped out of high school because of bullying.
 
Not at all, I didn't even have anyone to tell it was my birthday either.
 
I think it was during (((covid))) and I went to a steakhouse with my mom and we had to eat outside because people weren’t allowed in the restaurant because of (((covid)))

Got some lego parts and a few sodas for my birthday presents, watched ghost adventures with my mom and had a slice of cake.

I think I was playing L4D2 all day before we went out for dinner
 
I ate a ton of slop then fell asleep, didn't get any presents, nobody came over, no greetings, that's it.
 
I don't remember. I probably just played videogames and jerked off though
 
Shivering under several plastic garbage bags sleeping homeless by a dumpster in the foothills of the Tetons in winter.
 
Shivering under several plastic garbage bags sleeping homeless by a dumpster in the foothills of the Tetons in winter.
I’m sorry to hear that, George.
 
I got drunk alone in the woods
 
This is inspired by the post about that one girl who got a car on her 16th. I'm asking about the 18th tho since it's a much more important and a more heavily celebrated milestone.

Personally, my parents bought me some cake. We ate it together and that's it. Didn't leave the house, no one (outside of my parents) wished me anything, I didn't even talk to anyone (other than my parents) on that day.

From what I understand, this isn't normal. Usually people (specifically women and chad) throw a party, inviting either friends or family or both. Is this the same for normies (average looking men) tho? Just an additional question I thought up as I was typing this. It seems like average men don't throw parties on their 18th? Or if they do it's usually a small family thing. Anyone have any input on this?
Nothing. Just had a cake infront of me and took the most lonelinest depressing photo to exist
 
My mum got me a ps4 so that I could video game cope
 
I went to dine at a restaurant with my mother; I can't remember any other notable things that occured that day, as it was yet another mundane, meaningless, and dull day in my wretched life. There was, however, one brutal thing that did happen: one of my classmates shared the same birthday as me, and while at school that day—I was forced to endure the sight of my classmates celebrating his birthday, while not a single one remembered mine, even those who I considered as closer to me. This definitely got to me quite a bit, as the stark differences between our lives struck me right in the face.
 
There was, however, one brutal thing that did happen: one of my classmates shared the same birthday as me, and while at school that day—I was forced to endure the sight of my classmates celebrating his birthday, while not a single one remembered mine, even those who I considered as closer to me. This definitely got to me quite a bit, as the stark differences between our lives struck me right in the face.
Something really similar happened to me. A few days prior, everyone in the year group was sat in this small hall, waiting for the teacher to do some little announcement. Some girl had the same birthday as me and when one of her friends shouted out that it was her birthday everyone started clapping and congratulating her. I know for a fact that if someone mentioned it was my birthday no one would've given a fuck.
 
Something really similar happened to me. A few days prior, everyone in the year group was sat in this small hall, waiting for the teacher to do some little announcement. Some girl had the same birthday as me and when one of her friends shouted out that it was her birthday everyone started clapping and congratulating her. I know for a fact that if someone mentioned it was my birthday no one would've given a fuck.
Brutal man :fuk:
 
Went out with a fellow brocel to get lunch then spent the rest of the day playing games. Pretty good birthday all things considered.
 
Can't remember, didn't give a shit about that
 
Barely did anything.
 
same as most bithdays since 13-14
Didn't celebrate and my parents forced me to go to a restaurant

If i was a chad i would have celebrated it with many people. Including girls, who i would kiss and fuck
 
I don't even remember, probably in my room suffering or something
 
Rotted in my room and played vidya
 
I ate dinner with my parents and grandparents at a Japanese restaurant
 
My brother-in-law and sister came to visit and we just "celebrated" with my other siblings and parents. Nothing special. Had a cake as well. And my parents had an argument. As always.
 
I was so drunk and stoned, i don't even remember.
 

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