How did bad parenting fuck you up?

[kruffy]

We can all agree that we have bad genetics but how about the way out parents raised us?

For me, my parents just let me do whatever the fuck I wanted which allowed me to just rot inside all day growing up (still had to go to school tho). Now I'm in my early 20s and have accomplished nothing + really bad depression and social anxiety. What about you guys?

 

[zd60]

my parents didn't really raise me much they just kind of let me do whatever whenever most of the time mainly because they were passed out drunk

 

[Leon98]

We can all agree that we have bad genetics but how about the way out parents raised us?

For me, my parents just let me do whatever the fuck I wanted which allowed me to just rot inside all day growing up (still had to go to school tho). Now I'm in my early 20s and have accomplished nothing + really bad depression and social anxiety. What about you guys?

Sounds like me.

 

[kruffy]

Sounds like me.

NIce to know I'm not alone. Just going outside and seeing everyone who's happy. Fuck man, it's so unfair that they didn't have to deal with such a shit hand.

 

[Animecel2D]

It fucked me over for life

I was regularly beat and yelled at for every little thing, couldn’t even talk back without getting punished harder. Overall just a miserable childhood being raised by parents who barely thought of me as a human

 

[sk.feelsdevil]

My parents wer ethe complete opposite. They always had me do tutoring, almost every hour of my day was schedueled, I had almost no free time and when I rebelled and chilled in the woods for too long they got mad. Also I got beaten quite a lot when I was smaller by both my dad and my mom, verbal abuse doesn't even count because it happened so often.
Idk, they did most things wrong, they never gave me the choice to make friends, they always had me do stupid shit that wasted my time. I lived in terror of my father because he had me go to his aikido training in order to beat me up legally, I dealt with my mom by crushing her hand when she wanted to slap me.

Anyhow their abuse made me who I am now and honestly it made me toughER. Not many things can hurt me now given that my arents already did most possible things.

 

[sk.feelsdevil]

couldn’t even talk back without getting punished harder

Kek, they did this to me too.
They accused me of not being respectful when I wanted to analyze the problem objectively because of course if you are a parent in an emotional state you are always correct.

 

[Cuckoja]

Short version locked me up and abused me until i became broken human being.

 

[hatepilled]

We can all agree that we have bad genetics but how about the way out parents raised us?

For me, my parents just let me do whatever the fuck I wanted which allowed me to just rot inside all day growing up (still had to go to school tho). Now I'm in my early 20s and have accomplished nothing + really bad depression and social anxiety. What about you guys?

i didnt have a childhood

 

[kay']

Im literally disabled because of my parents.

Recovery is not certain too and it is taking too long.

 

[kruffy]

My parents wer ethe complete opposite. They always had me do tutoring, almost every hour of my day was schedueled, I had almost no free time and when I rebelled and chilled in the woods for too long they got mad. Also I got beaten quite a lot when I was smaller by both my dad and my mom, verbal abuse doesn't even count because it happened so often.
Idk, they did most things wrong, they never gave me the choice to make friends, they always had me do stupid shit that wasted my time. I lived in terror of my father because he had me go to his aikido training in order to beat me up legally, I dealt with my mom by crushing her hand when she wanted to slap me.

Anyhow their abuse made me who I am now and honestly it made me toughER. Not many things can hurt me now given that my arents already did most possible things.

Did you at least get to do the normal things that people do (learn to drive, job, uni, etc)?

 

[kruffy]

Im literally disabled because of my parents.

Recovery is not certain too and it is taking too long.

Can you elaborate? How did your parents make you disabled?

 

[Itsoverm8]

Too much helicopter parenting and being overly religious made me into a submissive pushover also never even tried to teach me how to get laid or asked if I had a girlfriend so I basically was raised to be asexual aside from the bad genetics they gave me. Also we’re kind of physically abusive because “discipline”.

 

[sk.feelsdevil]

Did you at least get to do the normal things that people do (learn to drive, job, uni, etc)?

Uni, but they actively hindered me getting a job or trying to apply for a drivers permit.

 

[kay']

Can you elaborate? How did your parents make you disabled?

They sent me working hard physical jobs when i turned 15 and eating only once a day because they couldnt be arsed preparing nutritious food.

and we were not poor even back then so they just sent me slaving for no reason.

At 19 my neck broke.

 

[MRHK_57]

It fucked me over for life

I was regularly beat and yelled at for every little thing, couldn’t even talk back without getting punished harder. Overall just a miserable childhood being raised by parents who barely thought of me as a human

My life summarized.

 

[Leon98]

NIce to know I'm not alone. Just going outside and seeing everyone who's happy. Fuck man, it's so unfair that they didn't have to deal with such a shit hand.

 

[kruffy]

They sent me working hard physical jobs when i turned 15 and eating only once a day because they couldnt be arsed preparing nutritious food.

and we were not poor even back then so they just sent me slaving for no reason.

At 19 my neck broke.

I'm so sorry man.

 

[kay']

I'm so sorry man.

 

[Deleted member 8078]

My youth was rough in this regard but what really fucked me up was missing out on teen love. If I had teen love, I wouldn't have cared about any of the things that transpired.

 

[TooSomething]

I wouldn't even know where to start. It's so much.

All I can say is that I hate them both.

 

[Ghostface]

My parents wer ethe complete opposite. They always had me do tutoring, almost every hour of my day was schedueled, I had almost no free time and when I rebelled and chilled in the woods for too long they got mad. Also I got beaten quite a lot when I was smaller by both my dad and my mom, verbal abuse doesn't even count because it happened so often.
Idk, they did most things wrong, they never gave me the choice to make friends, they always had me do stupid shit that wasted my time. I lived in terror of my father because he had me go to his aikido training in order to beat me up legally, I dealt with my mom by crushing her hand when she wanted to slap me.

Anyhow their abuse made me who I am now and honestly it made me toughER. Not many things can hurt me now given that my arents already did most possible things.

all that and u made ur way here instead

the grAY's paragraph is inkwell status but you, id expect u to become a dime a dozen sociopath from that, not a lonely inkwell virgin

 

[Mr.Breb]

We can all agree that we have bad genetics but how about the way out parents raised us?

For me, my parents just let me do whatever the fuck I wanted which allowed me to just rot inside all day growing up (still had to go to school tho). Now I'm in my early 20s and have accomplished nothing + really bad depression and social anxiety. What about you guys?

More of the same they were helicopter parents. In my home i was a spoiled kid, my parents have more or less good money and i have many things that a kid (or adult) would wish, specially when it comes to videogames. Though also trips. Still i don't mind any of that. I don't like videogames, or enjoy it less than other people. When i used videogames was mainly to socialize. My classmates played x thing so i did too. And trips i just don't like them.

Getting to the intial topic, i don't consider my parents good parents, they shamed me multiple times with friends same as they were helicopter parents. I like to say that the best parenting is that one which leds you the most to experience a teenage and have access to women. Same as fitting inside friend group. So that means that an abusive, but not over proptective parent is better than an helicopter one. Your kid will be less fucked.

My youth was rough in this regard but what really fucked me up was missing out on teen love. If I had teen love, I wouldn't have cared about any of the things that transpired.

Exactly

 

[Geno]

They ruined my life

 

[Sir Silentium]

Too much helicopter parenting

 

[superpsycho]

couldve been better but it wasnt horrible, i was doomed by my genetics in the first place anyway

 

[mariomariuss]

allowed me to just rot inside all day growing up (still had to go to school tho).

this is how my teen years went, I did go outside like once week but most time I was in my room

 

[unhingedsamsung]

We can all agree that we have bad genetics but how about the way out parents raised us?

For me, my parents just let me do whatever the fuck I wanted which allowed me to just rot inside all day growing up (still had to go to school tho). Now I'm in my early 20s and have accomplished nothing + really bad depression and social anxiety. What about you guys?

Same story here, they couldn’t care what I fucking did as a kid and now they care less.