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It's Over How can you even get a gf after high-school/University?

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We all know high school was our best chance (that's if we had any to begin with) but later on in life, if someone wants to try to actually get a gf, where the fuck can you even start? Especially if someone is a NEET or has a dead end job.
 
Start? You are banned from the game buddy boyo there is no start.
 
Start? You are banned from the game buddy boyo there is no start.
I kno bro, but let's say someone wants to even try, where the fuck could you go?
 
You don’t. If you make it through college without getting into one relationship, your chances of ever getting in one in the future are astronomically low. You might as well rope.
 
That is the question. Because you need a social environment like college to interact with people and grow closer. Without that? What are you supposed to do?
 
You don’t. If you make it through college without getting into one relationship, your chances of ever getting in one in the future are astronomically low. You might as well rope.
Exactly as I said in my other post about it being over if you achieved nothing at 20
That is the question. Because you need a social environment like college to interact with people and grow closer. Without that? What are you supposed to do?
Legit even if you wanted to just try, you legit wouldn't know where to go unless you'd cold approach which is 0% getting anything from that
 
Most people find them in their established social circles. After uni if you don't have a social circle it truly is over (but then for incels it never really began)
That's the other thing, social circles. I feel so much despair knowing people have big circles were I only kno a couple of people who are basically like me
 
University is the only place where I hace the chance of interacting with foids and I havent even talked with one in 4 years. It's fucking over
 
We all know high school was our best chance (that's if we had any to begin with) but later on in life, if someone wants to try to actually get a gf, where the fuck can you even start? Especially if someone is a NEET or has a dead end job.

My parents told me that I'd probably find someone at work (I'm in a field that is primarily male) or church (I'm an atheist). After finding a secure job upon graduating uni, I can tell you with certainty that there are no available young(ish) women in my profession.

I also tried Tinder/Bumble, but both were a fucking fiasco for me.

If anyone else has any other suggestions, I'd be more than willing to try them out and inevitably report back with negative results.
 
i remember coping last year that i would ascend sometime in college. I just graduated high school last year. yeah its not happening. couldnt get one all throughout high school or first year. game over
 
Just go to the bar/library/church/convention broooo
 
There's no mystery to it, most people enter relationships through social circles or online dating. It's just that as you get older, social circles get smaller and the requirements to be LTR material get higher.
 
University is the only place where I hace the chance of interacting with foids and I havent even talked with one in 4 years. It's fucking over
They’d be approaching you in class etc. Seen it with my own eyes. It’s over man. Rot with me
 
They’d be approaching you in class etc. Seen it with my own eyes. It’s over man. Rot with me
It's over for both of us. 4 years and no foids, I don't even have friends tbh
 
University is the only place where I hace the chance of interacting with foids and I havent even talked with one in 4 years. It's fucking over
Damn bro I feel like dying right now, just realised I haven't actually had a full conversation with a foid for couple of years other than cold approaching or small talk at work etc...
My parents told me that I'd probably find someone at work (I'm in a field that is primarily male) or church (I'm an atheist). After finding a secure job upon graduating uni, I can tell you with certainty that there are no available young(ish) women in my profession.

I also tried Tinder/Bumble, but both were a fucking fiasco for me.

If anyone else has any other suggestions, I'd be more than willing to try them out and inevitably report back with negative results.
Honeslty bro I don't even kno any alternatives that arent bluepilled
Just go to the bar/library/church/convention broooo
I try talk to a foid at a bar, I honeslty think I'll get kicked out
 
Most people find them in their established social circles. After uni if you don't have a social circle it truly is over (but then for incels it never really began). Pretty much impossible to meet people after that since most people just stick to their circles and never really branch out.
Humans are social creatures, we require socialization for good mental health.

Loner-Hi, can I be your friend
Norms #1-What? Lol fuck off weirdo
Norms #2-Haha what a loser

Social my fucking arse, everyone looking at each other all distrustful & shit except if your face is good then you don't have to be or don't need ppl vouching for you like it's a reference.

Another thing, as someone with autism wtf is it with the indirect between the lines shit that normies do in talking, body language, facial expressions, timing, sarcasm etc.... Nothing is just plain obvious & direct, it's all some enigma machine beat around the bush krypton factor mental gymnastics 4d chess shit that I'm supposed to somehow decipher, like wtf man, all these little nuances. I don't know wtf is going on, no one just gives it straight anymore.
 
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Most people find them in their established social circles. After uni if you don't have a social circle it truly is over (but then for incels it never really began). Pretty much impossible to meet people after that since most people just stick to their circles and never really branch out.
Social circle pill :feelsrope:
 
It's not that hard for handsome men, thought work, tinder or whatever, +7 men just need to go out and meet new people, women will just flock to them. I've seen chadlites and stacies exchanging numbers at grocery stores!
 
i think people meet through work sometimes, but yeah it’s way harder after school
 
Go to yoga classes, that's where desperate wall-hitters gather.
 
Humans are social creatures, we require socialization for good mental health.

Loner-Hi, can I be your friend
Norms #1-What? Lol fuck off weirdo
Norms #2-Haha what a loser

Social my fucking arse, everyone looking at each other all distrustful & shit except if your face is good then you don't have to be or don't need ppl vouching for you like it's a reference.

Another thing, as someone with autism wtf is it with the indirect between the lines shit that normies do in talking, body language, facial expressions, timing, sarcasm etc.... Nothing is just plain obvious & direct, it's all some enigma machine beat around the bush krypton factor mental gymnastics 4d chess shit that I'm supposed to somehow decipher, like wtf man, all these little nuances. I don't know wtf is going on, no one just gives it straight anymore.
Friendships come out of acquaintanceships, which are based on common interests. You don't just ask to be someone's friend jfl.

However. That said. Incels are too ugly to make friendships out of acquaintanceships. So we're fucked anyway.
 
You cant bro its impossible
 
Friendships come out of acquaintanceships, which are based on common interests. You don't just ask to be someone's friend jfl.

However. That said. Incels are too ugly to make friendships out of acquaintanceships. So we're fucked anyway.
Yeah I know, we can't make friends without friends due to ugliness, social anxiety, odd interests, lack of experience so we can't compete with the rules of the game & we can't just cut the bullshit & legit ask ppl to hang out.
 
Yeah I know, we can't make friends without friends due to ugliness, social anxiety, odd interests, lack of experience so we can't compete with the rules of the game & we can't just cut the bullshit & legit ask ppl to hang out.
This, Failure to make friends in high school is very bad, Failure to make them in college is over. The workplace is filled with people who already have close friends if you dont know how to talk to people by then just give up.
 
Especially if someone is a NEET or has a dead end job.


You dont have a shot at any foid being a Neet. Unless you're a rich Neet who can afford 10/10 escorts or Betabux with conditions on a contract.

NeetandTidy is a great example of why being neet is garbage. The only people on this earth who will overlook such a lazy habit of living is another man lmao.

With a dead end job, you're looking at 30+ yr old roasties working at mcdonalds, postwall foids etc etc

If you cant finish college for a decent degree or become skilled at a trade, it is over for you.
 
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You dont have a shot at any foid being a Neet. Unless you're a rich Neet who can afford 10/10 escorts or Betabux with conditions on a contract.

NeetandTidy is a great example of why being neet is garbage. The only people on this earth who will overlook such a lazy habit of living is another man lmao.

With a dead end job, you're looking at 30+ yr old roasties working at mcdonalds, postwall foids etc etc

If you cant finish college for a decent degree or become skilled at a trade, it is over for you.
For real bro, being a NEET is same as dead pretty much
 
just be chad bro !
 

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