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Nah only getting a Virgin matters everything else is cope
Nah only getting a Virgin matters everything else is cope
To add on, this is dramatic. the whole concept of "Past highschool it's over" is something I disagree with, not that I care at all but if it were me I wouldn't care, better to have gotten it late than to not have gotten it at all. additionally, why would this matter unless you're attempting to parade around your school with you and your girlfriend like you're the royal family?Why do people obsess over "socially catching up" to others? The only thing that matters is are you easily able to attract women or not. Nothing else.
Precisely. Let's say you were a virgin throughout high school and college, then you somehow become a Chad at 22, and start having lots of sex, eventually getting married at 35. Would you still have less social experience than someone who always was a Chad since they were 15? Yes. Would you still have less social experience than someone who has been a normie their whole life? No, you would have compensated for your lack of early relationships by having lots of sex later on. Even if you do have less social experience than a normie, would you honestly still give a fuck about comparing your experiences to others? Nah, absolutely not.To add on, this is dramatic. the whole concept of "Past highschool it's over" is something I disagree with, not that I care at all but if it were me I wouldn't care, better to have gotten it late than to not have gotten it at all. additionally, why would this matter unless you're attempting to parade around your school with you and your girlfriend like you're the royal family?
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standardcels.isNah only getting a Virgin matters everything else is cope
Because not getting girls in your teens/prime means that yout genes are inheritably undesirable. While prime JBs fucked guys, you were left out of it and were teased for being a virgin loser. There is a reason girls hate being a guys first one and hate male virginsWhy do people obsess over "socially catching up" to others? The only thing that matters is are you easily able to attract women or not. Nothing else.
I didnt say he is a bad user. It just baffled me how someone can be on here for so long and never heard this termNah he cool. He is atleast open minded unlike your average inkwell.
ThisBecause not getting girls in your teens/prime means that yout genes are inheritably undesirable. While prime JBs fucked guys, you were left out of it and were teased for being a virgin loser. There is a reason girls hate being a guys first one and hate male virgins
Exactly, although it is becoming more common.This post is so retarded, have you ever actually talked to a normie before? Plenty of them didn’t even try to lose their virginity in highschool
Still not the same thing tbh. It’s over after 18.Dumb posts I know several people who didn't lose it until college.
Ok and? If you become attractive enough, no one will suspect you of being a virgin and you will stop giving a fuck about those girls who didn't fuck you back in school because you would be too busy fucking girls anyways.Because not getting girls in your teens/prime means that yout genes are inheritably undesirable. While prime JBs fucked guys, you were left out of it and were teased for being a virgin loser. There is a reason girls hate being a guys first one and hate male virgins
Virgins and non virgins act different + late blooming wont undo the trauma that you went through. Stop the copeOk and? If you become attractive enough, no one will suspect you of being a virgin and you will stop giving a fuck about those girls who didn't fuck you back in school because you would be too busy fucking girls anyways.
This is true. I hate that copers act like it’s not over till you are in your late 20s. It’s mostly over when you hit 15-17 without a shred of female attention, but at 18 when you leave high school a virgin, it’s completely over and you’re fucked beyond repair. I’m currently a few months past 19, and nothing usually gets better. I have barely any hope of ascending, and even if I did somehow get a gf, it can’t make up for the nothingness in my teen years.
Attractive people and non-attractive people act different.Virgins and non virgins act different
I haven't been traumatized because I was never outright bullied either physically or mentally, just softly socially excluded which I managed by playing video games and reading a lot. I can guarantee you that the same can be said for many other users here, and yes late blooming WOULD actually change my outlook on life.late blooming wont undo the trauma that you went through.
Missing out and being softly excluded knowing your peers were having fun without you is trauma in and of itself.Attractive people and non-attractive people act different.
I haven't been traumatized because I was never outright bullied either physically or mentally, just softly socially excluded which I managed by playing video games and reading a lot. I can guarantee you that the same can be said for many other users here, and yes late blooming WOULD actually change my outlook on life.
True, but still leagues better than being publicly humiliated and/or physically assaulted. I've seen this happen personally a few times and I prefer my fate.Missing out and being softly excluded knowing your peers were having fun without you is trauma in and of itself.
Like, I am still resentful of my classmates who hung out with each other and went to parties without inviting me at all, even though I thought we actually were friends. But would I actually still give a fuck about that if tomorrow I became a 6'6 prettyboy who could fuck every girl I wanted? Nah, I would forget all of it in an instant. It's all envy really.Missing out and being softly excluded knowing your peers were having fun without you is trauma in and of itself.
Oofy doofy is legit. I know many boring sub5 betas with mediocre jobs who are married. I don't know how they all do it, just be NT I guess.Thanks. Interestingly, the wiki frames oofy doofy around a false theory some incels hold that maintains that for some reasoning, women are attracted to this kind of person. Obviously this is a cope and untrue. It's funny, this is apparently "the bluepill for incels."
I think that women forgive and can find clumsy/awkward/niceguy behavior endearing in a guy if he's attractive enough. Perhaps this is a mistaken basis on the part of incels who are proponents of oofy doofy theory. (To be honest I've had personal experience with this — I am not bragging...because as a 28 year old KHHV I am definitely an incel. It's just that my face is alright but my height is too short to never not struggle, and I was cursed my entire adult life until recently with cutecel syndrome on top of that, and misfortune for many other reasons besides that are beyond the scope of this comment to explain. Most of them women that found me "cute" wouldn't seriously consider actually sleeping with me. Furthermore, despite cutecel syndrome not being an issue for me as it was in the past, mainly due to growing facial hair, dating is not a prospect for me for the foreseeable future, for reasons that are again beyond the scope of this comment.)
Oofy doofy is legit. I know many boring sub5 betas with mediocre jobs who are married. I don't know how they all do it, just be NT I guess.
I definitely agree with your point on that. I think the resentment would eventually wash away if my life did a complete 180 before the age of 22 or something. If and ONLY if I am a true chad. Not a normie. Not a high-tier normie. But a white gigachad on recruit difficulty.Like, I am still resentful of my classmates who hung out with each other and went to parties without inviting me at all, even though I thought we actually were friends. But would I actually still give a fuck about that if tomorrow I became a 6'6 prettyboy who could fuck every girl I wanted? Nah, I would forget all of it in an instant. It's all envy really.
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KV at 25?If you are a khhv at 21 plus it's giga over
Not to mention, every girl already had her firsts long before we were in the question. First date to high school dance, first kiss, first time having sex, etcNo they don’t. It’s kinda laughable, actually
Yep. Everything’s relative. Just because you’re that old, doesn’t mean 18-20 isn’t already insanely late to make any milestones with women
I knew how behind I was while still in high school. Motherfuckers were almost all having gfs by 10th grade at the latest. Many had gfs even in 8th grade, and sometimes even 7th grade!
Yeah, it’s still far better than being an incel for your entire lifetime, but you are always gonna be permanently damaged from rotting in your formative years, even if the relationship is a nice loving one. Also, the chances of you ever having actual live is rare. Women will get the ick so fucking fast when they find out you have no past experience
i once listened to some eastern european guy on youtube escortcelling for the first time, he said developed feelings for the second one he visited. brutal stuffeasier said than done. Normie men already get attached to women, it's probably only worse for guys like us here who get no female contact at all...
men will fall for the first woman to give them even a shred of attention tbhi once listened to some eastern european guy on youtube escortcelling for the first time, he said developed feelings for the second one he visited. brutal stuff
Yep. Too many people fail to realize this.Not to mention, every girl already had her firsts long before we were in the question. First date to high school dance, first kiss, first time having sex, etc
you will just get lost in a sea of different guys in her mind. She will NEVER love you like her first love. You are nothing to her. Just another intermediate invisible NOBODY that will NEVER be remembered. You are NOTHING to her
It's all relative. I was never severely bullied, but no one really took me seriously in high school and as a result my teen years were extremely boring. Nothing interesting really happened during these years and I had a lot of time to think about what I was missing out on, but yeah, I would much rather be left alone than be severely tormented every day.Honestly, I don't even remember high school other than the bullying (due to being curry and short) and trying to avoid it. Sex was the last thing on my mind in high school, I was more worried about getting beaten up. Like if someone said to me at 13 "all the bullying will stop until you finish school BUT you won't be able to have sex", I wouldn't even think about that tradeoff - sex was not on my mind until uni/college. Y'all are privileged af.
exactly. While some people have minor glowups in their early 20s, rarely do people ever go from incel to chad in terms of face and height, just like that. You are born and die in the same looks level.There is basically no ascending. Same things that made you incel (LOOKS in 99.99999 percent of all cases) at young age make you incel later on. It's a constant state, not something that is changed by any events happening unless they greatly increase your sex appeal (LOOKS, HEIGHT).
Yes I agree 100%, I just failed to emphasize my point that I think being only a normie AFTER all those years would still not compensate for what happened.I definitely agree with your point on that. I think the resentment would eventually wash away if my life did a complete 180 before the age of 22 or something. If and ONLY if I am a true chad. Not a normie. Not a high-tier normie. But a white gigachad on recruit difficulty.
I think in cases like ours where maybe a few fringecels do eventually escape inceldom after years of trying, only to end up with a girl who has dated 200 guys before settling down, or getting a few hookups here and there, it doesn't really compensate for all that suffering and social exclusion. Like the guy in my original story is still gonna have to face hurdles and stuff, and while his life is probably a little better than mine it's not gonna be good by any means. he's still gonna suffer tremendously socially.
Yep and I don't exactly get why people obsess over teen love when the only guys that were able to pull it off without the relationship being transactional in some way was when they were chads, it should be a complete non-issue for us as incels. Even if we lucked out in some way, with all of our deficits, it still wouldn't guarantee anything, you'd live in constant fear of losing that person, only chad has that picture perfect highschool relationship that works out in adulthood.To add on, this is dramatic. the whole concept of "Past highschool it's over" is something I disagree with, not that I care at all but if it were me I wouldn't care, better to have gotten it late than to not have gotten it at all. additionally, why would this matter unless you're attempting to parade around your school with you and your girlfriend like you're the royal family?
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The possibility during the early years of college still exists to an extent, most late bloomers who managed to ascend post-highschool aren't crying about it. No shit depression/regret over inceldom ceases to exist when you're balls deep in your gf, without experience you can't accurately guess what it'd feel like after the fact. Unless you are an actual sub5 you, as a male, have more time to kill; it's not uncommon at all to see foids with men 3-5 years older. One thing you are right about though is the thing about them not being virgins, I fear that too but you can sort of tell somewhat accurately who has or who hasn't lost their virginity based off obvious traits.Not to mention, every girl already had her firsts long before we were in the question. First date to high school dance, first kiss, first time having sex, etc