how bad are your social skills?

[guessthatsit]

my social skills are in the dirt if someone insults me I have to ignore it since I have 0 replies. I have no common interests with any of the people around me and I can't have conversation without mentioning anime, video games or brainrot. it's over.

 

[Animecel2D]

It’s very difficult to hone your social skills when no one wants to fucking talk to you as it is in my case. Or they’re just fiddling on their phone using it as a shield so they don’t have to see my face

 

[Hohenstaufen]

My socials were never good.

But they have become non-existent by now.

 

[dirlewanger88]

I have zero social skills for the nonsense bullshit people talk about

 

[Animecel2D]

I would probably have the best social skills if my face wasn’t so hideous and I was actually given the opportunity to use and train these skills

 

[PersonalityChad]

They're horrible

 

[Tšuudi]

My social skills are bad, I usually get ignored. Also because of a lifetime of rejections I have a lot of anxiety when I try to interact with anyone, even online, I was even scared to post here at first.

 

[wasted12years]

Depends entirely who you are talking to.

 

[Wrath]

worst on this entire forum

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

My social skills are utterly nonexistent; I am incapable of having conversations with people, and I feel like an extraterrestrial whenever I am in any social situation, which is extremely rare these days, as I spend most of my time in isolation. This is simply the consequence of being ostracized my whole life, and being the subject of poor treatment because of my looks; how am I supposed to develop any social competency when I have no positive reinforcement, or some reference point for social success? I can't.

 

[Brass]

A disaster

 

[DoomThreeKoala]

Pretty bad.
They aren't an absolute atrocity, but I wouldn't say they're good. Good social skills are a fakecel trait.

 

[flute_snoop]

2 out of 10

 

[autisticsoy]

Terribly bad and horrible sooner or later the people I interact with would ignore me soon or avoid me.

 

[Dead End]

Dookie. Could be worse I guess. I am very awkward. Even my former school friends would often call me weird despite not exactly being normal themselves.

 

[ItsOverMan]

my social skills are in the dirt if someone insults me I have to ignore it since I have 0 replies. I have no common interests with any of the people around me and I can't have conversation without mentioning anime, video games or brainrot. it's over.

I'm doing well to even be able to say a barely audible "hi" to someone. Saying "what's up!" or even "good morning" feels too awkward for me, those phrases are only for normies. I will cross streets or hide in my car to avoid having to say hi to anyone. When I was a kid (like before age 13) I used to retort back when someone insulted me, but since around age 13 i'm too high inhib to say anything back. I just have to take it quietly.

 

[sirlancelot]

Horrible. They’ve never been good but they’ve become significantly worse in the last few years. Obviously I can barely speak to foids. Even with dudes I can only barely speak to them. I can somewhat hold a conversation but it’s clear that they are doing 70-80% the talking. Fuck my life. I’m done trying to improve them too.
Most incels won’t have a good personality anyways and I’m not MTN so what’s the point in trying to talk to ppl when 100% of the time they’ll hate you from the get go.
I can manage a hello or hi, can hold a basic conversation and can barely talk infront of a large group of people. That’s all the social skills I need. Most normies and foids aren’t worth interacting with anyway and will take any opportunity to try to “press” you or embarrass you.

 

[Caichan]

my social skills are in the dirt if someone insults me I have to ignore it since I have 0 replies. I have no common interests with any of the people around me and I can't have conversation without mentioning anime, video games or brainrot. it's over.

I have normal social skills with guys but 0 with foids

 

[MajorThomas666]

It’s very difficult to hone your social skills when no one wants to fucking talk to you as it is in my case. Or they’re just fiddling on their phone using it as a shield so they don’t have to see my face

Jestermaxxing made me feel like a God, only to realize I was being used and abused as an object of entertainment; nobody takes you seriously if the funny object acts serious, and that realization destroyed my social skills and led to negative interactions which further ingrained fear memories.

That's the problem with social skills. They are not a SKILL, they are honed by positive and negative external stimuli. If your interactions are negative, KOR expression will be raised so that fight or flight response increases, and social interactions become painful and anxiety inducing.

It's natural, and God's way of telling you it's over and to hermitmaxx.

There's no point in trying over and over if every time your interactions are negative. It just further ingrains the subconscious fear memory.

Chad has an over-expressed MOR opioid axis due to constant praise and positive interactions by everyone, same with Stacey, so social interactions become... euphoric. Yes, euphoric, due to endogenous opioid release, whereas we have over-expressed KOR which is the dysphoric, anxiety, depression inducing opioid from hell.

 

[Based_Catcel]

My social skills aren't very good

 

[Rapistcel]

my social skills are in the dirt if someone insults me I have to ignore it since I have 0 replies. I have no common interests with any of the people around me and I can't have conversation without mentioning anime, video games or brainrot. it's over.

Bad, Im ugly

 

[NotoriousLoser]

People sense that im Low IQ and neurodivergent. So they dont even start small talk with me.

 

[TimeMachineOrLDAR]

People sense that im Low IQ and neurodivergent. So they dont even start small talk with me.

 

[DutchNDcel]

People just laugh at me, or try to avoid me. Dont even think i can develop social skills with how much tism i have.

 

[PolnischeKartoffel]

I've trained them into a decent level but still some autistic traits and very bad looks make that irrelevant

 

[OverLoner]

Mine have gotten decent after wageslaving in retail for years. You're pretty much obligated to talk to people.

 

[Taboo Buster]

Never taught any to begin with, honestly. Looking back, I find it's one of those you-either-got-it-or-you-aint type of things. I ain't.
Tried to fake it at times, that taught me it's pointless.
But some folks are terrified of being "left out." In and of itself, it's not fatal. But then you look at someone like Robin Williams, and what he put himself thru just to be accepted. He still was an unhappy dude, privately.

 

[Aspiegamercel]

They're terrible because I'm Asperger/Autistic to begin with so they're bad from the start and nobody wants to interact with people like myself.

 

[Autist]

People avoid me because I am an ugly young man. A threat to both men and women.

It is impossible to develop socially when you have been alone your entire life.

 

[RandomGuy]

They say me shy, but I give hell to fake Jeebus Christ people living in la la land, esp boomers.

View: https://youtu.be/Xei9ElGrZn8?si=dflPZfNUrMZbmts1

 

[ZX888]

bad

 

[AutismHaver]

im just boring and too impulsive sometimes, i think thats the worst i have going for me, other than that im not tomoko levels of bad, more like maya

 

[Chaos;BrutaLr2]

my social skills are in the dirt if someone insults me I have to ignore it since I have 0 replies. I have no common interests with any of the people around me and I can't have conversation without mentioning anime, video games or brainrot. it's over.

Terrible, especially when you expect the worst to happen from any given social interaction.

 

[guessthatsit]

Even the NTcels here have poor social skills, over.

 

[ParasiteToSociety]

They were already bad in the first place and thanks to my chronic LDARing they’ve declined even more.

 

[Neurotic]

Utter shit I can barely form a sentence

 

[HeinzKell]

worst on this entire forum

 

[SociallyStunted]

I can only speak to the people at the cash register.

So extremely below average

 

[flute_snoop]

I look out the window to make sure none of my neighbours are around before leaving the house. I HATE the awkwardness. One on my female neighbours actually pretends to check her phone when she sees me walking past her in town. Makes me feel like shit.

 

[160cmbloop]

just open your mouth

‘social skills’ is retarded

it’s something ‘they’ made up to cope with subhumans lack of social success

no one wants to socialize with a subhuman

no such thing as social skills lmao

 

[yakubhitler]

my social skills are in the dirt if someone insults me I have to ignore it since I have 0 replies. I have no common interests with any of the people around me and I can't have conversation without mentioning anime, video games or brainrot. it's over.

Mine used to be bad but then I started observing behavior to try to act nt and mask now I seem pretty normal in public

 

[andrej]

With family and talking to brocels online they are average but anyone else and I'm retarded

 

[Pikacel]

my social skills are in the dirt if someone insults me I have to ignore it since I have 0 replies. I have no common interests with any of the people around me and I can't have conversation without mentioning anime, video games or brainrot. it's over.

The 0 replies shit is real

 

[The Judge]

I have never even purchased an item at a non-digital store before. Nor have I ever ordered food at a restaurant.

Autism and social anxiety make life a nightmare for me.