Blackpill Do you guys overthink because every interaction in your life was bad because of your looks?

[parbate2025]

I mean whenever someone tries to talk to me or tells me something or asks me something i overanalyze stuff because every interaction in my life was kind of bad everyone was dick to me for some reason.

Like people say i have death stare but I don't even try to aggressive to someone.
I just look in there to see if they are joking or thinking about screwing me.

Years of bad treatment has turned me paranoid for some reason.
I can't help my overthinking

 

[ndltn]

Yes, I second guess everything I say to normies, and I always reflect on what I said to normies after a conversation analysing if I said anything 'cringe' or 'out of line'. This is a truecel trait, years of negative reinforcement, bullying and shunning from normies resulted in this.

 

[DjentlemanDuke]

Yes, I second guess everything I say to normies, and I always reflect on what I said to normies after a conversation analysing if I said anything 'cringe' or 'out of line'. This is a truecel trait, years of negative reinforcement, bullying and shunning from normies resulted in this.

 

[Sir Silentium]

I count it more towards Neurodivergence than looks honestly

 

[parbate2025]

I count it more towards Neurodivergence than looks honestly

I am ND like i can talk normally and stuff but normies used to treat me badly and repulsed by the way i look like so i overthink everything

 

[Sir Silentium]

I am ND like i can talk normally and stuff but normies used to treat me badly and repulsed by the way i look like so i overthink everything

Yes. Because then again, looks and ND are generally not mutually exclusive. Due to genetics determining many environmental outcomes.

 

[DjentlemanDuke]

I avoid social interaction most of the time, it is very mentally exhausting. Any time I meet someone who is an acquaintance and the interaction is almost unavoidable, I speak to them in very little details, make the situation less personal and end the conversation as soon as possible. Even my relatives treat me like a complete nobody, it is no surprise to say that, a lot of strangers on the street usually either look down on me with disgust, or they give me the silent treatment from these interactions. Back in the day before I realised my looks were the problem, I used to be very talkative and enthusiastic whenever I talked to someone. It's just that no one cared about my opinion, nor took me seriously.
Now, it's not even possible to socialize anymore. It's just me and my family, but we don't even have a good relationship to begin with. My parents also have their own guests and they usually pay a visit to our house during weekend. But again, they look at me and think that i am some sort of child that was born in Chernobyl, that is immature, and socially anxious. Having Asian parents is just horrible, because they constantly nag you into doing things you don't like

 

[nihilum]

I count it more towards Neurodivergence than looks honestly

 

[PTSD Marsupials]

Most likely neurodivergence. Even HTN and Chadlites will be frowned on if they have obvious austism. Only Chads (perfect in physical appearance) can get away with being autistic.