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Title, Do you guys have online friends. Any on .is or Instagram or smth?

How did make em. Like did you message requested them from a comment they made, or had a convo in replies and then requested them. Random follow spree?

I have been using internet for 5 years but I've never made an online friend. Help me out someone.
 
it's basically what you've mentioned i think
 
You don’t. You let your loneliness cripple you.
 
I never tried explicitly to make friends. I just joined random incel servers on cuckcord, chats on fedgram or incel-adjecent forums and talked to people on there and eventually found a few with whom I can talk.
 
no idea, don't think friends exist better to learn to be content with the isolation
 
no idea, don't think friends exist better to learn to be content with the isolation
Never really wanted any, just a gf
 
What's the investment reward ratio? Like how many friends you made versus how much effort you had to put?
I never tried explicitly to make friends. I just joined random incel servers on cuckcord, chats on fedgram or incel-adjecent forums and talked to people on there and eventually found a few with whom I can talk.
 
Never really wanted any, just a gf
Same. but as time goes on my desire for that is even fading into nothing, i only yearn for death these days. I wouldn't mind a sex slave though:feelsEhh:
 
no idea, don't think friends exist better to learn to be content with the isolation
But when you sit alone in your room. Thinking maybe in another life. Then what?
 
Same. but as time goes on my desire for that is even fading into nothing, i only yearn for death these days. I wouldn't mind a sex slave though:feelsEhh:
Lowkey the whole "need for companionship" is just rhetoric at this point. I don't think I have the ability to connect that deeply with a foid anymore. Basically only want sex.
 
Lowkey the whole "need for companionship" is just rhetoric at this point. I don't think I have the ability to connect that deeply with a foid anymore. Basically only want sex.
But it lowkey pmo when someone uses loneliness as an insult. Heck, incel itself has basically become that.
 
But when you sit alone in your room. Thinking maybe in another life. Then what?
I don't think about another life anymore, i only think about death, i have no desire for another life or round inside this hell, i jusnt want to peacefully die and be done
 
But it lowkey pmo when someone uses loneliness as an insult. Heck, incel itself has basically become that.
I am speaking for myself. I'm sure a decent portion still hold the emotional component.
 
Lowkey the whole "need for companionship" is just rhetoric at this point. I don't think I have the ability to connect that deeply with a foid anymore. Basically only want sex.
tbh I don't think i've ever been able to connect deeply with anyone let alone a foid. i've really only desired sex, companionship has always felt like one big facade to me
 
I don't think about another life anymore, i only think about death, i have no desire for another life or round inside this hell, i jusnt want to peacefully die and be done
I mean that's a way to go about it. Hope maybe a beautiful thing for some, for others it merely prolongs suffering
 
tbh I don't think i've ever been able to connect deeply with anyone let alone a foid. i've really only desired sex, companionship has always felt like one big facade to me
Idk what your background is but I was raised to be alone. I was raised to be an isolationist, so then when I act like one, they better shut the fuck up if they want to complain about it.
 
I am speaking for myself. I'm sure a decent portion still hold the emotional component.
The normgroid order loves to preach empathy and love. And yet when it really comes to it, they all love the order they live in.
 
I never tried explicitly to make friends. I just joined random incel servers on cuckcord, chats on fedgram or incel-adjecent forums and talked to people on there and eventually found a few with whom I can talk.
Look into that
 
if you do you are a normie just one thats physically an incel
 
But man
Much of this "order" is a manifestation of feminism, which is basically what you get when you make hypocrisy an ideology. Here's an example that I recently broke down: https://incels.is/threads/analyzing-evil-feminist-sexual-violence-dnrs-stay-out.885987/
Honestly, the Hunchback of Notre-Dame was written a century before female suffrage in europe.
Yeah, maybe a majority of us would've gotten a woman before it but still the chads among us would have more sex and the absolute losers will have the worst life.
Stories from back then, don't they portray the poor boy who gets the girl as a hot revolutionary, hot robin hood while the rich king as an ugly chud trying manipulate her and whatnot.
Finally, Napoleon became the Emperor of Europe. he was the Great man. And yet, what was used as his insult? His height. The greatest man himself was encapsulated by his height(despite being average) so much so that they named a whole short man stereotype after him

They wanted the great man to be ohysically great too. And that is the blackpill. Ugly colourless peacocks will never have sex and that is what is the blackpill. It trancends all. What do you think?
 
I mean that's a way to go about it. Hope maybe a beautiful thing for some, for others it merely prolongs suffering
I'm not trying to prolong any suffering, i'm actively trying to destroy my body and die faster, i don't believe in hope its a lie
 
Idk what your background is but I was raised to be alone. I was raised to be an isolationist, so then when I act like one, they better shut the fuck up if they want to complain about it.
I was basically raised completely alone, i had no real intervention from my parents they taught me nothing and just sat aronud doing drugs all day or going to work, i was basically forced to raise myself so i'm very isolationist myself too
 
I'm not trying to prolong any suffering, i'm actively trying to destroy my body and die faster, i don't believe in hope its a lie
What can one do after an honest try. He can ldar. That's all it was there for him.
 
I only have like 5 discord friends and we're only friends because we talk once every 4 months or so, so we aren't bored of each other. Known those niggas for like 7-8 years now I doubt I'd be able to make online friends like that today.
 
It's rather non sequitur to my comment. Did you mean to reply to someone else?
You said that most of this new order is because of feminism I said that it precedes that
 
Title, Do you guys have online friends. Any on .is or Instagram or smth?

How did make em. Like did you message requested them from a comment they made, or had a convo in replies and then requested them. Random follow spree?

I have been using internet for 5 years but I've never made an online friend. Help me out someone.
Just by interacting
I mean I still get friends as sub5 in real life by interacting
I think online is the same but maybe a little bit harder
 
I was basically raised completely alone, i had no real intervention from my parents they taught me nothing and just sat aronud doing drugs all day or going to work, i was basically forced to raise myself so i'm very isolationist myself too
Brutal crackheadpill. I had the opposite of this with helicopter parents that shielded me from the whole outside world. Maybe this is a good thing when you're a little kid, but it just got downright foolish moving into adolescence.
 
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You said that most of this new order is because of feminism I said that it precedes that
I see, and agree in part. The current gynocentric order wouldn't exist without feminism, but the essential nature of foids was definitely always there, as you said.
 
I was basically raised completely alone, i had no real intervention from my parents they taught me nothing and just sat aronud doing drugs all day or going to work, i was basically forced to raise myself so i'm very isolationist myself too
Man, it was over before it began for you. Did you become blackpill before you learnt what it was? And does your own blackpill philosophy incorporate class, childhood etc?
 
Brutal crackheadpill. I had the opposite of this with helicopter parents that shielded me from the whole outside world. Maybe this is a good think when you're a little kid, but it just got downright foolish moving in to adolescence.
brutal ends of both extremes, neither is better really but both basically produce the same outcome with subtle differences
 
I see, and agree in part. The current gynocentric order wouldn't exist without feminism, but the essential nature of foids was always there, as you said.
As long as there are winners there must be losers. As long as there are chads there must be chuds
 
Man, it was over before it began for you. Did you become blackpill before you learnt what it was? And does your own blackpill philosophy incorporate class, childhood etc?
I would say i was blackpilled around 7-8 years old, had no clue about anything with it at the time and really didn't start caring to learn about it until mabye 5-6 years ago if that, as for class and childhood i never really attended school either, i had lots of truancy and when i was transitioned to homeschool i literally did nothing but rot.

honestly don't really know where my exact philosophy lands besides in the fact that everything is fucked up and one big circus with no hope for anythnig being fixed
 
brutal ends of both extremes, neither is better really but both basically produce the same outcome with subtle differences
Took the words right out of my mouth:yes: We're both rotting on .is while sexhavers have sex so indeed it's the same
 
Just by interacting
I mean I still get friends as sub5 in real life by interacting
I think online is the same but maybe a little bit harder
Beinterestingpill and gooutsidemaxxing. But nah, I get it. I should do that nonetheless
 
Took the words right out of my mouth:yes: We're both rotting on .is while sexhavers have sex so indeed it's the same
i'm thankful we at least have some community to share our dread with, makes it a bit easier when your living in hell
 
Life
I would say i was blackpilled around 7-8 years old, had no clue about anything with it at the time and really didn't start caring to learn about it until mabye 5-6 years ago if that, as for class and childhood i never really attended school either, i had lots of truancy and when i was transitioned to homeschool i literally did nothing but rot.

honestly don't really know where my exact philosophy lands besides in the fact that everything is fucked up and one big circus with no hope for anythnig being fixed
Is just a highschool and since we failed there we fail here.
 
Took the words right out of my mouth:yes: We're both rotting on .is while sexhavers have sex so indeed it's the same
Chud has to go outside, make friends, get into hobby clubs in hopes a girl likes him and then something may happen while chad walks in and fucks women every day and give them "the best experience in their life". Dichotomy
 
Title, Do you guys have online friends. Any on .is or Instagram or smth?

How did make em. Like did you message requested them from a comment they made, or had a convo in replies and then requested them. Random follow spree?

I have been using internet for 5 years but I've never made an online friend. Help me out someone.
Honestly, i go to roblox where people share stuff abt themselves and if i find someone with the same interest as me i js chat w them and then get their socials to continue talking abt some BS we both like
 

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