Venting Helicopter parents are part of the problem!

[beta_max]

I was never allowed to go outside without any reason except it's something necessary like going to school or buying groceries or some shit. I never learned any social skills or how to behave normally. The first time I was sent to even buy something was in 7th grade. It's like my parents especially my dad did all they can to ruin my life. It's understandable if they were concerned with my safety but they went overboard. Even now I'm not allowed out like a normal person would be. I didn't learn to ride a bicycle until I was 21. Fucking kids younger than that know how to ride a motorbike and even know how to drive a car. My dad never trusted me because he was afraid I would do drugs or some shit if I was allowed to go out freely. I've always been way behind in developmental milestones.

 

[Deleted member 22907]

I was allowed to do pretty much anything I wanted. Still got no social skills

 

[BenBerger]

Based and high IQ.
Many incels that could potentially acsend were fucked-up by the parent to the point of no-ascension-possible.

 

[RandomGuy]

I was a free-range kid. Helped me develop physically for sports, but did nothing for face or being better at social skills.

 

[beta_max]

Based and high IQ.
Many incels that could potentially acsend were fucked-up by the parent to the point of no-ascension-possible.

Having such parents is like living life like a prisoner. It's detrimental to normal development. But I'm used to it now ngl.

 

[Deleted member 20434]

OP is completely right. I’m 16 and my parents don’t let me do shit. If i didn’t have helicopter parents and wasnt raised and gone through went I went through in my life, I maybe would’ve had A chance, but maybe it is cope.

 

[Animecel2D]

I didn't learn to ride a bicycle until I was 21.

I still haven’t learnt this tbh and I’m fucking 25
They never let me outside except for school and thats all. No errands outside, no shopping outside, absolutely nothing outside. They didn’t teach me shit and practically locked me up for 17 years.

 

[Deleted member 23712]

Try having rice parents boyos

 

[RemoveNormalfags]

Mine are/were overprotective

 

[Deleted member 24125]

OP is completely right. I’m 16 and my parents don’t let me do shit. If i didn’t have helicopter parents and wasnt raised and gone through went I went through in my life, I maybe would’ve had A chance, but maybe it is cope.

jfl my brothers the same age and he never even heard of the word incel

 

[Deleted member 20434]

jfl my brothers the same age and he never even heard of the word incel

same. My younger brother my parents let outside now and he has girls on his Snapchat. JFL.

 

[Deleted member 24125]

same. My younger brother my parents let outside now and he has girls on his Snapchat. JFL.

wtf how old is he? 12?

 

[Deleted member 20434]

wtf how old is he? 12?

14, but he started doing this at like 13.

 

[beta_max]

I still haven’t learnt this tbh and I’m fucking 25
They never let me outside except for school and thats all. No errands outside, no shopping outside, absolutely nothing outside. They didn’t teach me shit and practically locked me up for 17 years.

Try having rice parents boyos

No wonder there are so many ricecels.

 

[kikecel]

posted a few threads about how my parents' mental abuse probably contributed to my inceldom

 

[Deleted member 20811]

Lol my mom would do the opposite. She would try to force me outside for whatever reason and get very frustrated when I didn't want to. She would always say shit like "son, when are you going to have friends over?" or "are you going to a friends house? I have no problem driving you".

She's like a reverse over-protective parent and made going outside, socializing, etc, into a forced chore. If she wasn't always trying so hard to push me into socializing and making friends then I wouldn't hate it as much.

This is why I hate talking to normtards so much

 

[beta_max]

Mine are/were overprotective

posted a few threads about how my parents' mental abuse probably contributed to my inceldom

sucks to have such parents.

 

[Deleted member 18214]

my parents don’t let me do shit.

 

[beta_max]

Lol my mom would do the opposite. She would try to force me outside for whatever reason and get very frustrated when I didn't want to. She would always say shit like "son, when are you going to have friends over?" or "are you going to a friends house? I have no problem driving you".

She's like a reverse over-protective parent and made going outside, socializing, etc, into a forced chore. If she wasn't always trying so hard to push me into socializing and making friends then I wouldn't hate it as much.

This is why I hate talking to normtards so much

Yeah, parents can drive you away from a good thing, happens.

 

[Deleted member 20811]

Yeah, parents can drive you away from a good thing, happens.

Not both parents, just my mother. My father was much more reasonable when it came to encouraging socializing etc.

My mother is too much of an outgoing person and she was trying to force those habbits/behaviors on me. Maybe she should have learned that not everyone wants to live like her

 

[Deleted member 23712]

No wonder there are so many ricecels.

Bingo

 

[Joelossus]

Yeah my mom could be considered to be somewhat of a helicopter parent. Although to a much lesser extend, than your parents, op.

 

[AlexanderTheGreat11]

I didn’t had helicopter parents

 

[Deleted member 4159]

Based and high IQ.
Many incels that could potentially acsend were fucked-up by the parent to the point of no-ascension-possible.

Its a very underrated aspect of inceldom. This is a big reason why there are "fakecels" and "mentalcels", or in other words a failed normie. They're not ugly, but they're not goodlooking enough to slay without a social circle. Its also a reason why top tier looks are so idolized by the blackpill community.

 

[beta_max]

Its a very underrated aspect of inceldom. This is a big reason why there are "fakecels" and "mentalcels", or in other words a failed normie. They're not ugly, but they're not goodlooking enough to slay without a social circle. Its also a reason why top tier looks are so idolized by the blackpill community.

That's what's my problem is pretty much.

 

[Capable_Onion]

Pretty similar to my parents tbh.

I've never did any drugs, or went to the store by myself though, that's way too low inhib for me.

 

[JohnDcel]

ranted about that a while ago

https://incels.is/threads/dumb-helicopter-parents.162962/

first time I was sent to buy something I was 16 btw

 

[beta_max]

ranted about that a while ago

https://incels.is/threads/dumb-helicopter-parents.162962/

first time I was sent to buy something I was 16 btw

"Concern for safety", at what cost?

 

[Murdoch89]

My father would have called me in the earliest where as the rest of the kids in the neighbourhood stayed out a bit longer, he also never took me anywhere in my life

 

[Yerberito]

I didn’t had helicopter parents

Me neither

 

[Numb]

Beat + mal developed frontal lobe