Experiment Have you gotten used to your inceldom?

[wasted12years]

Obviously not everyone is going to be able to answer because of timezones and all that. I can't even remember when i got used to my inceldom but i think it was like 10 years ago. I had a different job at that time and didn't have to deal with people. In my current job i have to meet people so it reminds me more of the fact that i'm incel. Of course i think about ascending but only like once a week or so. The very fact that i'm incel doesn't bring me anxiety like in most people. I stopped caring really. I guess that's what happens when you've been incel for so long. Sometimes when i'm coping with whatever, the thought sometimes gets to me that i'm single and lonely but like i wrote it only happens once a week or so.

 

[manletcel1488]

No, I can't accept it.
I would probably be happier if I could but the (probably illusory) chance of ascending is the only thing that motivates me to try at all.

 

[Uninvited]

I am used to it.
I think having no relationship for so long has made me incapable of maintaining one.

 

[Castaway]

I rarely feel anything anymore so I guess that’s a sign I’ve become accustomed

 

[wasted12years]

I am used to it.
I think having no relationship for so long has made me incapable of maintaining one.

Yea ikr. Normies are so used to relationships, drama and all that. Their whole lives revolves around it. It would be a shock for me to get into a relationship today since i've never been in one. I can't even imagine how a foid would act in a relationship. She would demand all kinds of stuff, cheat on you, manipulate you etc. That's part of a western foids nature, but most guys don't realize it and naively gets into a relationship just to get pussy. And they remain in the relationship even if they get mentally tortured by their GF because they worship the pussy, and being single is more pathetic for them than to get abused by their foid GF.

 

[RuudVanNistelrooy]

There is a new 2/10 foid at work, my last chance for ascension and if that fails I give up.

 

[Izaya]

its too early for me atm still have time before it seems like theres no hope

 

[wasted12years]

its too early for me atm still have time before it seems like theres no hope

I felt that way too when i was around 20... "When i'm 25 i'll ascend... No wait when i'm 30 i'll ascend."

Now i'm 33 and i read that there's only a 13% chance you will lose your virginity at age 40 in some countries.

 

[manletcel1488]

Now i'm 33 and i read that there's only a 13% chance you will lose your virginity at age 40 in some countries.

Fuck that's brutal.

 

[ordinaryotaku]

In between the first two options tbh. Throughout the entirety of 2020, I was pretty content with it. But I have to get out every day so sometimes I get reminded of what I want.

 

[McFlurryCel]

I am just living my life as it is. Don't expect to be better anymore

 

[Mayocel]

Honestly, I'm pretty lucky that I don't need much human interaction.
Any normie in my situation would be in a mental hospital already.

 

[SteelCentaur]

Yeah, I've come to terms with it. Now I'm pushing 30 and it's not as bad as it used to be. Living in the current age, we have access to an endless amount of copes.

 

[PersonalityChad]

I wish i could say yes, but i don't think i'm quite there yet tbh

 

[VintageCarCoper]

I’m used to the loneliness in that it feels normal, but that doesn’t mean it stopped hurting. I often daydream about getting a gf, and it’s all I think about before sleep. I imagine scenarios in my head where I managed to get a gf and we are having fun together and loving each other.

 

[Lux]

Will never get used to, will never accept it, will always hate it and forever be stuck in it against my will

 

[SocialOutkast95]

I hit a breaking point around 26-27 years of age... I'm 30 now. My last attempt of trying to "cold approach" was back in 2018 and from there, I just *sighed* and said "fuck it, idc anymore". Sure, there's a sense of resentment that still boils inside me, but actually trying again or if the happenstance of a foid courting me? Never gonna happen. I'm too jaded and fucked up to be around other people. I already lost all my friends, or should I say "friends" as in faggots who just used me. So, I'll call them acquaintances.

Once you lose enough people in your life or you just let people go / cut-ties with them... you start becoming more enlightened with yourself, realizing that going out and dealing with humans voluntarily is gay and a waste of time, especially if you're too old. And yes, 30 is "too old". At that age, most people already have their circle of friends / social group, so if you don't have yours... it's over. Life is literally done with you around your late 20's... you're expected to already be pursuing more "important matters" like a career, house, etc. the whole boomer shit.. which of course is like a wet-dream / impossible at this point. Anyways, you're a loser either way and the loneliness just makes you become more dull, numb and jaded... what's the fucking point?

I put my cowboy hat on and left the saloon years ago... I'm done.

 

[Leonardo Part V]

I think I'm getting used to it. I didn't give up, but the thought of getting a girlfriend no longer excites me like it used to.