There was a girl in highschool I was really into, my oneitis you can say. She knew I really liked her and you know what she does? Fucks some of the guy in my friend group. That was a terrible feeling when I found that out. They tried to keep it hidden from me too. After that I vowed to never be a beta orbiter. Last I heard about her she turned into a landwhale and is still single. If I ever saw in her real life I wouldn't even look at her, just act like she doesn't exist. Not like she would say anything to me anyways