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Do you guys really "stopped caring about sex/foids"?

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Every few weeks I'll say to myself "I don't care about foids anymore, i don't care about sex" and think i really got over it but then a few weeks or even days later I start feeling lonely and sad again, does this ever stop or we'll live with it our entire lives even if we tell ourselves that we "control it"?
 
At around 50 years old
 
I just want some basic social validation, and to feel like my existence, means something to someone, at this point.
 
Wait until you find half of married men feel like that too at some point. NOw THAT'S some brutal blackpill... .
 
I just want some basic social validation, and to feel like my existence, means something to someone, at this point.
now acceptance for nd sub5s
 
I just want some basic social validation, and to feel like my existence, means something to someone, at this point.
This, i just want to feel like someone cares about me not just because they're my family but because as a person I seem important to them, I'm also extremely touch starved and at this point id rather hold hands or cuddling than sex but i know it will never happen.
 
I gave up 10 years ago.
 
yes I stopped caring about that.
IG it was when I tried cold approaches a long time ago and got disillusioned.
 
Every few weeks I'll say to myself "I don't care about foids anymore, i don't care about sex" and think i really got over it but then a few weeks or even days later I start feeling lonely and sad again, does this ever stop or we'll live with it our entire lives even if we tell ourselves that we "control it"?
Nothing matters to me rn
 
no girlfriend for your face
 
Yeah somehow, i dont look at them, i dont talk to them(even at work, if its possible), i dont give them attention, just nothing bro
 
Every few weeks I'll say to myself "I don't care about foids anymore, i don't care about sex" and think i really got over it but then a few weeks or even days later I start feeling lonely and sad again, does this ever stop or we'll live with it our entire lives even if we tell ourselves that we "control it"?
After enough years of fapping and hearing of horror stories of married or men in relationships and hearing enough lectures about how you need to change x/y/z to "earn" a partner, you begin the descent into apathy
 
Every few weeks I'll say to myself "I don't care about foids anymore, i don't care about sex" and think i really got over it but then a few weeks or even days later I start feeling lonely and sad again, does this ever stop or we'll live with it our entire lives even if we tell ourselves that we "control it"?
It’s impossible to stop caring about women and sex.

Why? Because it’s part of every form of media. You cannot consume media without hearing about sex, love and women. It’s EVERYWHERE. You will get reminded of it every day

On top of that companionship and intimacy is a biological urge. You will never stop desiring it. You are not a monk and even monks struggle with these desires despite the fact they live disconnected from the modern world

The only realistic solution is an ai gf
 

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