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Have you ever changed your mentality/way you live life radically?

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Name is Abdu, live in Laos, born on 24.08.1992.
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I've been craving and thinking of change for years now. I need it but I can't, I have no willpower or discipline.

What I really want to do is to stop watching movies/tv shows and browsing the internet mindlessly. That's all I do in my free time, I just vegetate mindlessly on the internet. I wish I could avoid unproductive activities and just be productive in my free time, do something to improve my life.

Have you ever went through radical change?
 
yes bro, I went from being a hedonistic faggot /i.e. embracing the LDAR lifestyle) to less of a hedonistic faggot. Life still fucking sucks, but at least I don't get sick as often
 
yes bro, I went from being a hedonistic faggot /i.e. embracing the LDAR lifestyle) to less of a hedonistic faggot. Life still fucking sucks, but at least I don't get sick as often
So you work out now? What else? Do you still waste time on LDAR-like activities?
 
I used to gymcel, was still very depressed.
 
Everything I do is to pass time till I get to fall asleep, then do it all over again. If I had friends or a gf everything in my life would be different.
 
So you work out now? What else? Do you still waste time on LDAR-like activities?
I workout, run, read, study, and browse this forum. It's all a cope anyway as the only thing you're accomplishing in practice is a slowing down of the rotting of the process, but at least you have some sort of goal and meaning with existence by structuring your daily life like this. I'm also an aspie retard that just lays in bed with zero motivation to do anything unless I set myself goals
 
I legit live pretty much the same life I did at 15.
 
I workout, run, read, study, and browse this forum. It's all a cope anyway as the only thing you're accomplishing in practice is a slowing down of the rotting of the process, but at least you have some sort of goal and meaning with existence by structuring your daily life like this. I'm also an aspie retard that just lays in bed with zero motivation to do anything unless I set myself goals
Jogs me
 
I used to do like you, the change happened when I noticed that my copes weren't working anymore. The last nail in the coffin was the cuckization of the multimedia.

Basically, I replaced LDAR copes with productive copes. Productive copes are terraforming my psyche and making me numb, but at least I don't suffer post-game depression like when I used to finish one.

I prefer end up feeling nothing than suffering. Zero is greater than any negative number.
 
I'm a lot more selfish now, focused on looksmaxxing, and am way more introspective than I was. I was already extremely introspective before being blackpilled. I'm a lot more cynical and angry about all of my experiences.
 
I used to do like you, the change happened when I noticed that my copes weren't working anymore. The last nail in the coffin was the cuckization of the multimedia.

Basically, I replaced LDAR copes with productive copes. Productive copes are terraforming my psyche and making me numb, but at least I don't suffer post-game depression like when I used to finish one.

I prefer end up feeling nothing than suffering. Zero is greater than any negative number.
My copes haven't been working for quite a while now. I'm very bored, but vegetating and disabling my brain is easier than doing something productive. For some reason I get great anxiety when I'm not lying in bed with my laptop vegetating.

What exactly are your productive copes? I'm trying to get some, but so far they all seem boring or pointless. Learning languages, going to the gym etc.. those aren't really my thing.
 
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No, im still the same tbh.
 
A good way to living a better life is realising there's more to it than sex. Going to the gym made me feel way better about my existence but what helped most of all was philosophy and meditation. Dont be a neet or you might as well rope.
 
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A good way to living a better life is realising there's more to it than sex. Going to the gym made me feel way better about my existence but what helped most of all was philosophy and meditation. Dont be a neet or you might as well rope.
Pretty much this.. Although in my case it was more about 10 years of undoing and redirecting the damage done to my psyche than "realising there's more to life than sex".
 
Yes. I pretended to be female online for 12 years and society treats you infinity times better while doing that than whatever lifting records you can break.
 
yea all the time, it doesn't matter if your ugly woman still hate you. the only change i can do now is my environment, gonna move away from my country see how it goes.
 
yes i would say i did and not regret it
 
I have not changed my lifestyle in many years tbh
 
I've been craving and thinking of change for years now. I need it but I can't, I have no willpower or discipline.

What I really want to do is to stop watching movies/tv shows and browsing the internet mindlessly. That's all I do in my free time, I just vegetate mindlessly on the internet. I wish I could avoid unproductive activities and just be productive in my free time, do something to improve my life.

Have you ever went through radical change?
I tried most things which don't involve public humiliation, including your avi's life changing method. But most of the attempts only lasted for a day or two so no I can't say that I have.
 
I've been craving and thinking of change for years now. I need it but I can't, I have no willpower or discipline.

What I really want to do is to stop watching movies/tv shows and browsing the internet mindlessly. That's all I do in my free time, I just vegetate mindlessly on the internet. I wish I could avoid unproductive activities and just be productive in my free time, do something to improve my life.

Have you ever went through radical change?
Nobody ever really changes. Unless they are traumatised. It is never in the positive. Virtue signalers may seem to. OH I've found God!
 
Yes, in ways that would make me very wealthy. Whether it’s real estate, entrepreneurship, pharmaceuticals, psychiatry, etc...
 
Yes, years ago. I had a strong willpower and discipline.
At the end of the day, still ugly, still here.
 
I've lived very healthily while at college.I Would walk or run at least an hour and a half a day and ate mostly fruit and cooked vegetables,did bodyweight exercises daily,avoided refined sugar etc.,tried to be as productive as I can,mostly avoided internet and vidya.

Nothing changed,felt much better physically though.
 
yes i now only focus on positive things most of the time
 

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