I was alone in dance hall full of ppl and I didn't know anyone there, it was mistake that I went to it
No
For me parties were just really boring. I only went to try and meet girls and hopefully get a gf out of it, which obviously didn't pan out. Most guys at parties are trying to do the same, so they'll just look at you as a competitor.
Personally, while I'm a natural extrovert, I've always preferred socializing either one-on-one or in a small group where we all know each other really well. That's when people are the most open and will share things they otherwise wouldn't.
In larger groups or in settings like parties people are more guarded and performative. Even worse, many get extremely competitive and engage in constant one-upmanship.
Same here! Although, I mustn't lie, it's pretty hard to get into those situations with people when you're an incel—these days, at least...
Yeah, these days young people are isolated, atomized, introverted, closed-off, paranoid of strangers and terminally online. They lack real social skills and seem to rely on either virtue signaling or "layers of irony".
There's also no more "third place". Back when I was young we'd go and hang out at the arcade or the mall. But those are mostly gone now. The few malls that still exist mostly only have boomers walking around. Most of my coworkers are zoomers, and it's very obvious that their lives are just work, class, gym, and internet. And whenever I do see a group of zoomers in the wild, they all have their faces stuffed in their phones.
I was very extroverted when I was young, and I like to get to know people on a personal level, so I would really hate growing up in today's socially oppressive environment. My only options would be to be a self-flagellating virtue signaler or a memelord ironybro who thinks any form in sincerity is "cringe".
I wholeheartedly agree. The theatrics, the social media, the sheer dissipation—it all reeks of anathema to me. I just can't stand it.
I suppose that was why I find myself ever-grateful for this forum and places like 4chan. Which, while certainly being a far-cry from what they used to be—are far more pleasant than the other hell I'd have to endure without them. It's also a large reason why I'm so grateful for you all, too.
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Nope
Never, i dont even know what people do at parties.
By myself or with friends? No I haven't, only to parties where my whole family just goes and they just take me along with them, usually I'm only there for the food and I hardly interact with any of the guests.
When I was a kid I got invited pretty frequently to birthday parties, after middle school no never, but Im not really interested in them anyway.
When I was in primary school and the whole class was invited. I had one of my own when I was 8 at an indoor sports facility, my parents notified all the parents yet only a few people showed up. I went to another one in year 9 from this Lebanese guy, nobody wanted me there and they made it very clear. His parents were quite nice to me though. That was the last party I think i'll ever attend.
I've been taken to a few by my mom, but I would almost always just end up hanging out in the corner doing nothing, except for eating.
No
Never been invited
Never been invited
Only one time excluding grade school birthday parties before age 13. Went with a friend (I actually had a friend back then) to a Halloween party once when I was 18 and I went and got a little tipsy and danced very awkwardly and weirdly in front of a female. Regretted it a lot the next day.
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"Partying" is drinking alcohol and either standing around trying to chat with female or lightly dancing to bad music usually rap I think.
No, and I don't mind because I'm a giga high-inhib sperg who hates being around others
I've been to a lot of parties, but I've personally never gotten invited to any, and I really only attend these parties just to get drunk rather than fraternize with people who obviously live better lives than me, and it's not like I can talk to women my age. They'd probably laugh at me for doing something miniscule like walking past them, and they'd probably treat me like shit I genuinely hate the people at these parties. They are the most discourteous people ever and none of them deserve to live good lives.
5 or 6 times, which is much less than the average normscum but way more than the average brocel.
See when you're playing an open world video game, and you always pass in front of houses and buildings you can't enter? It felt like entering in one of those. Like you managed to get a cheat code allowing you to go somewhere you were not supposed to go. Entering a place you feel like you have no business being in.
See when you're playing an open world video game, and you always pass in front of houses and buildings you can't enter? It felt like entering in one of those. Like you managed to get a cheat code allowing you to go somewhere you were not supposed to go. Entering a place you feel like you have no business being in.
Only as a lil kid at bday parties
Not once in my entire life.
What were they like tho? I know you didn't do much at them but what were the normfags doing?
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