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LDAR Have you ever been to a party?

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I've never been to one. Never got invited to one and I don't even know where I'd go to find one. Even then, it's not like I have anyone to go with either. It doesn't seem like the most fun thing in the world, but I kinda want to try it at least once. I remember walking around my university campus and seeing frat houses with all the lights and the music and all that. I probably wouldn't fit in but I still feel left out.
 
No I haven’t
 
I've never been to one. Never got invited to one and I don't even know where I'd go to find one. Even then, it's not like I have anyone to go with either. It doesn't seem like the most fun thing in the world, but I kinda want to try it at least once. I remember walking around my university campus and seeing frat houses with all the lights and the music and all that. I probably wouldn't fit in but I still feel left out.
 
never go outside unless absolutely necessary, never go to any social gathering of any kind you will either be the jester of the group or no one will ever talk to u

over
 
Birthday parties as a grade shooler, yes. But they sound like a nightmare, I would've rejected even if offered. Just a whole lot of standing around and checking your phone.
 
Birthday parties as a grade shooler, yes. But they sound like a nightmare, I would've rejected even if offered. Just a whole lot of standing around and checking your phone.
yeah I'd probably do the same
 
Only when i was a kid.
 
I've never been to one. Never got invited to one and I don't even know where I'd go to find one. Even then, it's not like I have anyone to go with either. It doesn't seem like the most fun thing in the world, but I kinda want to try it at least once
Same!
 
I've never been to one. Never got invited to one and I don't even know where I'd go to find one. Even then, it's not like I have anyone to go with either. It doesn't seem like the most fun thing in the world, but I kinda want to try it at least once. I remember walking around my university campus and seeing frat houses with all the lights and the music and all that. I probably wouldn't fit in but I still feel left out.
I have been a few times, but never invited.

For me it was boring and uneventful as fuck because I don't drink alcohol and girls don\t want anything to do with me. You cant talk to anyone because the music is too loud and you're always either dancing 'too much' or 'too little'. I stuck out like a sore thumb because everybody already knows what I am.
An isolated freak with no friends,

The floors are wet and dirty and smell like piss and alcohol (sometimes vomit). And you constantly see people making out.
In conclusion, don't bother unless you like humiliation rituals.
 
I have been a few times, but never invited.

For me it was boring and uneventful as fuck because I don't drink alcohol and girls don\t want anything to do with me. You cant talk to anyone because the music is too loud and you're always either dancing 'too much' or 'too little'. I stuck out like a sore thumb because everybody already knows what I am.
An isolated freak with no friends,

The floors are wet and dirty and smell like piss and alcohol (sometimes vomit). And you constantly see people making out.
In conclusion, don't bother unless you like humiliation rituals.
I guess does sound pretty awful. I think it would be different if girls actually showed interest in me tho
 
I guess does sound pretty awful. I think it would be different if girls actually showed interest in me tho
Yeah, if girls showed interest to me there.I wouldn't be on this forum.
 
Only once, and I just stood in a corner for a couple hours. Couldn't interact with anyone.
 
Not a true party been to a shitty meetup party thing and left after 15 minutes because I didn't have anyone to talk to
 
No. Was invited once though.
Anyway, why would anyone here go there?
 
Birthday parties when I was a kid? Yeah. Any party after I hit 13? Nope. Never invited, I literally don't even know if any of my peers went to (or held) parties when I was in highschool. I'm not sure if that's because I'm a massive outcast or if that's because people in my area don't set up parties. Idk.

The only thing to do at parties is to socialize and I'm fucking shit at that. Looking at the other responses here, if I were to go i'd probably stick out like a sore thumb and just get made fun of.
 
I've never been to one. Never got invited to one and I don't even know where I'd go to find one. Even then, it's not like I have anyone to go with either. It doesn't seem like the most fun thing in the world, but I kinda want to try it at least once. I remember walking around my university campus and seeing frat houses with all the lights and the music and all that. I probably wouldn't fit in but I still feel left out.
I’ve been to cousins birthday parties
 
Never ever. I remember as a kid getting hurt by hearing how others celebrated birthdays together because i was never invited. Though my retarded parents wouldn't let me go anyway.
 
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ofc not truecels will never get an invite to a party
 
Never got invited to one
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If been to some but as non NT goin to partys is as suicidefuel as not goin there.
You basically see young foids talkin and flirtin with everyone while constantly avoiding you and in the end you talk to the same people you already know.
 
back in highschool yes, it was a highschool party hosted by the school itself, my mother pretty much forced me to go because she said I needed to "socialize" :foidSoy::foidSoy::foidSoy::foidSoy::foidSoy:

the entire experience was hell, I sat alone the entire time while normies were dancing to nigger music
 
Excluding bday parties I think I've only been to one that was a school party, left there drunk and obviously didn't interact with any f*males
 
I remember going to a few frat parties as a freshman in college. To get in you'd have to either know somebody or have some girls in your group. So it helped a lot to have guy friends who have girlfriends to use as bait. I think the only thing I enjoyed about them was the beer pong. And that's even more fun when you do it with a small group of bros not random people you'll never remember.
 
Plenty. For those who never went to one, I can tell you that you didn't miss out on anything. It's nothing like how the hollywood movies portray them.

Every party I have ever been to was a sausage fest. If you're an ugly guy those are the only parties you'll get invited to. There are parties that are hosted by women that have better gender ratios, but the women who host these make damn sure no ugly men get in. I found that out the hard way.

My main motivator when it came to going to these parties was to approach women. But out of the few girls who were at these parties, most of them were with a boyfriend who was mateguarding her like his life depended on it. I did approach some ones who were single but they quickly shot me down. Any single woman who was there was quickly surrounded by orbiters competing with each other for her attention, with her only really chatting with the best looking guy.

But really they were all really boring. Just a bunch of drunk dudes orbiting the few single women there (if there even were any), complaining about the lack of women, and then watching some movie I'd already seen before, or some shitty movie I didn't care about.
 
but the women who host these make damn sure no ugly men get in. I found that out the hard way.
Story?

most of them were with a boyfriend who was mateguarding her like his life depended on it.
Lmao. I wonder if he even wanted to go to a party. Was probably forced.

Although I already know this, from your post i've gathered that's it's really easy for women to get attention while we're completely invisible (to both women and other men).
 
Last time I went to a party was 2022. Junior year of high school, awful experience.
 
NPC/ NT trait: you are invited to and go to parties.
 
Yeah, once, at age 23
 
Never, in fact, once the organizer of a party to which the whole class, including some teachers, was invited came to me and a friend (also rejected and weird, which is why we were friends) and explained to us why he didn't invite us and that we were social outcasts.
 
Went to very few when I was little, never was invited to a single one since then.
 
Been to metal concerts, enjoyed the bands, hated the people there.
 
Truecel trait: you never attended a party
 
Plenty. For those who never went to one, I can tell you that you didn't miss out on anything. It's nothing like how the hollywood movies portray them.

Every party I have ever been to was a sausage fest. If you're an ugly guy those are the only parties you'll get invited to. There are parties that are hosted by women that have better gender ratios, but the women who host these make damn sure no ugly men get in. I found that out the hard way.

My main motivator when it came to going to these parties was to approach women. But out of the few girls who were at these parties, most of them were with a boyfriend who was mateguarding her like his life depended on it. I did approach some ones who were single but they quickly shot me down. Any single woman who was there was quickly surrounded by orbiters competing with each other for her attention, with her only really chatting with the best looking guy.

But really they were all really boring. Just a bunch of drunk dudes orbiting the few single women there (if there even were any), complaining about the lack of women, and then watching some movie I'd already seen before, or some shitty movie I didn't care about.
Mm, seems pretty exhausting. I just don't understand what you're even meant to really do at parties—what does 'partying' constitute? Just standing around and lightly dancing? Drinking? It doesn't seem like much of a "party" to me. If anything, it seems like more of a dissipated hellhole...
 
When I was 12, in this one kid invited me to his shitty lil birthday party.
He were familiar with eachother at school, but not friends.
I don't even remember what I heard party was like.
I just stood in the corner, drinking a drink like that meme.

4pn1an
 
Co-workers do parties sometimes, rarely, they invite me too, probably out of politeness.
I went a few time, it wasn't worth it.
 
The only party I have ever been to was after finishing school and I'd just get all drunk and smoke weed all late evening and night.

I then puked my guts out and left in the early morning after taking a nap.

I didn't even party or convers with the normgroids from my class much.

I just went from one drink to another and smoked a joint in between for several hours.
 
I've never been to one. Never got invited to one and I don't even know where I'd go to find one. Even then, it's not like I have anyone to go with either. It doesn't seem like the most fun thing in the world, but I kinda want to try it at least once. I remember walking around my university campus and seeing frat houses with all the lights and the music and all that. I probably wouldn't fit in but I still feel left out.
Yeah I got really drunk off everclear and started calling the blacks niggers and almost got my friends ass kicked lol. That was a good time like 3 day hangover from that too.
 
Mm, seems pretty exhausting. I just don't understand what you're even meant to really do at parties—what does 'partying' constitute? Just standing around and lightly dancing? Drinking? It doesn't seem like much of a "party" to me. If anything, it seems like more of a dissipated hellhole...

I'll repost a post I made about my experiences with parties when I was younger. This was during the mid to late 2000s:

I went to plenty of parties when I was much younger, and trust me when I say you aren't missing out on much.

Some incels get the idea that parties are like how those hollywood movies from the 90s and 2000s portray them, but those are just written that way to appeal to male fantasy.

Every party I have ever been to has been a sausage fest to some degree. Usually guys will be vocal about it too. "ey yo! where the bitches at?" "can we get some bitches up in here?" "ey yo next time everybody gotta bring a bitch!".

There are a lot of parties where there is an even ratio or more women, but as an ugly male you won't get invited to them. One time a chadlite friend of mine tried to bring me to a party he was invited to. This girl opened the door and she was like "him, NO!" my friend tried to talk her into allowing me in and she was just all "EWWWW NO! YOU DIDN'T TELL ME YOUR FRIEND LOOKED LIKE THAT EWWWWWW". Naturally I wasn't allowed in. On another occasion a good looking friend of mine texted this girl who was hosting a party if he could bring a friend (me). She asked him to sent her a pic. I instantly told him "no, don't bother, she's gonna say no." He acted like I was being absurd for even suggesting this would happen, but he talked me into it, took a pic of me, sent it to her....and of course she said no.

Getting back to the point though...parties are for the most part, remarkably boring. Maybe they're fun if you're super into drinking, but I never was and only drank socially. I've only been truly "shitface" drunk a handful of times and it's not really a pleasant experience for me. I'm just more irritable when drunk, and I always got a horrible hangover. Anyway, there's a chance someone who's drunk and/or high will do something extremely stupid and it might provide a moment of entertainment value, but that's really about it. Other than that it was getting rejected by any single women that were there (I was in "cold approach" mode at this age) and watching some movie I'd already seen before with a bunch of other dudes. And for some reason at a bunch of parties I went to there'd be a guy who convinces everyone to watch Loose Change (9/11 "truther" documentary, pretty sure that's where the "jet fuel can't melt steel beams" meme came from, or at least what inspired it, but they were being completely unironic). Like this happened like 6 times...and it's not like it was the same guy every time either. I had to sit through that shit 6 fucking times, because there'd always be some dudebro who insisted it would blow everyone's mind. JFL.
 
I once was at schools christmas party and it was one of worst days
 
One time a chadlite friend of mine tried to bring me to a party he was invited to. This girl opened the door and she was like "him, NO!" my friend tried to talk her into allowing me in and she was just all "EWWWW NO! YOU DIDN'T TELL ME YOUR FRIEND LOOKED LIKE THAT EWWWWWW".
Uwaaaaa... brutal. Still though, I can't say it surprises me. I wouldn't ever even bother to begin with, to be honest—parties sound like hell, and your description only reinforces that belief of mine.
 
If you’re excluding family events then no
 

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